How do you pick GFE?

[Pompal 09.]

This thread fits in with the theme of the other recent theads about GFE sex and threating the chicas good or bad.

Of course like I always say GFE means different things to differnt mongers. I know some guys say they go to smaller bars for GFE service, but what they really mean they go to a certain bar for 'sin-condom sexo, and if not that maybe anal sex or simple DFK kissing that's sometimes hard to find in the busy bars.

Here is what I do sometimes to find that special bar girl: I spend a lot of time going from 2 or 3 different bars and back again. I'm a people watcher. I could spend hours sipping on my favorite beers and watching the chicas. First I look at her physical beauty and the traits I"m interested in then.....as I love variety, so sometimes I could be looking for that young barely legal type girl with small tits, other times I'm lookng for a thick chica, or maybe a chica with big tits, so she can give me a tittie fuck, or it could be something else.

I pay a lot of attention to her body language seeing if she looks nervous bored, agressive, happy or sad,,,,etc etc. For some reason, I can't pick her unless I see her stand up and walks around, I want to see how she looks, but again more body language. I want to see how she interacts with other in the bars, does she make friends easy with other girls, and waiters....or is she a loner? And what type of energy or vibe does she put out, is she high energy, or does she try too hard, and is putting out a fake vibe?

What I have found that at least works for me is picking a happy girl....that's all it comes down to. The bargirl that gives me my GFE is usually a happy girl who smiles a lot, has high energy, and is usually extroverted not scared or afraid. She ususually very nice, likes to get along with everybody, and wants to make everybody happy...in other words doesn't say no a lot.

That's it and it's so easy for me to pick a nice friedly girl who would probalaly be voted Miss Congeniality if it were a beautly contest.

But so many times I end up picking the wrong girl, the HOT girl with her arms crossed, sitting by herself looking sad, or shy. I love the innocent shy girl too, but it can be hit and miss with them, and sometimes the sad girl turns out to be sad only because nobody picked up, but once buy her a drink she lights up.

Yeah, I few girls got me by gving off a fake vibe, and they turned out to be bitches in the room, but even these bitches, before I paid them money let their real personality slip through, and I had my chance to get out of the session, but I go through with it anyway, and it ends up bad or so-so.

Of course I'm always looking for that FOB( fresh off the bus) girl at the small bars, and if they have that deer in the headlights look to them, I like that, but that's just my hunter instinct. I guess what I"m looking for is a Mexican girl, who if lived in the US would be a cheerleader, but not a stuck up cheerleader, just that cute one who is friendly.....but that's just me.

 

[Girl dreamer]

Try Tropical,ive been lucky there
CC with some of the girls i known for awhile.
I dont speak spanish.
GFE

 

[jeffrey e]

The best way to get a GFE is to date civilians.

Back when I was spending a lot of time in MPs I'd get to know the encargada. Chicas gossip, and she can spill beens if she likes you.

Most vets will tell you that second tier bar girls provide better sessions than hotties.

Mostly it comes down a "sixth sense" that comes through experience. And is far from infallable.

 

[the fullback]

First of all I believe GFE is an untaught type of service. It is what comes natural. Generally someone has to tell a girl that GFE is not the way to go.

Believe me, when a chica is brand new in AB, she hears girls say, I don't do that, and I don't do this, and that girl is "cochina because she doesn't use a condom for sex, or she kisses the clients with her toungue"...let's face it up to the point she decided to work she has been giving bbbj and dfk her previous partners at home....she gets taught not to give GFE...

In the situation with escorts, is most answer an ad in the paper and GFE is not even a thought as they assume that the clients want that type of service, and that it will be expected. On a few occasions I have had chicas say they were GFE and then not be...I explain to them that for the services they are willing to provide, they should work in AB or the alley.

As far as in the bar, I don't know how you will find out. I do see chicas even in AB making out downstairs, so I would guess if a chica sticks her tongue down your throat downstairs, it may be pretty good upstairs.

 

[nl_inc2000]

Yes GFE means different things to different people. To me it means exactly what I use to do with my high school girlfriend,DATY, BBBJ, DFK, and lots of fun, but really I'm not so much asking about GFE but rather how to pick a girl to go upstairs with and that you are reasonable sure she'll show you a good time, and not be a dead fish?

Sampson can answer the questions too from a managment point of view. How does he pick an escort and knows she'll be good and somebody the customers will rave about, if he wants too?

Yes I agree with Supergato that Adelitas doesn't seem like a GFE club, and my experience there certainly bares that out, but the secret there seems to find a favorite, and hang out with her do her a few times, and she'll give you all the GFE you want as much as the less busy bars.

Doing the second string girls certainly works for many, in real life and doing hookers, as beautiful girls are vain and use to guys falling all over themselves to be with them, so they never develop a nice personality because it's all them, whereas a less beautiful girls learns to consider your interests and what you like, and you in turn like her because she is considering your feelings.

But again lets take you to Adelitas for the first time or first time in months and you don't know the girls. How do you pick the right from from the hundred chicas they have in the bar, what do you look for?

Yes what ScatManDoo does networking with fellow whoremongers works good, especially if you know the guys ScatManDoo does, I knew one of them who I use to talk to sometimes via PMs, and that guy knew everything. I had some great recommenations over the years, but for being on these sites all these years, looking at trip reports and finding the girls that way never was a big thing for me as I couild only think of a handful of chicas I did that way and had great results. Tanya the escort was one, and so was the recent Guadalupe report I did, when you get reviews like these girls get, there is no way your going to be disappointed, but the problem with trip reports and recommendatons is the chicas are usually never there when you go looking for them. I had a good tip I received via PM three months ago at Bar Tropical, and when I can't find anybody I ask about this chica, but she is never there.

So once again how do you pick that good one? How do you know she'll be good? What are the signs you look for?

 

[oldmanwithcoyote]

Supergato says that GFE means different things to different people and he is right. The truth is different people have different services they prefer.

Over the years on hobbyist sites I have seen this definition:

DFK
BBBJ
DATY
MSOG

Of course non rush, but how can you offer MSOG and rush.

 

[ComStar Computers]

I network with a group of experienced mongers (more than a dozen) via mostly private means.
These guys beat the bushes (literally) and make great finds they gladly share -because none are pathetic loser mongers.

When I try out a new chica (blind with no prior info. - which is rare because my network has long tentacles in LZ) it's usually a street girl and a crap shoot. But for anywhere from $9 to $27 it's either a great find to share with my bros, or no big deal if she turns out flat - she just becomes another hot (or not) bod I did once.

 

[Bluey]

GFE means different things to different people. Adelita never struck me as a place for what I consider GFE (to me, that's non rushed, kissing, very sensual experience). I go to Adelita to bang a young hottie. I know she's going to want to rush and she's not going to be attentive and girlfriend-like. The Adelita girl will want me to get off as soon as she can get me to. I try to make it last until after the second set of knocks on the door. So I go for PSE with the stunners there. I've been very satisfied with the girls I've taken upstairs from Adelita. If you want GFE at Adelita, you need to go with the second string girls.

Even then, there's a chance a Adelita stunner might be a cold fish upstairs. That's why I always will want to sit with her and get a drink. In those few minutes you can get the positive or negative vibe about her. Worst case, you're out $7.

 

[Chipmaker]

I was reading Triangulo bad experience at "Adelitas" where he picked a little hot chica, but almost from the start knew the experience was doomed as she gave off a bad vibe, and the last straw was when she asked for a $ 20 dollar tip before she even done anything, so we really never did find out how good she was, but we could guess?

I have also been in those situations where I didn't follow my instincts or my Fireballs proven way to picking a chica that I know who is going to deliver the goods to me and give me a fantastic sexual experience. Instead I follow her looks, or big tits, and while walking with her to the hotel, a bad feeling comes over me, and I just know it's going to be bad upstairs, and sure enough the first thing she'll ask is for the money and it goes from bad to worst, or I end it quickly and just pick somebody else.

What do you guys do to insure you pick a good one? I know I could write a book on what I do, but really there is just a few key things that almost guarantee me a good time, but sometimes they still get me with bad signals or fake vibe.

So what do you guys do for GFE sex if that's what your after? Or do you cheat and call up an expensive escort? Nothing wrong with escorts, but even that is no guarantee despite all the promises escorts offer.

If I get any responses I'll come back and say a little bit what I do.