Girlfriend always wants me to fetch things for her and give her massages?

[Philosolapis]

She asks for massages more than any other girlfriend i've had, by a LOT, and whenever she kind find something she asks me to get it for her, even when she doesnt know where it is. She asks this of me all the time. If I say I dont want to, she gets mad at me and makes me feel like an asshole. Is it so wrong to keep to ourselves sometimes?
cant find something*

 

[Tom Bannister]

Don't take any crap :O omg u can't let someone push u around coz ur obv not happy and bein happy is what a relationship is all about

 

[Peeping Tom]

I agree with the dude above, she got you whipped.

 

[Frank Williams]

you sir are whipped

 

[snugglypuff]

no its not. and she should be able to get things for herself sometimes too. ask her to get stuff for you and give you a massage every now and then and if she says she doesnt want to, then she has no reason to get mad at you when you dont want to and let her know that

 

[Jeremy Miller]

hahahahahah zac

 

[Wayward Wind]

Tell her that you want liberation from slavery, and that you'll take any steps necessary to get that freedom. Keep in mind that she's using you, too, so don't be surprised if she gets upset when you tell her that you want liberation from slavery.

 

[enVme]

you are whipped, shes just using you, get out while you still can!

 

[maggie]

Leave. If she's being self-centered enough to only ask you for things and not respect that you don't want to do something, she's not worth it.

 

[Katie Johnstone]

If you're not happy around her, my advice is, you're not right for each other and you should stop seeing each other.

Though this does sound a lot like me and my brother. I ask him to give me foot massages, and he refuses unless i'm wearing socks becuase he doesn't like feet, and i order him around a bit. He is usually quite happy to do what I say, and often even offers to make me milos.

But that's ok because we're both happy with it this way. If you aren't and its not fun at all (and if other aspects of the relationship don't make it worth it, note, sex doesn't count, think personality)

then, I would say, stop seeing each other

Best of luck!!

 

[crazylinda]

tell her to go get it or do it her DAMMMN SELF.