How do Boyfriends/SO's/even husbands of MPA's live with what their GF's/SO's do?

[Dani Ludwig]

Unless the BF or SO gets off on having a ton of guys of every background; from nice guys to very slimy guys, grope and taste and who knows what with your GF MPA, how can a guy stand it for very long? I know that some MPA's will lower their mileage considerably when they find an SO, but still, at the very least they are giving HJ's in various positions, getting groped, maybe t**ty licked, and getting some errant shots hitting them in various parts of their bodies.

And even if the BF/SO trusts the MPA, once they have a fight, she has 20-40 men to turn to per week to get back at him..."I'll show him by giving my fave regular some extras...it's his lucky day!"

And to top it all off, if the MPA was known to be a high mileage lady now or even in the past, you are sleeping with every guy she ever went past the line with...You probably are not the only guy she has gone bare-back with. e.g. Oh_Henry.

Obviously, the answer is, if the MPA is HOOOOTTTTT! the BF/SO feels lucky to be her choice and is willing to risk everything including his health to get the best sex of his life...us guys are so weak, are we not?

 

[Seb]

I'd have to agree and say there are many of us who are. Your question is similar to the question of "Why do so many guys try to develop a relationship (not a friendly client/attendant one but one along the lines of dating) with an MPA?" I still can't find an answer to it, because I'm guilty of the same thing...but I guess a smokin' hot MPA is enough to make many guys throw their common sense out the window [it was for me] and everything else along with it for a chance at some amazing sex if they can manage to date her. Go figure.

 

[Schwarma]

here's a question...

if cameron or amber ask you to be her boyfriend and they still do what they do...

....would you turn them down knowing that they will not change their job?

here's an answer to your question

1) the bf/so does not know

or

2) the bf/so is a really understanding guy who does not believe their girlfriend are their posessions...and feel what they do is just a job...and in the end, trust goes beyond a hand job...

or

3) the bf/so is their pimp...he has no respect for the women except for the money she makes him...

 

[disk0009]

I guess some would say "it's just a body ... it's the heart and mind of the individual that really counts ..."

 

[Pompal 09.]

Listen, I hope you guys can help me out. Seriously! I think my girlfriend/wife is an escort /mpa, I know she dances under the name Jennifer, Jenn, she frequents Miss. and goes missing for extended periods. Blonde, green eyes, man mades early 20's sorta looks like darrlyl Hannah. I as a BF, husband fuckin hate the thought of anything to do with sex business, but if you guys can confirm she's escort you can all have her forever!! Just wanna know, so I can move on.... She's from Barrie

 

[mrsCULLEN]

Jennifer also used to frequent the Missisauga clubs, Locomoyion, MDS, Cannonball. I hope I'm wrong bout the extra services, PM if u like will return thr favour with $$$$$$ if yoiu have hard proof. I'm not jokin!!!!!!

 

[Cody]

I think that most of us just want the satisfaction of knowing that we can date, or be seen with, an MPA outside of the business. I know that I have ask if they would like to have dinner, go to a movie, have a drink with, on more than one occasion. So far, no takers. But to be my gf, so, or wife....I'm not that big of a person to have that kind of an understanding. Frankly, I think you must have low self esteem if you do.
bruce

 

[qdb]

If my GF was an MPA, I would have to :

1) TRUST that she is not offering "extras"

2) ACCEPT that it is a job and she doesn't
bring home work with her

3) be HAPPY that she chose me over other guys
to be her friend and lover

4) SHARE the good times and bad

5) be PREPARED at anytime for the relationship to end

6) be THANKFULL for having/had her in your life!

 

[Eric Davidson]

 

[Onica]

Good observation of possible factors, wrong hole hmmm .... uuuhhh ... uuuum ... eeeer... I'll get back to you ...

 

[wintersun77]

Would I accept my SO continuing her career as an MPA??
It wouldn't matter who it was, I wouldn't mind, as long as I could keep going to my faves!!!!

 

[alexandra .]

pulease, based on her playboy pics , she's not THAT hot. You guys make her out to be a goddess or something

 

[Zach Will]

Yes I am Booty,however I am not having any kind of sex with anyone but my SO.

 

[myopic]

Nope, couldn't handle it with an active MPA. Not a moralistic thing it's just that I can share my toys but not my woman. Better to avoid emotional attachment if it would just lead to a crash landing.

Ex MPA - different story. People change and grow, if they chose to.

Cameron - who the hell had to bring that up. Gotta be an exception to every rule right......hmmm.......maybe........shit!

V12

 

[Curtislj]

This is a fucked up thread (although admittedly I haven't had a coffee yet so my head is still cloudy).

If you don't have respect for the way that your MPA has chosen to make money, how the fuck can you actually see her - even repeatedly?

And if you DO respect her, how come she can't have a "real" relationship?

Alana (don't know if it's the BP one) says she can't - but fuck, she's young (if it's really the BP one) and it's not clear she's ready for anything serious anyway.

Most of these women, in my limited experience, are either (a) single moms tryin' to support a kid or two; or (b) young 'uns just cashing some checks while they figure out what "real" career they're gonna follow. Either way they don't seem to have steady men in their lives.

Or frankly they have such shitty taste in men that you wonder how on earth they're going to get by.

Me, I dig the ones that are comfortable with what they're doing, and I don't really give a fuck about their "real" relationship(s) - I ain't gonna talk about mine, so I don't expect her to talk about hers.

 

[Not Grey]

Miranda,

What's your thoughts on it if the non sex trade member of the relationship was a former client of the other?

 

[cannot_remember_chit]

Sort of what I was speaking of. Where, it's doesn't neccessarily need to be a $$$ deal in order to entertain/condone the activity (and hence be labbled a pimp/prostitute arragement), but any type of agenda where both parties are now benfiting from the process.

Kkarn.

 

[Dali M]

Ditto

Self-esteem??? Is that a double standard or what? It is ok what you do, but not what they do? Are you saying that any girl who would date you would by definition lack self-esteem?

 

[Pompal 09.]

thanks Paul, your post was like alka seltzers with a good dose of tylenol 3.

At least I know wtf you are saying.

PS My verdict is still out ...

 

[Lani]

What an awkward situation to be in. For me, it would depend on how we met; at her work or elsewhere. If at work, then I would have to accept her choice of employment. If elsewhere, I would be less inclined to get involved. This is assuming that there was some sort of true connection and we both wanted to see each other.

It's not so hard to believe that a BF/SO can deal with his girls being an MPA or even a FS SP (not that I could). Take a look at the swinging scene.

I recently was hit on by a lady who also swings. She has girlfriends that are quite liberal in their sexual relationships. For example, one girl appearently has a BF that likes to watch OTHER GUYS do his girl. Another girl brings home other ladies for her man. Then there are the swingers party at hotels (right here in TO).

You check in with your partner. Everyone is put on the same floor. There is one big fish bowl in a meeting room - just for the ladies. She puts her room key into the bowl. Then the guys pick out a key and then go to that room, leaving his mate for some other guy. Afterwards, there is a free- for-all - you just walk into a room and go for it!

The lady was definitely trying to entice me with vivid descriptions of the kinds of ways she loved to have sex. The swinging aspect is what turned me off - not for me. Otherwise, I would have been SOOOOO THERE!

I would have to say that this requires a certain level of sexual maturity. Does any guy really expect his SO to have little or no prior sexual history?

What about the world of PORN. There are married couples that are also porn stars - they spend all day doing it with other people and then go home to their SO. That's got to be the ULTIMATE! Having your GF being F'd ON FILM for MILLIONS TO SEE! No way I could handle that. BUT, if one were to have a "fetish" for seeing your SO getting it on with others, I can then see this as the ULTIMATE turn on.