Just Thai girls

[Pompal 09.]

Hey

Guys i was wondering if you can meet a thai girl, like you meet a girl in your
own country and then have a lot of fun without paying. If i read the forum
i get the feeling that you have to pay for every thai girl you like. Is there not a change to meet a beautifull thai girl and have lots of fun without paying.
For example are there in patong also girls go out for just drinking en meet man wich live there.

Sorry for my english i'm a dutch men..

Cheers

 

[Anthony H]

Niet betalen is om problemen vragen!

Gij zijt weer zo ne gierige "hollander"! Grapje!

To be short:

A traditional Thai girl will not even like to walk hand in hand with a farang on the street. In the eyes of the Thai, most girls seen with a farang is a wh*re! no:

That doesn't mean that some straight girls, who have seen it all in a touristic place like Phuket, would not give it a try being cautioness! But if you want to sleep with that kind of girl, you would have to go trough a lot of trouble!

Some girls in dancings/dico's would be very pleased to go with you! They are freelancers and are in the same league as Bg's.

It can happen that some girls that move around in Patong, will go with you for free, if they like you. Sometimes they even fall in love!

I had a girl I did not pay, but that was a ex-bg, who was looking for fun. Expats can get girls free, because they have been quiet around the scene, girls know them, and like to spend an evening with somebody they like!

Save yourself a lot of trouble: pay! Even if the girls falls for you, wich happens, still pay them, because they need the money to send home!

 

[Chaosx_vaio]

Hmm

Strange world. but okay thanks anyway

 

[Nev]

How many of just regular Thai Girl (they don't go with men for money) will you find in phuket??

Cheers

 

[Naturechick18]

1

But she want a motorbike! :biggrinlo

 

[CeciMoon]

My TGF is not a BG, neither a FL, but I can walk with her hand in hand in the street... but no kiss or too demonstrative things , it is a question of culture, Thai girls are very prude although they are quite different in private

If you find a non BG-FL Thai girlfriend, don't think you will have to pay nothing. If she falls in love with you, she will think it's normal you pay for many things, as you have a lot of money in comparaison to her. It is also an aspect of Thai culture, I think. Who makes money must take care of his/her family. And maybe it is as well a proof of love.

Many expat BM's have a TGF, i guess they have to take care financially of her, sometimes of her family too. Nothing bad in that because Thais are like this between them too.

Now, if you don't want a fix GF, I know from a friend there are some girls from BKK or other areas coming to Phuket for holidays. Usually, they have a good social status and are there for fun, so it would be always possible to have an "adventure"... but avoid to take another girl the day after, you would make her lose face... nothing worst in LOS.

:cheers:

 

[Shawn M]

Well Domi you got lucky! Not easy to find a regular! Many, not say yours, have been in the scene.

And as I said to our Dutch friend, on holliday, don't make it too dificult, just pay, and don't get involved!

I had my lesson with a regular TG. But I was faulty, don't get involved with a tg if you are not looking for love. You will ruin a TG reputation if you just take her for se*!

Read this book, very instructive and enjoyable to read!

"Thai girl"

http://thaigirl2004.com/introduction.html

 

[StephenWeinstein]

Me too. I live in Thailand for 4 years now.
If you want to meet a "normal" Thai lady, stay out of Patong. Phuket Town is a better option. But it's not easy. 99% of the Thai don't speak a word English, so a conversation, the basics, is not easy. Even then, you will have to invest a lot of time if you find a nice lady. And .. a lot of Thai girls want a falang but they are scared to death to talk to them.
So, the chances are very small, especially if you are here on a short holiday. If you live here longer and go out in the non-touristic areas, your chances will increase significantly.

 

[My Golden Jewel <3]

Nice book, Tintin. Thanks.

I know my TG since last Sept, born in Phuket, living in Phuket Town. Shy and nice girl working in a very big hotel, I really love her and I want to think she loves me too, she has never worked on the scene (she hates Patong, can you believe it ? ) and I hope to move to LOS very soon, even if I will not have a lot of money... she knows about it and says "never mind, i have a work"... Well, a true love story, I think.
I know the things should change as the money matter is always important in LOS, but I do prefer to live happy with a little money than the opposite... I know... I take a big risk

 

[Smile <3 MJ]

take it mate i believe money isnt everything also.gl
steve

 

[TillieDillie]

Money isn't everything, agree totally!

But for a Tg it makes it more difficult that her teerak, isn't rich!

She may love you, great for you, but it is more difficult this way for her too!

Thai girls like sensitive men, because many Thai men, not all, are a bit rude!

But again, at least you love her and do not use the girl! Many guys do, so she is lucky! :cheers:

 

[Ken]

Yes Tintin,

First, as so many TG, she thought that money felt down from the sky for farangs... we have had long conversations, sometimes hard, and finally, I think she has understood that it was not true. But it is normal, when they know just the price we pay for the flight (probably 4 to 6 times their salary), then how much we can spend on holidays, who would think different ? They don't know it's holidays and we don't spend so much at home and how much life is more expensive here.

But after some months, my GF really touched me when she said "i don't care about your money, if you don't have, don't forget I have a work so no problem. All I want is you come back and stay near me"

I assume I have found a princess

 

[# 43 Cristian]

: : .. Oh , it´s so beautiful "Domi" .. : :












Okay im jealouse ... but just a little bit ... but i will never admit it

 

[satty jr]

She has many friends, Crazyswede, who would be happy to be introduced to other farangs

 

[lostinsidemyself]

Thanx "Domi" , i belive you .. big "promblem" right now is i have only "dirty days" (30) in LOS in Sept. and i know how it use to end .. i have a few girls i want to meet from before ... i have a few girls i "must" meet from internet + there is always a bunch of new girls "coming in" during my stay in that lovely country :kiss:

But if i have any free time i let you know
Are they all located in Phuket Town ??



ps. I think i know an old BG who worked Pattaya before , she´s staying Phuket Town right now ... but i had no time to visit her earlier this year of cos´

 

[paladin]

Yes crazyswede, most of them from Phuket Town or Khatu.

They use to go out in Phuket Town more than in Patong.

 

[I DJ WEDDINGS]

Aha i see but i think i understand why they like to go out in Phuket instead of Patong 555
Weard thing is many Thai´s don´t seam to understand what´s going on at places like Patong , Nana Plaza , Patpong , Pattaya and simular places .. i told a TG one time when we passed Nana Plaza and i thought her eye´s would fall out of her head 55555
I told her you can get massage with x-tra .. same boom boom and she looked kind of sick :ytounge:

 

[Grrr!]

to me to find a regular tg in patong is almost impossible
as was stated before, non tourist areas and bkk you have a better chance.
i have dated some non bgs in bkk and udon met through the internet and its a long term project to achieve a good relationship.

for good girls, to be seen in public with a farang puts doubt about her morals in other thais minds.

thats why when i marry my fiance in august, the ceremony and reception will be held at a large hotel

many in udon will see that this is a proper relationship made in the thai tradition and she is of good morals.

unless your in los many months at a time, imho work through the internet. (of course scams there)

 

[koking103]

crazy swede, when i explained to my tg what happens in patong she was horrified.

one of her major concerns is what will people think of her when we walk together during our honeymoon.

I tried to reassure her that with her wedding ring non bg look or manner she should not be regarded to badly.

 

[Periwinkle]

I have met non-BG TGs in Patong. They live in Katu. I met one in Tai Pan and she introduced me to her friends. Mostly they were very good-looking ladies. She drove me around the island in her new SUV and all her friends had new SUVs also. They are all mothers with kids in the International school, which is how they met each other. They all are divorced, and have farang ex-husbands who send money to support the kids. The one I was with also had a nice house and owned land on the island. They were from mid 20's to mid 30's in age. Most of them had no problems sleeping with farangs, the attitude being very much like a farang woman, if you like the guy, go for it, no money involved. The one I was with was more conservative, but not because of tradition or what other people might think, only because she did not want to get her heart broken.

One week two of her relatives, two ladies, came to town, from Sukhothai. They wanted to find farang BFs to marry, to live the good life like their cousin, because they were very impressed with her life of money, comfort, and leisure, and that she has never worked a day in her life. We went around to all the discos together. The cousins were pretty much shocked by what they found there, which was rude, drunken farangs who were only interested in sex. After a couple weeks, they gave up and went back to their normal life in Sukhothai.

I met the lady in Tai Pan, and although she and her friends made the rounds of all the discos, including Safari, they seem to favor Banana the most. They would often stay out all night, go home in time to get the kids up for school at 6:30 in the morning, then sleep a good bit of the day. They either had a nanny or paid a neighbor to sleep at their house with the kids, and didn't go out until the kids were asleep at 10 or 11.

So that was an interesting part of Phuket that most of us aren't exposed to. But it shows that there are ladies on the prowl who are not BGs and don't charge for sex, although they certainly are a lot different from BGs/FLs in their attitudes, and the way they socialized with men. However, at a disco, you could not tell the difference by looking at them, since they dressed nice, but very sexy, and looked the same as many of the BGs.

JayBee