Have years of hobbying made you lazier during sex?

[Zeid]

I find myself no longer wanting to do all the work...In fact I now prefer to be on the bottom while she rides me. I'm just to damn lazy now getting used to BS' and HJ's where they do all the work.

And I can't help but think it has to do with all the MPA's I seen and how most are so attentive doing most of the work.
Anyone else?

 

[Alwaysknows]

Ahhhhh ! There's nothin' like lying back with your hands behind your head watching some hottie give you a bbbj ( tc !).

 

[krizutch]

To true to true Sorely, but for me it completly depends on who the lovely lady is as to what I want to do.

It's like the words to a song..... "It takes a good women to play a good man....."

The better she is the better I am

 

[YNEW rides her veggies!]

I think added to the pure joys of being pampered, for some of us it's also an age thing. Just as cumming 3X during an hours "date" was standard fare time does take its toll.

One good shot, after intense pampering is as much as this boys heart can take (well, most of the time)

 

[Bittersweet]

I have to agree theres nothing like going in and getting what you want......and then going home and having to work for it....

 

[Rachel <3]

I now invest more time and attention 'at home' because I know from the hobby how bad and how good a session can potentially be. But for me the best sessions are when both of you are trying to create pleasure.
If she's doing all the work, I'm not having nearly enough fun.

 

[Elissa]

I might not be a lot expereinced but I have been in the hobby for about Seven years now and have been maried for two.

I feel that having been with various girls in the trade I have learned a lot of useful tricks in the bed. Which makes it more pleasureable at home.

I actually can't figure out why I can't retire from the hobby.(Waiting for comments from others) I think its becuase I like being with others and spice it a bit. But I don't consider hobbying as cheating. Because I think you are cheating when you are involved emotionally as well. In the hobby it is mostly physical.

Thats what I think or this could all just be an excuse to F%&*around.

What do you guys think?

 

[mahmahmahmysharona]

Yes, sort of.

Experiences in the hobby have shown how well women can treat you if they are properly motivated. In the hobby, money is the motivation. The bargain is usually a fair one.

However, in real life, where the only motivation should be your reciprocal attention, I get lazy when, despite giving great service, I get sub-MPA service in return. In other words, the hobby has trained me to expect a lot if I give a lot (in money, or otherwise). Since I usually get sub-MPA service in the real world, I'm lazier in return.

And yes, I've tried to take the initiative to see if a lady will follow, but some women are just less into "pleasin' and teasin'" than others. That's why the hobby is a fantasy.

 

[greatdeals_007]

Bud Plug,

Completely agree with you. If you don't get the same service that you are providing it is not a fair deal.

I think the main thing is creating the mood. Even with an SP, I usually make arrangements to have some drinks and music around so that it will set the mood. Every women (like men) have an ideal lover. You just have to find who that is?

In the hobbying no one gives a shit if the the girl was not into it. You just call another but in real life one shold make an effort.

If you have the knowledge you should use it.

or let me put it this way if you are unhappy with the service at home. I think you are not the only one.

 

[djeter_girl_2]

You are right dydx.

I stand corrected.

As I said its either that or it is just an excuse to f*&% around.

Take your pick.

You have to tell something to yourself to have the satisfaction and not feel guilty about it

 

[sadgreeneyes3]

Yes, its cheating. How would you like it if your wife or girlfriend paid $200 to a stranger to give her orgasms? LOL!

Does it make you lazier during sex though... nah, not unless you're a lousy selfish lover to begin with. I try to find MPAs who insist on getting equal treatment in return anyway, so there is no chance of getting lazy about it!

 

[Pompal 09.]

damn right

 

[Linda S]

Thanks red