Lia@s9

[Linda Lu]

seeing this girl a while back; i decided to give her a go again today. Well i know she has favorable reviews; but i guess i have just had enough of the bull shit and wasting my hard earned money on non sense like this. Some of you may question this; but this is as honest as it gets. First she walks in late. No problem. Before we get aquainted; she's zapping my hands with sanitizer. Like what the fuck is that??? I just spent ten minutes in the shower; that was a huge turn off for me. So i try to get past this and keep an open mind. All through the session this girl is moving around when u want to get close to her; going for the kill 10 minutes in. Basically; i know some girls are better actors than others; but please already!!! I just wanted it over. Then for the finale of my day. She fucken jumps in the shower; no shit; for ten minutes while i'm sitting there waiting. Great i say; but let me go first so i can leave and u can scrub yourself for the whole afternoon all i care. So before anyone starts to jump on me; i'm a younger and clean guy who works out. I just want to give u guys some info; and i was just put off from this nit wit!!! I'm pretty sure she does this with everyone; i think she should find some other line of work as she is a bit over the top with the touching and sanitizing shit!!!

 

[GSD PAL]

doesn't sound like the well reviewed Lia..was planning to try her too. good and poor reviews are appreciated thanks!

 

[Alice In Wonderbra]

Nobody should be jumping on you for writing an honest review. For massageplanet.net to work properly there have to be a variety of opinions and not every girl is perfect.

My only pet peeve about Lia is that she tends to be a clock watcher.

WRT hand sanitizer:

The first time I was asked to use hand sanitizer by an MPA I was kind of offended and taken aback also. Maybe she thought I was dirty and maybe she was just a stickler for hygiene.

Later I figured we're not marrying these girls and if it makes the MPA happy and doesn't affect the overall quality of my session who really cares?

When you get older you won't give a second thought to what most people in a business relationship think about you. You'll focus on the END game.

For instance, if you're in a sales job you get compensated by closing the sale, regardless of whether the client is a dick. The end game is getting the client PO.

In the MP world the end game is having fun and getting off on YOUR terms. Things like Russian and Italian may be on the menu just by asking. The trick is knowing what the MPA's boundaries are (or learn quickly) asking politely, and backing off gracefully if the answer is no. That's a skillset that comes with practice.

If YOUR end game has been satisfied, then you'll generally forget about the little things like hand sanitizer...

Trust me when I say that the MPA's End Game is YOUR money and if she has to take follow your lead and/or take your load on her ass or tits to get it, that's fine.

On those rare occasions where the MPA becomes a personal friend THEN you care about the mutual relationship on an emotional level. It took me a long time to learn and I'm passing this knowledge on for free. LOL

Anyway, I hope this makes sense and puts the hand sanitizer thing in perspective...

 

[Pompal 09.]

Good advice AZN_LOVER and a good perspective.

If you don't ask no one can say yes to you.

As far as hand sanitizier goes I figure having an MPA use it on you means that they anticipate that your hands are going to be touching them in an intimate way. Now what could be better than that?

 

[Petra]

I don't think you guys are doing justice to what the OP has written. See segments of the quotes above. He did try to look pass this and keep an open mind. So, he was focusing on the fun and the end game. But how could he, if he couldn't even get to touch her? And then going for the kill in 10 minutes?

To help us gain a clearer picture of his whole experience though, perhaps he could elaborate a bit on the following. If he has seen her before, what was his experience then? Was the sanitizer thing new? Was the no touching thing new? Was the early kill new? And also, what was the length and option of the session he has elected?

 

[sticks]

I had seen her before; it's been a while though. I don't recall the sanitizer shit in the first session. She was jittery in the first session too. I chose the half hour as i always do. I think here guys; this chick is hot and trying to make some fast cash on less experienced guys. I've been hobbying for a while now; and i won't put up with her shit. As far as direction; trust me; i was taking the lead. I just got tired of her non sense and just wanted out. Take care guys!!!

 

[mommyof1]

Unfortunately V1.0 of what I was trying to say got kind of muddled. I was trying more to focus on why Gixxer shouldn't be offended about the hand sanitizer in general rather than specifics about his session. I've re-worded a bit. Anyway this has given me some ideas for another thread which I'll start later...

I'll shut up now in this thread. LOL

 

[Champion]

I wouldn't be upset by hand sanitizer. I figure it is a good indication of the liberal massage that you can give her.

I also figure that there are guys who think the shower is unnecessary and are not really interested in cleaning. Let's face it - if there are guys who don't wash after a shit - I wouldn't trust them for a safe massage. I think the girl is justifiably playing it safe.

 

[Highlands Emma de Milo]

Thanks for the update gixxer.
I've wanted to see her for a while now, guess it's way too late to hope she was still fresh.

 

[Here_comes_the_Sun]

Sorry bud; but if you read the op; you would see i stated i took a shower. I don't go to places with no showers and it is in my personal opinion that i have been hobbying for the last 12 years and have never seen this shit pulled on me before. Maybe i should bring the sanitizer into the room and give her a good zapping as i am not the one who is touching different dicks all day long. Anyway; not trying to beat a dead horse here; this is all i will post here. My final thoughts is it is up to you to see her. I think like the other poster said; maybe this girl is doing other stuff now and this isn't her full time gig anymore. Take care; hope my info helped some of u boys!!!

 

[Brandie C]

Did you go for the BS option with her? If you did and you weren't able to touch her I wouldn't have paid for a BS. If you just paid for N or T and had your hands wandering where they shouldn't be, I can also see why she would be dodgy.

 

[wizebloke]

hehehe, thanks for the clarity.

Your post has been helpful to me.

 

[delouse]

There's no need to explain, sir. You are a well regarded gentleman of this board. And you always kindly look out for we greener guys and offer well-intended and valuable advice. This posting of yours comes from the same good place you always dwell. We understand that.

To be honest, when I replied to this thread in the death of night, I was full of amazement and perturbation. I have been hobbying for quite a few years now and I have never come across this sanitizer thing. And in the time I have been on this board, I have not come across any mention of it either. Actually, I am still quite incredulous that this is real with some MPAs. Frankly, this will be an instant deal killer. To a lot of us, this hobby is a fantasy trip in romantic veneer. It's the veneer that we are buying. The moment something comes along to strip off this veneer, like the sanitizer thing, its sleazy, slimy lower essence is fully exposed and the the whole house of card crumbles. We are left feeling like slime buckets that will kill any mood on the table.

I hope more members will come forward to ID these sanitizer slingers. They will be saving some brothers here a lot of grieves and money I think.

 

[Chris]

Maggie at Melody Spa sprayed my hand with sanitizer right away. She was otherwise friendly and not too restrictive so it didn't really bother me.

 

[Pompal 09.]

I've had several sessions with Lia. The first couple she was great, she was very open. The last couple she's not into it as much and with more restriction. This is totally opposite how it's been with other girls as you have more sessions with them. I feel that she might be losing some steam. She's also been scheduled less and less. I'm not going to be seeing her again as I want good value for the money.

 

[Elisabeth C]

I don't mind the hand sanitizer, whatever makes the girl comfortable. Sorry to hear about your experience, maybe Lia was having an off day. It happens.

 

[orlenda]

i personally dont mind the sanitizer it shows me that their clean.

 

[Medori]

While I see their point in having us use hand sanitizer, I think it could be done in a way that does not feel like you are in a doctor's office. I've had a few asian girls in the past do this & yes, the routine of "Hold out your hands, SPRAY, now Wipe down, good" is definitely mood-killing.

The MPA could really ask it before you start the reverse massage, or spray it on her hands and then hold hands with you, or in some more sensual manner. I think its all in the approach they take.

 

["Music is a Religion"]

she's off the s9 board now!

 

[Pompal 09.]

sadly i would settle for sara until lia comes back = D