Have you ever been invited to MPA's place

[The Manipulator]

I was wondering what you would do if an MPA invited you over to her place after you suggested that you were interested in indulging in "extra extras". Things got a bit steamy during our session and, rather than get her into any trouble, we talked about going over to her place. My question is: am I obligated to pay her for the extra service? Would she feel offended if I did and she wasn't expecting me to pay her? Would she be offended if I didn't pay her? Anyone have any real life experiences in this?
Please help.
dannyboy

 

[govind]

Although there are exceptions to every rule, remember that this is a business transaction. Especially if you are negotiating "extra extras", she's not offering because she thinks you are the hottest guy she's seen all year... she's offering because she sees an opportunity for some extra cash for some extra work.

Just try to NOT pay her and see how fast this become apparent.

Now, if the conversation is about a date in a platonic non-sexual setting, then maybe she has some interest in you. But dont expect that she's going to jump your bones for free without the same amount of effort and wooing you would invest in any other girl.

Dont mean to whiz in your Cheerios, but most likely you're just a source of cash flow, regardless of when and where and what.

 

[MsJamers RN]

I agree with mm, just make sure you are prepared to pay her.

 

[keani]

Definitly make the offer of payment. MM is right on. If she is interested in you and not the cash she will turn it down. You then tell her I justed wanted to make sure that;s why i offered. She'll understand.

 

[Wowshi]

Difficult situation.
Ask. Just ask if this is for fun or profit.
I have been fooled too many times by the girl thinking that we were going to go out (as in BF/GF) and then offerred her money.
It really piss's them off I can tell you.
If she is there for profit she will have NO difficulty telling you. You can fix the price and services available and no surprises.
If she is there because she wants to be, she may be a little taken back by the question but just tell her it was important for you to know. After all you don't go with SP's do you? You care about her.
It's all in the timming and tone of the question.
For the record it's been about 50/50 for me.
Dayger.

 

[Amy S]

If she asks you, "Why don't you ask me out for dinner or a date?", then she probably just wants to go out for a regular date. Otherwise, she wants to be paid.

 

[Gavin]

Actually I suggest when you guys are done, ask her to pay you LOL!!! Inform her that the little Dyanmite kid on DannyBoy isn't free to play with !!

Tito

 

[bored_ at_ work]

I remember Maggie from the old Studio 9 used to bring clients home every now and again. Is this true?


To bad she's MIA



B.B.

 

[ana2rosa2003]

I used get paid to come over for a BFE. I would bring over a dozen frosty ones, order up a pizza and watch the game on the tube. During the course of the evening I'd manage to get my socks off and leave them on the floor around all the empty beer bottles, then pass out on the couch while my snoring kept her awake from the living room all night.

The next morning she would give me $100 and thank me for reminding her how nice it is to be single.

 

[mary c]

So you're the one thats been cutting into my territory *lol*

 

[Ben W]

I pass a lot of wind and turn the TV up even louder when Don Cherry is on. That usually gets me at least $100 tip for "True BFE".


Flooey!

 

[bria]

Sounds like a business transaction in your scenario. I've had a few MPA's suggest we hook up for this or that on the weekend but without a sexual inference.

 

[LindZ]

She asks you to join her for a picnic in a secluded park complete with a blanket, bikini and wine?

She's asked me about it more than once. Don't know if I want to cross the threshold.

Any advice, Abby?

Joe

 

[Doctor Doom]

Hmmm, that proposal sounds familiar......

were there any suggestions of $$?

 

[dino hotchick]

Coming from you, that doesn't surprise me.

But there was never any mention of cash.

She seems to like Mr. Happy. Not sure if it's mine or every massageplanet.net member she's ever seen.

Some days she really wants it - the picnic that is. I'm tempted for the sheer fun and excitement. But I ain't no fool.

JJ

 

[El stupido hombre blanco]

Same here....wonder if its the same lass *lol*