and FYI, I wasnt planning on asking the girls for a BJ. Just if it came up and she brought it up herself, whether or not its safe. Everyone needs to calm down with the accusations, seriously. Im just looking for some rubs like everyone else. Thought Id better ask all the questions from your experts as opposed to spending years learning the ins and outs. Sheesh, everyones so uptight in here, the massages dont seem to be working for you guys. JK lol