MPA - unneccessary weight loss

[gramof6]

Have seen an MPA a couple times this summer who has a great figure, slender but with curves in all the right places and a great pair of natural Cs. Saw her again yesterday after a month or so, and noticed that she had definitely become much more slender. Not to the point of being boney, but it looked like she was headed in that direction.

Sure hope she isn't going in the wrong direction due to perceived competition from other gals at that spa...not many of whom I would consider skinny. Or, maybe it could be substance-use related.

She's a very nice sensual gal who provides both an excellent massage and a fair bit of fun (within the MP limits).

I'm sure some of you want to know her name....sorry that's not the point of my thread. Just hope she or someone at the spa keeps an eye on this change before it becomes a problem.

 

[Shenanigans]

Yes, I noticed that too. I was going to speak with the SPA manager but changed my mind.

As a friendly suggestion though I told her next time she goes to McDonald ask for SuperSizeMe. Hey, life is short anyway.

 

[Requiem]

Bring her healthy food whenever you see her.. it might help...

 

[zanevorhis]

Undue weight loss with someone in the adult entertainment industry generally suggests that she's on the "C-diet" 90% of the time.

 

[Pompal 09.]

My favourite has just dropped 30lbs suddenly and in all honesty her new slimmer version did not turn me on as much as she used to . Mr happy was not excited for the whole session. She had the most perfect curvy body previously .She still looks good but she was 9.9/10 before now I would give her a 9.25/10.

Lets hope she stops there........... My previous fav. just did the same but just continued on and became very thin. Luckily she has got bigger fake boobs so they did not shrink but my current favourite is all natural and the weight loss also brought her boob size down.

 

[Pompal 09.]

I was thinking the same thing but this is just based on catty comments from another MPA so who knows.

 

[Abdel]

This is actually a pretty complicated subject, there is a bunch of potential reasons.

Obvious, the "C-diet" is an issue for some. 'nuff said on that.

However, there are often more significant (and more disturbing things) behind weight loss, especially on girls that were already small or at a normal and attractive weight. Peer pressure is always part of the game, but more often than not it comes from a poor body image or a lack of self confidence. Sadly, some of the girls who work in the MP/ SP world don't do it because they are massively confident about themselves or have a good body image, but rather because they don't feel good about themselves. These sorts of feelings can be brought on by the work itself (imagine the feeling of a girl who reads reviews that call her "fat" or "unattractive"). It can also be brought on by other issues. Significant weight loss is sometimes a sign that the person is having an eating disorder, which is something that often comes from the environment, etc.

Don't be shy, IMHO, if you see one of your regulars fading away. Ask them about it, find out if it is intentional. Don't be shy to express an opinion in preference for the
"old you" if that is what you like. Let them know that they are wonderful and sexy as they are, not when aspiring to some size 0 stupidity model.

 

[I feel better]

It could be a variety of reasons. It could be stress, sickness, diet and excercise or just hormonal.
Give these girls a break and stop the speculations. If you are really concerned mentioned it to her. Perhaps, she may not have noticed it. It happens.

 

[fizixx]

One of the lady's who work here at Hands from Heaven has recently shed weight. But it's doubtful that you are speaking of her.

But speaking of the posted topic, it is quite possible to loose weight without drugs. This particular lady at my establishment never used any kind of drug to loose the weight, she is actually following instructions from a nutritionist. Any of those who know the lady I am speaking about will agree that she is surely of her own mind when making a decision about weight loss because she is such a confident person. I don't think anyone could tell her anything about how she should look or feel, she is quite comfortable in her own skin. She chose to lose weight because it was what she wanted personally.

Maybe the lady that you are speaking about lost the weight for the same reason. A person might view it as 'unnecessary weight loss' which it very well may be, but unnecessary how and for whom? Maybe the weight loss isn't out of 'necessity' at all and it might be just out of personal desire

 

[Mooky69]

Well said Kayla! Its true...personal choice is probably the 1st and most prominant reason. Yes there are other factors in this particular industry, but the same could be applied to office politics, friends losing weight, or media influence. Calling it unessessary is a very relative statement...some like 'em thicker/curvier...some like 'em stick thin and spinning. As long as they are healthy and happy...thats all that matters

 

[theologynut]

Please excuse my ignorance..

What is the C-diet?

 

[HealthWise]

It refers to the white powder version of the well-known black soft drink cola whose name begins with the letter "C".

 

[Rebel]

I've been trying to do so for 15 years......still trying to lose weight, on the bright side, my weight hasn't increased in 15 years.

The better phrase may have been "Unhealthy weight loss", as it looks like she is thinner than need be, and considering the weight loss happened quite quickly, it seemed strange. Her web pics make her look quite a lot bigger than I ever saw her.


Have not been to HFH since the move westward, whatever became of Paul?

 

[Yia!]

Why don't you stop by and see us

 

[Happykid]

In my 50 + visits to the new HFH, I have encountered Paul only once. we did have a long chat.

He was almost always present at the old location. Especially after IT's fall.

 

[Just a girl]

I was wondering if that's who was meant too... The pics of her on the website look *great*. I went into S9 a few weeks back for the first time hoping to see her and left without my session because after seeing all of her ribs I totally lost my desire to have a session.

 

[Nadi]

Unnecessary in terms of the guy being turned on during his session with her. She thinks she looks hotter and she doesn't. Instead of being curvy and cute now she's saggy and loose. OP is likely speaking of his own personal desire and not the MPA's.

 

[Cleopatra]

Original Poster is just looking out for the best interest of the MPA. Hopefully this does not turn into something she loses control over. Bulemia, anorexia are serious issues.

If I was just concerned with me being with a hot girl, I would not raise the issue and just move on to the next gal I think is hot.

Hopefully the gal & her spa take these kind of issues seriously. I am surprised this issue has not been raised before as I am sure this happens more than we care to know.

 

[Confusing123]

Sadly, yes. I'd say its easily comparable to celebrity trends. The fad diets, the eating disorders, sugery addictions, drugs (diet or otherwise)...The real question is, how do we change it? Its hard to read things about yourself and not react. its hard to be around thinner, taller, blonder, fitter, women and not react. Its a vicious cycle. Personally, I think what makes women beautiful is the variety and curves. Its sets us aside from men. Softer, rounder, sweeter, and we smell better

P.S. MS...your sig line gave me the giggles!

 

[kemperk]

Props to you for that.