Do I have a right to be jealous of my Girlfriend Getting Massage by another man?

[parkerjiscool]

My girlfriend has been complaining that she needs a massage for sometime, I agreed that she should get one, but then I did some research on giving good massages, and have been hooking her up. She tells me they are great, and I love giving them.
However.
She has now booked an appointment to get a professional massage, and it's not only with a guy, but it's with a guy she seen on a social network site, a Don Juan looking guy, who shows off his body, at that.
I'm not happy about it, but he is a LMT, soooooo guys, would you be jealous? Ladies, do you think I have a right to be jealous? What if the shoe was on the the foot?
Thanks for all the responces, I will add... It appears he rents a room from an established tanning spa. He gives full body deep tissue massages, and by some of the comments I've seen, definitely flirts with his clients. I don't think they are going to get in on at the table, BUT - I feel like it's putting your self in a possition you shouldnt be in. I would never put myself in any sort of intimate position(professional or not) with an attractive woman.

 

[puppysyndrome]

Find out if this Don Jaun is a Registered Massage Therapist or just someone who uses massage to cop a feel and make a few bucks while he's at it!
If he's registered, there shouldn't be a problem! My 35 yr old son is a Reg. Massage Therapist and most of his patients are women. He does deep muscle massage which is a lot more therapeutic than you would do with some scented oil as a form of foreplay!

 

[glownatural]

I don't know how she Couldn't get turned on by a handsome guy with a great bod, massaging her all over (in a dark room.) hmm...

 

[lois]

Nothing wrong with her getting a massage from a guy, but she could have used a little common sense and not found the hottest one out there. I'd be pissed if my husband has some hot babes hands all over him.. So yeah, you have a good reason to be jealous. If you weren't then i think your girl would have something to worry about.

 

[mudpuppie_80]

I think it is inappropriate why can't she get an appointment somewhere else? I think it is inconsiderate of her if she knows you feel hurt. I have an idea! Before Don Juan gets his fingers on her take her out to a really relaxing dinner and then give her a cute little envelope with a certificate for a massage from another place. This way she doesn't have to pay for it, she just got a great gift and you don't have to sweat this guy touching your girl. Just be honest if she asks- say" I just feel really uncomfortable with you going the other guy, I know it's most likely unfounded but I really love you and it makes me feel bad thinking about him touching you. We are so close I just knew you would understand." I'm a woman and I bet that would work just fine.

 

[Pamela]

Yeah, it seems a little suspect that some dude from a social networking site would offer to give her a massage. Is it at least at a reputable parlor (as in, not his home)?

I get (professional) massages from both men and women and nothing sexual ever happens.

 

[sexybare2]

That sounds a little suspicious to me. What's her issue anyway? She can't live without a massage?

Soooooooo, get busy, find the hottest massage chick you can and book yourself a massage. See how she reacts.

 

[lime]

I can see where you are coming from as another hot guy would be touching your gf. Why doesn't she get a massage from a female?! That's what I would do. Saves any uncomfortableness on my partner's behalf.

 

[Verbal]

You must not know your girlfriend that good!!!

 

[ski]

no not as long as it is professional,their trained to do that job and if it makes her feel better I don't see the problem.If you are jealous though i think i'd keep it to yourself,so she knows you trust her.You might not look like him but i'm sure she loves you very much.I guess being jealous is okay if it's small but i wouldn't get carried away it's only a massage.

 

[***Sugar Lady***]

Get over yourself. The message therapist pays approx. $25,000 for 3 years of school to become a professional at message therapy.

Nothing is wrong with it.

And might I add, why did I get a THUMBS DOWN??? I worked in the profession and I know the price of it and how professional it is. You thumbs-down givers are insecure and need to get over yourselves as well.

 

[♥The Mrs.♥]

No, its his job. Get over it. Are you jealous of her gynecologist (if male)?

 

[Kaia]

Well, most of the LMTs I know are women, and I'd never be jealous if my bf went to one.

I've been to male LMTs a couple of times, and I have to tell you..for a really deep tissue massage, they are amazing. Sounds awfully sexy, but mostly it's just painful.

You need to grow up and get over the jealousy nonsense.

 

[Emma]

I'd be jealous if my man was getting a message from some hot bomb shell.

 

[kdr_cmt]

You have absolutely NO reason to question this person's professional ethics. What, should being ugly be a prerequisite for becoming a massage therapist just to pacify all the insecure significant others out there? Stop being so insecure. Where is the trust in your relationship?

 

[Janina]

You can be a little jealous, but you have to trust her! And if you don't.. then there's no point having a relationship..