competition between MPA

[Store Brand Mayonnaise]

it was my second visit to HFH and both times i had the same MPA.

i don't like to make appointments because they are hard for me to keep. anyway on my second visit she seemed a little insecure and asked me if i had come to see one of the other girls (Jade and Cameron were both there) or did i come to see her.

so my question is; is there a lot of competition between these girls? i mean she was amazing both times and i will definitely see her again but i do like to try different girls.

 

[seashell2525]

Why not try a different spa all together? Some girls get territorial with their clients. Granted this may not be the case with Jade or Cameron, but you never know.

I was put into a very uncomfortable position at the spa on Brown Line. My regular MPA was busy so I chose an available lady. After my session, my regular MPA spotted me. She started shouting at the attendant I stayed with. She accused her of stealing her client. I thought that it was going to break into a cat fight. (Not that a cat fight is necessarilly a bad thing... just kidding) I won't mention the names of the attendants, but I chose not to return.

 

[FarmerCec]

Not to sound nasty, but this situation is similar to one that salespeople always fall into - Keeping customers.

I have experienced both situations. I usually visited this one girl at a spa and one day I made an appointment to see another girl. When I arrived the MPA I usually see was at the desk. When I told her I had an appointment with so & so she was quite cold towards me - Didn't even say hi. I felt very uncomfortable with her attitude. (I have not seen her since this episode)

On the other hand the MPA I frequent at a different spa was telling me about the other girls who worked there & who I should try. She suggessted that so & so provides this type of massage and so & so provides that type of massage. She even told me her friend worked at a different spa and that she is worth seeing. She stated that we all need a little variety & since she knew my tastes offered some tips on the other girls (along with who to avoid). (I still visit her regularly)

So is there competition? I would have to say yes. But the bottom line is - Treat the customer right & he'll keep bringing you business.

 

[TwinMomof5kids]

Staying a regular with one MPA that is your "type" usually leads to better service.

But in this particular case I think it may have been the Cameron and Jade issue.

Firstly for you to walk in without an appointment and have both Jade and Cameron available is almost impossible. They are both constantly booked solid. Secondly, the other MPA's know og thier popularity so it was natural for her to ask if you were there to see them. Nothing bad there.

I usually avoid this kind of thing by trying something different when I know my usual MPA is not there. All it takes is a phone call. Either that or don't go regular with anyone. Keep it moving. Then there are no attachments and you usually still get better service because the MP and MPA's know that you are a regular of the "CLUB". That's what I do at IT.

Enjoy!

 

[X me Out]

Well put Il Ventilatore. That definitely does happen and it can ruin an MP. It would take a very business savy manager to notice this and realise it for what it is; a business issue as opposed to a personal thing between the girls.

 

[Average Mike]

I've experienced that problem at both MP's and SC's. Funny enough, I've never experienced that at Allure, IT or HFH.

It's really funny to me when I'm sitting in a club waiting for my favourite lass to get ready or finish up with another customer. Another dancer will come up to me and say "so and so told me to take care of you since she is going to be a while". Yeah and I was born yesterday, thank you very much. The screaming matches I've seen between dancers trying to "steal" clients are really funny to watch.

 

[Pompal 09.]

sure, jade and cameron were there but booked. (i took a chance) hfh is a nice spa, although it would be better for me if it was open later.

i had a similar incident at blue pearl only when the mpa learned i had seen someone else she turned very cold and the massage was nothing like the ones we'd had before.

i geuss i'll just check the hfh schedule and plan a visit depending on who's working and who isn't. if i make an appointment then they'll be able to check and see who it's booked with.

 

[Heidi A]

I was told by 1 mpa that competition at 490A normally resulted in at least 1 catfight per diem. (Now if only I could have bought tickets and watched!)

The escorts I've dealt with have normally been 'cool' about seeing other girls - or maybe just were just better 'actresses'. I have had a number of sc experiences where girls simply stopped servicing me or were downright rude after I had booked other girls.

I had 1 regular at the Rail who I saw every time I went there. I stopped going for about 4 months. I told the girl I was going to do this and even offered to have coffee with her once or twice. (She wasn't interested). When I came back to the bar, the girl ignored me completely.

I had a lot of similar experiences there, to the point I ended up avoiding having regulars.

 

[clncarplz]

If you are somebody's regular customer, then you represent a nice guranteed fat wad of cash everytime you walk through the door. The MPA has invested time and effort into making you "her" happy and satisfied regular customer. She must have done something right, or you wouldn't be her regular customer with all the choice available out there.

So when you go with someone else, you have struck a blow against her financially as well as against the time and effort and emotional commitment that she has invested in you. The emotional commitment might not be to you, but to what you represent, which is regular payment for services she performs well, which then becomes a self-esteem issue.

Customer service people are taught or learn the hard way not to think this way. The right, corporate way is to realize that even though you didn't make this sale yourself, it was still one more sale for the company. But somehow, I can't help thinking that small scale independents in the personal services industry have a hard time thinking of the big picture. Especially when they know that their customer thinks about loyalty with their second head.

 

[Latina<3]

Funny thing, just yesterday at Blue Pearl the MPA who I was with volunteered that I might like a particular other MPA!

And one time at 490A my usual MPA wasn't there, so I chose Jasmin. Well, as it turned out, the next time I saw my usual MPA, I told her that I saw Jasmin. What was her reaction? She wasn't upset. Rather, I think she saw it as competition, and ended up giving me the most enjoyable session that I ever had with her!!

 

[China Man]

I like to try a lot of different MPs, albeit there are a few where you can call me a regular and I've noticed during one period at one MP one MPA basically figured I was her territory. On one occasion I didn't see her there, was greeted and shown to a room by a different MPA, had my shower (outside the room), then she saw me in the hall. Next thing you know she comes in the room instead of the girl who greeted me. Not that she was all that bad, but I like variety and I politely asked why the MPA who greeted me wasn't giving me a massage and she replied that she checked with her, because I was 'her' customer. I didn't make a stink about it, but I figure unless I asked for her, she shouldn't be trying to scoop the business so to speak. So I stopped going there for a while, upon return, and ever since, I think she stopped working there.
I've come across some MPAs who've been real nice and I've seen them on several occasions but even ask if I'd like to try a different attendant, which is nice they'd offer the choice.

 

[Holly]

My regular MPA was fully booked late one night at the Hayden Street Spa so I said that I would come back the following day. She, however, very strongly encouraged me to get a massage from one of the other girls in the room instead. I reluctantly agreed after a few moments and had a generally forgettable experience with an attendant not fully to my taste. Bad mistake! My regular masseuse was very cool to me the next time I visited. I realized precisely why when she asked whether I had "enjoyed" a nude reverse during my previous visit as well! It seems that she had just been putting on an act of graciousness in order to maintain a facade of civility with the other MPAs!

Gentlemen, keep in mind that MPAs are still women, with the full range of human feelings including jealousy! It's not just about the money and reports of daily cat fights from a spa such as 490 surprise me not at all. I've not made the same mistake again when my favourite attendant offers me another girl in her stead!

 

[AuthototagBum]

i don't think two visits with the same mpa makes me her regular.

i don't make appointments 'cause i like a variety of women. i think most of us in this hobby are the same that way.

otherwise just stay home.

 

[Juliet]

Then why do some MPA's ask who you have seen the last time you were in?

 

[Psycho?Kitty]

Gentlemen thise women at mp are just business people if you think anything else you are fooling your self.