1st date massage a good or bad idea?

[Austin]

I am 24 going on a 1st date with a 24 yr old as well....i was thinking a side by side massage would be fun...who doesn't like to get a massage...i have hung out with the girl twice out at bars with friends if that matters....i guess i just want it to be fun and not the lame dinner-and-movie gig....

good or bad idea?????

 

[Gottschalk]

This depends on how comfortable you are with each other, if you have had previous light friendly touching it may not be too far off, but without so it might be a jump. Also if the girl is open and outgoing then it may not be a big deal, but someone reserved and a little more shy it might be too far. I would suggest a foot massage since I feel like most wouldn't take touching feet to be a big deal. The only problem is that many girls I have met are self-conscious about their feet (I never really understood..). If you feel that it wouldn't be a big jump, I would suggest offering both, and acting appropriately to her reaction of your gesture.

 

[David]

If the two of you are pretty comfortable with each other then it's not a bad idea, but if you are still trying to get to know each other better, i'd suggest something a little less intimate, maybe more fun so you can interact more, make her laugh and what not. A massage seems like it would be quiet, which leads to social discomfort between the two. Maybe something dorky, bowling or putt putt, maybe some pool at another bar. Just my opinion though, good luck bro.

 

[amber]

I think that is a great idea!

 

[Lickmy Scrotum]

as long as you make that dirty asian masseuse give u a happy ending while she watches sounds like a diesel idea to me..