How am I gonna introduce my girlfriend to my parents over the holidays?

[steveb17263]

I have been dating my girlfriend for a couple of months, but have not yet introduced her to my family because she does not present the girl next door image, and I am afraid of what they might think..she is really sweet, but she is a cigarette smoker, none of us are, and she tends to dress in really tight clothes, especially low skintight jeans and tight tops that ride up some to show her lower back tattoo...I love her a lot now, and I know I have to have her meet my family, but I am afraid they will not this she is the sweet girl I have come to love, what can I do now..she wants to meet them

 

[Bob the Deluded]

lol guess you should address these issues with her and not me...

sounds like you want her to dress "politely" and not divulge too much about herself to your parents.

these concerns should be aired before you get her in the door....or else she might sart to think that you dont trust her with your feelings.

good luck.

 

[Jellybean]

How old are you? If you are of age, it doesn't matter what your family thinks. You have to live your own life without letting other people try to influence you on your decisions.

 

[Becca B.]

Dress up as a zombie and tell them you just got back from an epic Halloween party.

 

[Christy]

agrees with mcpurple.... some people have nothing better to do with their time...

 

[noble8fold]

If your embarrassed by her maybe you shouldn't be with her. If you are in a serious relationship then you need to bring her around and deal with whatever attitude your family brings to the table but if she's just a fun play pal then there is no need to bring her around the family. This is part of life and there is no magic answer.

 

[McPurple]

I dont know why but i rememebr reading this question months ago - the exact same thing