How to start a conversation, and keep it going?

[Deleted member 104821]

What are some topics to talk about that aren't dry?

 

[Sajam Enjoyer]

Most of the time conversation isn't really possible outside of simple, fart-tire jokes. If conversation is possible and their English is good, I just find a way to talk about their interests, whatever that may be. Which surprisingly, is like mahjong 60% of the time.

 

[MrBnH]

Talk about her eyes.........her lips........her breasts........you can keep going and she loves it !

 

[daty869]

How long have you been in Canada, do you have family here, what do you do on your days off, where are you from (in China if applicable), what is the area you are from know for (pretty girls obviously), where have you been in Canada, when did you start doing massage, where is a good restaurant I should try, what dish is your favorite. Sometimes best to not talk about family depending how long the lady has been here, if new then I avoid family discussions in case they haven’t adjusted to being away. Do they massage each other for practice- who does she get to massage her? Have you seen any good movies? How many days a week do you work, where else can I find you if not here?

Any other topics? Good question from op - thanks for contributing.

 

[FullSend]

I find generally if you talk about how their week/day is going there's typically topics that come up when asking that question and you just organically branch off into other topics.

 

[Deleted member 104821]

How long have you been in Canada, do you have family here, what do you do on your days off, where are you from (in China if applicable), what is the area you are from know for (pretty girls obviously), where have you been in Canada, when did you start doing massage, where is a good restaurant I should try, what dish is your favorite. Sometimes best to not talk about family depending how long the lady has been here, if new then I avoid family discussions in case they haven’t adjusted to being away. Do they massage each other for practice- who does she get to massage her? Have you seen any good movies? How many days a week do you work, where else can I find you if not here?

Any other topics? Good question from op - thanks for contributing.

I've asked some of those, but they give 1-lined responses. The 2nd half of questions are impossible for them to understand.

 

[Sajam Enjoyer]

Sometimes you have to be creative when overcoming the language barrier while trying to talk about stuff. Recently, an MPA was trying to tell me about a country she would like to visit but didn't know the name. She tried to name some stuff related to it and we figured out it was Italy by me saying if its a big country that didn't qualify for FIFA world cup. It was like a quick round of jeopardy

 

[jizzy1]

Ask her how her last session was lol

 

[Deleted member 104821]

Talk about her eyes.........her lips........her breasts........you can keep going and she loves it !

She will just think of a compliment about you lol.

 

[xtc27]

Talk about her eyes.........her lips........her breasts........you can keep going and she loves it !

That’s the idea… if u credibly complement her looks & body, mileage can increase dramatically!

One gal asked who else I had visited @ her spa… I mentioned somebody who left, then told her I only wanna c her f/ now on bcuz her body… & waxed poetic on how much I luved it…

She disappeared …

… Reappeared btwn my legs, BLS, BBBJ ! No discussion of services & tips… & nvr reviewed 2 have this menu! Semilegit spa.

… that’s a successful discussion…

 

[Deleted member 104821]

How long have you been in Canada, do you have family here, what do you do on your days off, where are you from (in China if applicable), what is the area you are from know for (pretty girls obviously), where have you been in Canada, when did you start doing massage, where is a good restaurant I should try, what dish is your favorite. Sometimes best to not talk about family depending how long the lady has been here, if new then I avoid family discussions in case they haven’t adjusted to being away. Do they massage each other for practice- who does she get to massage her? Have you seen any good movies? How many days a week do you work, where else can I find you if not here?

Any other topics? Good question from op - thanks for contributing.

So you never make the convo sexual?

 

[xtc27]

So you never make the convo sexual?

If its legit mpa, I get it… but anything else, fun aspect = very important… yer gonna have way more fun if u chat her up a bit!

… & some gals really do need 2 hear it… sometimes boss, previous client or bf gave her a hard time, u come in talkng sweet & dramatic results follow!

But even if no immediate result, shes gonna b pleased… its nice 4 her being w a dude who digs her…

And… if shes greedy, u think, holy sh!t, how’m I gonna talk her down a bit? …. Actually, its really easy…

Lets say yer flirting & chatting her up, 🗣 talk comes around 2 xxxtras… girl’s thinkng, damn, this guy luvs me, time 2 squeeze him! Well, as soon as she asks something outrageous, like $ tip 4 tittyfuck…

Everything… stops!

U look @ her, stop flirtng… sad face … The whole rm suddenly gets cold … & she can feel it…

Dont haggle! Just go down menu, cheaper option, like hj only… but dont flirt any more, she just gave u the asshole tax…

Usually, she realizes her mistake & doesnt like that u shut up, so that tittyfuck or whatever, suddenly bcomes $60… hell, it might go below that…

Once the $$$ = reasonable, resume that happy flirtng, & she can b yer new fave… that $$$ nvr going up!

 

[daty869]

99% of the time I offer tip up front within 2 minutes, first time I meet a girl I wait for her to come in the door ask if ok with shorts off - if she says yes we discuss her comfort level and tip structure and I take out the cash and give it to her up front. Then we get to know each other better. From the op I assumed it was more of what can you talk about that would be nice to get to know each other rafter than a lot of the stuff they hear all the time, like what’s your favorite position and when’s the last time you had an orgasm- I can help you with that - kind of discussion. Yes some girls like that, I find some like to share other stuff too. Also depends on the age gap, if you’re 55 to 60 you can’t discuss 80’s rock bands with them and if you’re a financial planner you could help them with their retirement planning. I like Asian restaurants and have been to China 3 times. I also tend to stay repeat with three or four ladies that have a mutual connection rather than a different spa every week. If you remember a bit about the last discussion it also shows that you were paying attention with the toothache or the migraine that was bothering her last time.
Cheers

 

[daty869]

So you never make the convo sexual?

I cannot say never, but usually not what I start with- varies depending on the lady.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

You guys are giving me my next thing to think about as I explore the hobbyist world. So far I have focused on getting the MPA to trust and be comfortable with me (I am a stranger who is twice their size and four times their strength), while at the same time avoiding personal entanglements (I keep the different parts of my life separate). I am polite, friendly and respect boundaries. But I have a lot of room for improvement. Unlike @xtc27 I do not have "game" - yet.

 

[xtc27]

You guys are giving me my next thing to think about as I explore the hobbyist world. So far I have focused on getting the MPA to trust and be comfortable with me (I am a stranger who is twice their size and four times their strength), while at the same time avoiding personal entanglements (I keep the different parts of my life separate). I am polite, friendly and respect boundaries. But I have a lot of room for improvement. Unlike @xtc27 I do not have "game" - yet.

Reading yer reviews, seems like yer doing somethng right!

 

[Deleted member 104821]

You guys are giving me my next thing to think about as I explore the hobbyist world. So far I have focused on getting the MPA to trust and be comfortable with me (I am a stranger who is twice their size and four times their strength), while at the same time avoiding personal entanglements (I keep the different parts of my life separate). I am polite, friendly and respect boundaries. But I have a lot of room for improvement. Unlike @xtc27 I do not have "game" - yet.

Well, thankfully, I have a small stature.

 

[SuperSport]

One of the better requests if I may say so myself ....

If anyone is serious about this topic, and I mean real serious, there's a book (and courses if you're super serious)

from Dale Carnegie = How to Win Friends and Influence People.

I have first hand experience witnessing people (English as a second language) not only successfully approached using the concepts

but also in using it themselves, so be careful out there .....


Just kidding, it's all great stuff, and very positive approach.

 

[Red Flamingo]

What are some topics to talk about that aren't dry?

Try my following opening remarks next time.
"Hey, my sweetheart, you look so hot. Tell me, how much do you earn a month at here? I'd pay you the same amount, be my sugar daughter and serve me alone..."
Then, then, then, she quit from Suko and became my full-time mistress until now. . .

 

[darknight5611]

That’s the idea… if u credibly complement her looks & body, mileage can increase dramatically!

One gal asked who else I had visited @ her spa… I mentioned somebody who left, then told her I only wanna c her f/ now on bcuz her body… & waxed poetic on how much I luved it…

She disappeared …

… Reappeared btwn my legs, BLS, BBBJ ! No discussion of services & tips… & nvr reviewed 2 have this menu! Semilegit spa.

… that’s a successful discussion…

smelling shilly buddy.