muscle spasms
Nice responses so far!
To Leanne - As a "newbie", you will often find yourself doing things that you second-guess later. I think it's great that you bring these kinds of questions and issues to the MassagePlanetL forums for discussion! :grin: Hopefully something shared here helps you progress more rapidly!
A few thoughts for you:
Some people, athletes in particular, are frequently able to withstand greater pressure with less reviewed discomfort. There are lots of hypotheses about why this is... healthier tissues, increased physical pain tolerance due to training activities, altered perception of physical pain signals due to training, macho unwillingness to admit intensity of pain sensations, increased tissue density, etc., etc.
All of these are very interesting, but for you, right now, it doesn't matter why.
It is NOT necessary to cause pain in the course of helping someone. Strong arguments AGAINST causing pain are becoming prevalent among those who incorporate neurodynamic concepts into their manual therapy sessions.
It is possible to apply a great deal of pressure without causing significant pain. It is possible to achieve great results with very little pressure.
Developing the ability to palpate tissue qualities and cultivating a tactile understanding of tissue responses are enormously helpful and should be some of your professional development goals. If you can feel it, you can learn to feel it change, and that will tell you volumes about how to help your clients.
If you try to force "deep pressure", you blunt your sensitivity and ability to adapt your work to the client's changing needs throughout the session. Learn to apply more pressure with less effort and relax into it as much as possible.