Is it considered cheating to give another woman a foot massage?

[John Treason]

I'm a happily married man but there is a girl at school that I am talking to. I promised to give her a foot massage when the school year is over and she just text me about it to remind me. I just wanted to know if you think this is cheating or not. My wife does not know the other woman at all and I do feel a little guilty even though I am very attracted to this woman.

 

[Yo soy loca con mi tigre!]

Happily married and you want to give a foot massage to this girl from school that reminds you about it on txt & you're very attracted to?? WOW I don't think that a foot massage is cheating but it looks like you want something w/ this woman b/c you're attracted to her and instead of backing off you wanna give her a foot massage....!!!! Feel me?!?
BACK OFF men!!!!
How would you feel if there's this hot guy that wants to give ur wife a foot massage? I mean at least she's not technically cheating riight....??

 

[Nice to meet you]

If you would not feel comfortable about doing it in front of your wife, then don't do it. If you wouldn't feel good about your wife giving another man a foot massage or a back rub, don't do it. If you don't feel like this is something you can bring up with your wife...you guessed it, DON'T DO IT.

It might not be cheating but it is highly inappropriate.

 

[Maranda Millspaugh]

I would consider cheating because of how you say you are feeling. Even though it is only a foot massage, it is kind of wierd for you to be giving it to someone if your married. Buy her a pedicure instead.

 

[Muffins]

Never do something that involves another female behind her back. If you are iffy about asking her about it then it's wrong right off the bat. Especially that this involves a massage which is physical activity. Just put yourself in her shoes, if it was the other way around would u be cool with it? And would you want her not to tell you about it?

 

[brielle21]

absolutley it's cheating. why would you even promise another female a foot massage? personally, i think you should re consider your relationship because it seems like you have that door open for other people to come in. if you were in love, that door would be closed. dont lead your wife on, end it now if its that bad.

 

[Erika S]

If you're ASKING this question, then YES it's considered cheating.

 

[Anonymous]

If you have to ask if it's cheating, it's probably cheating. But if you want to be technical, I don't think the act of giving another woman a foot massage is cheating. However, I do believe that going out of your way to spend time with another woman you find very attractive and your wife doesn't know about to massage her is certainly a bad idea.

 

[word]

Yeah... and I would consider it cheating if my girl (whenever I'm in a relationship) got a foot massage from anyone who isn't a massage therapist.

And how did that conversation even come up??

 

[mtnhotte]

would it be cheating if your wife gave another guy a blowjob.. but hes her friend ...im just saying...

 

[Jane]

If you told her what you did, would she be upset?? If the answer is YES - then it is cheating. If the answer is NO- then it is not. SIMPLE