My first visit

[ChivaChiva]

Hello all, just found these forums, very new to the hobby

Got out of a relationship a few months ago, havn't had much desire to hit the dating scene anytime soon. Seems like so much work for a small chance of a good relationship. Somehow I'm in my late 20's and already jaded

The closest I have come to paying for "it" at this point is a few drunken visits to the various strip clubs in town with some friends. It didnt take long to realize that is just a huge waste of money for not much in return. Wtf they should at least let you touch them right?

Anyways, its been a while since having any female companionship so I finally work up the nerve to visit a MP. I drive up to the Asian spa on the northside (I have always had it bad for asian girls). I park in the back alley and ring the bell. I wait for what seems like an eternity, thinking to myself that someone I know will drive by and catch me redhanded. After about 30 seconds I get let in, and at this point I'm just happy to be out of the rain looking like a pervert.

I get led in by an average looking asian girl into a small dark room. This place seems pretty sketchy to me, but I push that out of my mind instead thinking about finally getting laid again. She asks me how long I want, I opt for 45 minutes and she tells me its $$ I give her the money and she leaves as I take a shower. She comes back in the room as i'm drying off...I feel pretty ridiculous standing naked in front of some girl I dont even know. I awkwardly try to make small talk about the crappy weather outside as I hastily get dried off. Thankfully her english isnt very good so no need for much conversation (I suck at small talk)

I finish drying off and quickly get onto the table. She gives me an average massage for about 20 minutes. I begin wondering If i'm supposed to give some kind of signal or how to proceed to the fun part. She finally tells me to turn over and I happily oblige. I watch as she quickly disrobes and then begins running her hands over me. Well as I mentioned its been a while since having a womans touch so my little soldier is quick to attention. This seems to please her as she gives me a little smile then quickly finds a hat to put on him. She begins giving me a cbj and I think to myself why it has taken me so long to visit one of these magical places

My attention is quickly turned back to what she is very skillfully doing and I begin to curse myself for going so long without letting off any steam so to speak. At this point it's too late to distract myself and my little guy is spent. My euphoria quickly fades and I come to the realization that its only been about a minute since she began. My gawd that is embarrassing!
Thankfully she is nice about the situation, I'm guessing that is probably the easiest money she has ever made

I quickly take a shower and get dressed, just wanting to get the hell out of there at this point. I do the walk of shame back to my car, happy that my first visit is out of the way. Next time i'll be prepared, maybe i'll even make it to the sex part! I have to admit the whole experience was pretty exhilarating.

Anyways, thats the story of my first visit to a MP. A question for you more experienced members, how long do you usually go without a release to avoid a quick release on your visit, but also avoid having to pound her relentlessly?

Also if anyone else has an embarrassing first time to share, lets hear em haha

 

[sminthian1980]

Welcome to massageplanet

I'm going to answer your questions later, but for right now, I'm pulling myself off the floor laughing!

 

[David S]

awww that was adorable

 

[smarge22]

After reading your post again, I laughed some more, mostly because the emotions you shared resonate with me. Although the situation is different, I could see myself doing similar actions.

Well, I’m far from being an expert, but to your question about for how long to abstain before going in so as you could get the “ideal” timing – for me, it’s much more complex than that.

The threshold, the point at which your face looks really funny, for me is a moving line influenced by many factors. My energy level (before or after work), have I eaten too much or too little, wine, the ambiance of where I’m at (sounds, smells, vibes) and other factors will determine how long it takes to get from A to O, as it were. Oh, and I shouldn’t forget the company that I’m with and that brings me to my final point before my story.

A top SP will read you and should be able to change things up enough that as you approach the threshold, she can bring you back down. Personally, I find better service by independents. I’ve been to good MP’s but I’ve also felt with some, that once they found the magic button, they keep pushing it until you hit the O and out you went. If you’re with an Indy for an hour session as you described, you’d be all but guaranteed a MSOG.

Here’s a funny story. It’s not my first visit but none the less it has to do with reaching an O.

I had completed an extraordinarily busy 12 day work schedule and planned a visit with a wonderful lady that I’ve seen many times on my last work day. We enjoy a beautiful meal together, wine and then a soapy rendezvous in the tub. Now I was exhausted from work, full tummy, and a little wine to which I added a full Viagra (just for fun rather than need – it’s a great drug if you haven’t tried it). Trouble is all these factors combined to give me a very low threshold. As we soaked in the soapy water, the slightest body movement on the little guy was making me think it would be blowing soon. She hadn't even touched him yet. What’s a guy to do? I recalled from my days as a kid, my grandmothers panties hanging on the wash line. That gave me some relief.

Well on to the bed, with my O still intact. She starts off with a nice slow CBJ. I’m just about done. Enough, I take charge and move to DATY. Awesome, except the area under my balls is rubbing on the edge of the bed. Okay, so stop that, and focus on DATY. All went well - my O is still intact. We move to FS. MPOS later, nothing!! She brings out some toys, we play and then move to FS again, MPOS again, and still nothing! I rip the cover off, and go with the 5 knuckle shuffle (after all who can do this better than me, right), well still nothing. I drop to the bed, exhausted, hot, and sweaty but in complete bliss.

Some thoughts about that time together. It ranks as one of my ATF. The lady was so aware and responsive to my needs – she was fantastic. Not having an O had nothing do with her. My threshold was so low at the beginning of the session and yet by the middle of the session it was so high as all the factors came together and played a role. I’m in my early forties and that night I made it from A to Z, I just missed O, but I'm okay with that. No, better than okay. It was fantastic!

 

[ChristianS]

Your post was a hoot and brings back memories from long ago. Most of us have been in a similar position and have experienced similar emotions.

It does not take long to learn to pace your self and with practice you can make the session last as long as you chose. Besudes, a good handjob or blowjob often provides the needed result without all the effort (wink)!!

I look forwatd to your next review...T

 

[Dmitri]

Thanks for your response Pharmb, I'm glad I at least gave someone a good laugh

I appreciate the advice, I guess I will have to experiment until I find my ideal timing. Although I guess depending on the circumstances and if the girl is a real looker it all goes out the window anyways, the little guy is gonna do what he wants!

I almost went back to that place to redeem myself today, but thought better off it. I think my next visit will be to Vivian (Body and Soul from CL) I've read some good reviews, seems like great VFM. (ok, screw VFM i'm just a sucker for asians and petite women in general)

Other than that can anyone recommend a good MP thats close to southwest edmonton? Outcalls are not really an option for me (too many family/friends that like to drop by unannounced ) It seems like most places are either north of the river or east side, but maybe there's a hidden gem close by?

 

[annorax64]

South side I would say Aristrocrats or Supreme Spa

Rebecca at Aristrocrats ( 39 years young! ) http://www.aristocratmassage.com/ 92 str and 34 ave

I have never seen to Supreme but hear good things. Try maybe Sandy cal tr S and about 60 ave

 

[Evilcharm]

Definitely Lacey at Supreme Spa!

 

[Jamie]

Good post, reminds me of my first visit...and every subsequent visit. It doesn't seem to get much easier sometimes.