Getting bored - any suggestions?

[songsjosiah]

I hate to look back and think about how much money I have spent in the last 5+ years, and how many women I've seen, but I'm getting a bit bored.

Recently I've been getting the full upgrades everywhere, but the excitement of the sessions have dropped off. I used to have butterflies heading to an establishment, but now I don't. I used to leave afterwards floating on a cloud, and have mind porn for weeks - now I don't.

Maybe I should switch down to body slides. Maybe Very Bad Boy needs to teach me how to explain an Italian finish to the ladies.

Anything more dirty and fun that I can try?

 

[LauraWendii ?]

Funny you say that - I have been doing this for 10+ years. I remember the thrills too - one MP's tits, another had the best legs..another the best ass....pusded the limits with them...but now...losing interest fast and would rather sit and watch the Sopranos.

 

[carly123houleis]

Try sky diving

Hang gliding

White water rafting

Deep sea diving

Traveling

Or all of the above with a naked women

 

[ms.prissy]

You can always try using the other hand. or get her to switch hands.

 

[Art]

I have been doing this for 8 or 9 nine years and I agree that I am getting bored too.

 

[Life In Technicolor]

Boredom ... always seems to set in.

It's like same sex with the SO, unless you spice it up and change things around it will lose it's edge ... that is it all comes done to a physical act.

I have been doing this for quite a few years myself and there are many times that I walk out after a session and although it was average fare I find sometimes that I wasted my time and could have gone to a movie instead and had a better time.

I guess that is why with me I don't repeat as often with a large majority of the ladies.

In regards to the Italian ... I can't give away all my secrets.

VBB

 

[viv]

I have the same feeling as wells for the past 6 months. But now my brother wake up again when I saw a hot massager who don't provide happy meal. However the way she dress and massage is so exotic. Make you believe when you become her regular, the menu may open up a little bit.

Oh, by the time I get the full meal, I may be borning again.

 

[nani poo]

To remove your boredom go toSRM & HFH for a nice bodyslide massages with your choicest MPA's who are present, but to make an appointment prior to going or you shall miss the bus of that particular MPA whom you wish to book!
Do write your experience review for other massageplanet.netites, who also gets bored off and on so they can also know where to land

 

[DorienG]

Go have a session with Monica@SRM and your life will never be the same.

 

[ideaguy83]

If it's getting boring then take a break (when you return you will enjoy it more than before the break but it will probably never be like the butterflies etc of when you first started..... probably what a lot of us were/are chasing).

 

[Flaminblonde]

Never! Also going close to ten years, but as I get older I enjoy it more and more. Truth is, I don't have butterflies anymore, but I'm also more down to earth. I've learned how to say "no, thank you!", or "I'm sorry you're not my type". Being younger I used to be too shy to refuse a girl I didn't like or I would let myself being controlled by a pushy MP/SP. Now I know what I want, I don't fall for "anything you want, baby", I can smell if there's chemistry before she opens her mouth. Very important for me, I've learned to be more conscious how i spend my money.

 

[Boudicca]

I agree with this. I haven't stopped going but I have slowed down many times. Every year I usually take a break 1 or 2 times a year for 1-2 months at at time. I still think about it but then just find a way to disctract myself with "real life" pursuits. You know, studying and learning something new (cooking lessons, a new language, art or dance classes), travelling, doing charity work, etc. The great thing about it is that when you are ready to return you have fresh stories to tell your favourite MPA's.

 

[Fontofall]

Save your cash and take a trip down south....

 

[norah]

ya try a new venue

 

[Saturday]

... just walk away.

or, go back to basics.

PS anybody know of any good virtual reality sex games ?

 

[jaiwithsoni]

Sage advice.

Until the last sentence.

How about fresh stories for a real relationship?

 

[glgl]

I give hornet the benefit of the doubt that it goes without saying that most of us are looking for something outside of the game.

 

[alllllly]

That's a given. Just, don't read past my point about "when you are ready to return". If you're in a real relationship then there's little need to go back to hobbying (at least in my books). It's just that sometimes you don't find that real relationship while on a break.

Taking a break gives perspective. Coming back with fresh stories could re-energize the experience. Or then again, it may not. It's a suggestion to a guy asking for advice. Ideally, we all leave and don't come back but the poster implied that leaving altogether wasn't even being considered as an option right now as he was asking about more "dirty and fun" experiences to try.

 

[heidi]

Well put, and sorry for the mistaken conclusion.

 

[Emma?]

Have you gone to a different city for it before? London, Hamilton or Montreal?
I haven't been to Montreal, but the other 2 are definately fine cities for it. Maybe you don't have the time?