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Some time ago, a British pilot in Shanghai reached out to me with a unique request — an emotional rollercoaster session carefully designed to take him through a stark contrast of emotions. He longed to experience the intoxicating warmth of affection, praise, and tenderness, only to be plunged...

Shanghai, a city where cultures blend seamlessly, has become a haven for expats exploring new lifestyles and experiences. In an intimate series of interviews, I conducted a private interview, asking expats one provocative question: “What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done?” Here, I...

In my experience as a professional mistress in Shanghai, I have encountered 600 submissive men during BDSM sessions. Despite the extensive number of individuals I have interacted with, only 50% of them have left a deep impression on me. The reasons behind this discrepancy are both varied and...

Over the past 16 years, I’ve had the privilege of meeting nearly 600 submissive men for BDSM sessions. Each encounter brings its own unique dynamics, and when I’m asked, “Which session is your favorite?” it used to be a tough question. How could I choose from such a vast array of experiences...

The world of BDSM is vast, with a rich tapestry of desires, fetishes, and kinks that go beyond the traditional boundaries of what most people might expect. From the well-known to the obscure, the beauty of kink lies in the diversity of human imagination and the endless possibilities for...

I am Dominatrix Alessandra in Shanghai. During a particularly intense pain session with a British slave, something remarkable happened. As I carved my name into his chest with slow, deliberate scratches, I looked deeply into his eyes. In that moment, he became completely mesmerized by my gaze...

In the world of BDSM, the dynamics between a dominatrix and her submissives are typically professional, built on a foundation of trust, mutual respect, and a shared exploration of fantasies. However, the idea of a dominatrix dating one of her submissives often piques curiosity. How likely is it...

I am dominatrix Alessandra living and working in Shanghai and my wechat is mistress-queen Master the Rejection Kink of an Irish Slave Humiliate a Scottish Slave in a Once-in-a-Lifetime Scene Spank and Shower a Traditional Jewish Slave in a Sacred Bible Story Indulge a European Slave's Suit...

In the heart of Shanghai, where the skyline is as dynamic as the lives of its inhabitants, I, Alessandra, have carved out a niche that celebrates the intriguing and often misunderstood world of BDSM — specifically, water sports. As a dominatrix, I have had the unique opportunity to explore this...

The swiss man resides in a cozy apartment. His meals are often enjoyed at charming restaurants, where the ambiance is as delightful as the food itself, and his wardrobe is curated with care, showcasing elegant outfits that make him feel confident and put-together. Yet, despite these comforts...

Why confine BDSM to the four walls of a room? I am Shanghai Pro Domme Alessandra and love to incorporate various kink elements into immersive experiences, like a walking or day tour around Shanghai. Here’s a glimpse into one of the unforgettable outings I designed for expats living and working...

In recent years, the BDSM scene in China has blossomed, offering enthusiasts a rich tapestry of experiences that range from the playful to the profound. Whether you’re a curious beginner or a seasoned participant, understanding the costs associated with BDSM sessions is essential for budgeting...

I am Dominatrix Alessandra in Shanghai, where I typically engage in one-on-one BDSM sessions. However, I decided to break from my usual routine for a thrilling encounter with the Australian twin brothers. I crafted an elaborate mindfuck game centered around the classic prisoner’s dilemma...

A businessman from Dubai ordered a chastity game session with me. On the day of our meeting, I stepped into his hotel room in Shanghai. I had a plan that transcended the ordinary. Once I had secured him within the chastity device, I grinned mischievously as I retrieved a large glass container...

An Saudi expat contacted me for a semi-public pain training in Suzhou. “Are you ready to explore your limits?” I asked in his hotel room. With a nod, he surrendered to my control. The evening promised to be unforgettable as I revealed my intentions. From my well-prepared bag, I retrieved a...

For many individuals, childhood trauma can deeply affect their emotional and psychological development. One of the most significant impacts is how early experiences of pain, anxiety, or fear become twisted with feelings of safety or release later in life. Surprisingly, these connections often...

Sexual fetishes can stem from childhood experiences or sometimes childhood trauma. In many cases, trauma can lead to two distinct psychological responses: avoidance and fetishization. Avoidance is fairly straightforward — when someone experiences something traumatic, they tend to steer clear of...

I had an incredibly memorable session with my Swiss slave in Beijing that truly pushed boundaries and explored the depths of our dynamic. We began our evening at a lavish restaurant, where the atmosphere was opulent and inviting. As we dined, I decided to introduce an element of playful...

I had an incredibly memorable session with my Swiss slave in Beijing that truly pushed boundaries and explored the depths of our dynamic. We began our evening at a lavish restaurant, where the atmosphere was opulent and inviting. As we dined, I decided to introduce an element of playful...

I am dominatrix Alessandra in Shanghai. I often maintain a clear separation between my professional role and personal emotions. However, a recent encounter with a toilet slave has triggered a complex duality within me. Part of me feels an unexpected attraction to him — an undeniable pull that...