Chat Can you trust spa girls...

[Lalallala]

If you're really close to her, there's a good chance she will still see you on the side. The girl I really like, she told me next year she might need to settle down and find a partner. She's been single ever since she came to Canada and the financial burden is really hard on her. It will sting a lot but I know it's inevitable. I asked if she will still see me and without hesitation she said yes...I guess we'll see.

But this is exactly why it's important to have a few faves you really like at any given time...

I’m not sure if starting off a new relationship with the plan on having a side piece is a good relationship dynamic, unless it’s explicit when the relationship starts.

I am hoping to get a partner next year since I want a bit more than just these massage sessions. A problem is - now that I know these moves from the spa girls, how do I teach the new girl the moves? Like.. not gonna tell her that so and so from such a spa did this and I want you to as well. If I lie and say porn, what if she wants to see the video, assuming she’s open minded enough

Transition is gonna be tricky.

 

[cl794]

If you're really close to her, there's a good chance she will still see you on the side. The girl I really like, she told me next year she might need to settle down and find a partner. She's been single ever since she came to Canada and the financial burden is really hard on her. It will sting a lot but I know it's inevitable. I asked if she will still see me and without hesitation she said yes...I guess we'll see.

But this is exactly why it's important to have a few faves you really like at any given time...

so she'll see you after she's married? not a bad situation as long as it's kept secret by everyone.

 

[cl794]

I've known one girl for many years and she summed it up nicely for me one time. She said she would be a horrible girlfriend, but a great wife.

My guess is she wants the safety and status of being a wife, so she imagines out of nowhere that she'd be great wife, as if to convince some imaginary guy to wife her up.

in reality, she very well could become terrible wife once she actually secured the wife position and therefore no longer need to try.

 

[cl794]

Same boat, different place along the journey. Still have a few more years to go. I put up with years of abuse and celibacy before accepting I wasn't dead yet, and accepting that it was okay to put my needs first. The hobby and the ladies in this industry have allowed me to remain sane and optimistic while providing my kids with a stable home. Some would call that ironic, but it is true and I appreciate the ladies of spa world GTA for their good work.

thanks for sharing guys, from a never-married guy.

the discussions about marriage is not about bashing anyone as terrible people, but more that marriage as institution/system creates a kind of Stanford prison experiment - Wikipedia where even everyday people could start behaving like sadists.

the point is that prison environment itself is not good.

 

[OG_funguy]

Having fun with a nice girl right now , will have to catch up with the discussion later

 

[Johnjoebowler]

Having fun with a nice girl right now , will have to catch up with the discussion later

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I'm gonna block you!!!

 

[Ambler]

Having fun with a nice girl right now , will have to catch up with the discussion later

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Video to follow?

 

[OG_funguy]

She’s gonna get hitched … then still have escapades w u ?

… she should b careful 2 fish in the loser pool ! Most guys not gonna b up 4 sharing their wives… & gonna prolly suss it out if she does it on the sly …

… that being said… some spa gals now have hubbies in China…

Lots of gals have hubbies and BF's here lol...

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

If only we all had the same luck as you Master OG!!.
Good for you!!

Oh crap. I got Boxing Day

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Having fun with a nice girl right now , will have to catch up with the discussion later

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Monte Carlo Inn?

 

[Lalallala]

Monte Carlo Inn?

oh man. you take your girls there TOO?

 

[xtc27]

Lots of gals have hubbies and BF's here lol...

 

[Ambler]

oh man. you take your girls there TOO?

Shhhhhh!

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

oh man. you take your girls there TOO?

It’s good value

 

[OG_funguy]

It’s good value

Yep…$130 all in

How do you know if you hobby too much?

The lady at the hotel front desk smiles and says “you’re back again?”

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

It’s good value

And 2 convenient locations to serve your needs

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Yep…$130 all in

How do you know if you hobby too much?

The lady at the hotel front desk smiles and says “you’re back again?”

Or she says “your regular room sir?”

 

[OG_funguy]

Or she says “your regular room sir?”

Don’t laugh, she gave me the exact same room three times already…

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Don’t laugh, she gave me the exact same room three times already…

She only gives me the same room when she sees the same girl…away from the elevator

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Don’t laugh, she gave me the exact same room three times already…

You know it’s bad when she knows your license plate by heart for the parking