I tried the 'sensual' lomilomi massage women in Sydney's poshest suburbs won't stop talking about
By Lucy Manly For Daily Mail Australia
Updated: 08:40 BST, 23 July 2023
It's one of the best-kept secrets in Sydney's eastern suburbs, with busy professionals in the know treating themselves to a sensual rub-down better known as a Kahuna lomilomi massage.
My idea of total relaxation is a trip to the day spa for a few blissed-out hours and an escape from my busy life.
But today, my knowledge of relaxation is being taken to the next level as I experience a Hawaiian-style massage that some say is so powerful you can experience an earth-shattering orgasm on the table.
Naturally, I was curious.
To be clear, this is not a 'happy ending' massage. It is a sensual - not sexual - massage and there is no contact with the genitals.
After tracking down a suitable masseuse trained in Kahuna lomilomi, I am invited to the practitioner's home studio to try the massage for myself.
Just quietly, I'm terrified.
I nervously arrive to my appointment, perched on the clifftops of Dover Heights, overlooking the ocean in Sydney's east.
I am welcomed to Steve's sleek studio, where he gives me a general rundown of what to expect from our session.
'It's like making love without any sexual focus or intent - just pure caring touch and connection,' he tells me.
Covered by just a modesty towel, this treatment requires you to 'let go of your inhibitions' and focus on your breathing.
Steve explains it's more than just a physical massage but an energy exchange, and can be a healing experience that harmonises the body, mind and spirit.
'Letting go' isn't one of my strong points, and for research's sake I am required to go 'a la naturale' all the while trying to forget I was receiving a sensual massage from a man I found via Google.
Draped in nothing but a sarong and hand-towel, the massage begins with dry body-brushing, before moving to heated oils and hot stones.
While this was in no way a sexual experience, I can't pretend my body wasnโt responding.
The entire body is massaged with long, rhythmic and sweeping strokes, mimicking the gentle rocking motion of the ocean, using the hands and forearms.
Different parts of the body are often massaged at the same time.
At times, I felt like a Romanian gymnast - being stretched, bent and at one point swivelled around the massage bed while blindfolded.
I was warned this massage was like nothing else.
Steve explains women make up to 70 per cent of his clientele; however, there are times his male customers keep him just as busy.
He explains it's not uncommon for some people to get emotional during sessions and even have a spiritual-like experience.
Recently, a girlfriend of mine shared her experience receiving the same massage but from a different masseuse.
She experienced a spiritual, out-of-body orgasm you only read about in women's erotic fantasy novels.
'It was like nothing I had ever experienced before. It was the best orgasm of my life and there was zero penetration,' she bragged
While I thoroughly enjoyed my time on the table with Steve - my 'happy ending' was far different to my girlfriend's.
After the 90-minute treatment, I was smiling from ear to ear, felt freer, lighter and rejuvenated beyond expectation.
I have already booked a return session with Steve next month.
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