ok first off i dont really know anything about giving massages but i told this girl i like and she likes me too.i told her i would give her a massage. we are both under 18 . do i give her one with her shirt off? or with it on? i think if her shirt was off it would feel better but then if some one saw(her or my parents) we could get in trouble.who knows why that's just the way they are.. so any tips or suggestions anything that could help