Do you guys think its ok for my boyfriend to give another girl a massage?

[Megan Lynn]

My boyfriend invited me down to his place. When I walked in the door he was sitting in the living room with a group of people giving this girl a massage that he has known for a long time. I sit down next to him and he continues to do it for a few more seconds then stops.

He was clearly doing it out in the open and others were around, so innocent of him, but I was upset not because I didn't trust him, but because why would i want your hands all over another girl when that is something him and i do romantically?

I know this is a borderline topic for many people, but does anyone see where I am coming from and how this would be upsetting?

I think it would be one thing if I wasn't around, but the fact that he knew i was coming down to his house and then I walk in and he shoves that in my face?

 

[The Reincarnation]

it's ok you're just uncomfortable with it =]

 

[T-shirt]

He didn't shove it in your face. He was out in the open not hiding. You need to clear your head. He is his own person and you are going to ruin what you have if you keep looking for trouble.

 

[Sam Smith]

i see were you are coming from mabey you felt jelouse or like pissed cus that is your boyfriend but i think its fine as long as it was just his friend and if you trust him mabey you should ask him or tell him how you felt about it

 

[Robert]

It's great for him but obviously you have a problem with it. You must force him to choose between you and feeling up other girls. It is a sex thing no matter what they call it and it will eat you up.

 

[Mysterious Havok]

Is it a deep tissue?

 

[happygospunky]

It depends on how he was massaging her. Was he massaging her in a way that he was trying to lead her on? You need to tell him that you felt uncomfortable when he was massaging his friend. He might not think too much of massaging her like you do. You need to communicate, and most importantly if you really want to be with him, you need to trust him. If you can't trust him, you need to reconsider things.

 

[JuJu]

Unless he is a professional, no way, very disrespectful to you. Here's an idea, invite him to your house & have a "long time" male friend over. Make sure you are giving him a massage when your bf comes in, let's see HIS reaction...

 

[That One Guy]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xjEvPDJZfUo
cause it leads to this

 

[TinyAzn?]

Hmm, i see why you are upset. Annd i would ask him. Or ask her why she would ask for a massage from Your man :O.

Sorry, but i would be pissed too ! :/

 

[LiveLaughLove]

It's ok if you trust him.

 

[Megan!]

I don't think it's okay. I think it's even worse for him to do it without you knowing at all. I'd be pretty upset if my boyfriend was touching another girl like that. :/

 

[Flirtin Dan Burton]

The massage was inappropriate, disrespectful and inconsiderate of your boyfriend.