Just had a baby and he's only a few weeks old. Our family is not close at all, kind of a superficial bunch and we only see each other very rarely, not more than a couple times a year. But once the baby was born, it was like they came out of the woodwork. They claim they are grandparents, aunts, cousins etc and therefore they have a right. Might I add most of them are really kind of wild bunch and not at all persons we'd like around our child. Any tips on what to do?