bigjohn639
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...days, is this normal? I apologize for the great amount of reading you have before you, but please help.
Things are (or were) going great between us, and I think that she thinks everything is still cool, but she seems rather committed to beating her mobile phone, computer and Facebook addiction by abstaining from all types of social technology for 2 weeks. Whilst I admire this and believe it to be a step in the right direction, she seems to be cool without speaking to me for 5 days or so until the weekend, telling me to communicate with her through her brother if I wanted to do something next weekend. I really don't know how to feel, because she seemed so happy and carefree when she told me of her decision to reinvent herself, but when she said that she couldn't talk to me either and it didn't seem to bother her. This, amongst other things, has kind of broken me completely. I can't and probably won't be happy with any kind of distraction until I see her, because I think I legitimately love her and wait until the point in every day that I can speak to her. My stupid brain has tried to conceive of all the possibilities as to why she couldn't care about talking to me on a day-to-day basis, and my state of mind has set me upon the idea that she doesn't like me anymore. I really don't know what to do, because I don't want to upset her by questioning her feelings towards me because I have so much affection for her, and by asking a question like, "Do you like talking to me?", I fear I'll create a rift between us.
Should I wait (the wise thing to do, I know), or should I make some attempt to contact her? The reason I fear contacting her is because she didn't seem to mind about not contacting me.
I feel like crying and my eyes are welling up when I think of her, and I know I'm not going to sleep tonight because I think I'll end up crying in bed. Once again, I apologize... but what would you guys do?
Things are (or were) going great between us, and I think that she thinks everything is still cool, but she seems rather committed to beating her mobile phone, computer and Facebook addiction by abstaining from all types of social technology for 2 weeks. Whilst I admire this and believe it to be a step in the right direction, she seems to be cool without speaking to me for 5 days or so until the weekend, telling me to communicate with her through her brother if I wanted to do something next weekend. I really don't know how to feel, because she seemed so happy and carefree when she told me of her decision to reinvent herself, but when she said that she couldn't talk to me either and it didn't seem to bother her. This, amongst other things, has kind of broken me completely. I can't and probably won't be happy with any kind of distraction until I see her, because I think I legitimately love her and wait until the point in every day that I can speak to her. My stupid brain has tried to conceive of all the possibilities as to why she couldn't care about talking to me on a day-to-day basis, and my state of mind has set me upon the idea that she doesn't like me anymore. I really don't know what to do, because I don't want to upset her by questioning her feelings towards me because I have so much affection for her, and by asking a question like, "Do you like talking to me?", I fear I'll create a rift between us.
Should I wait (the wise thing to do, I know), or should I make some attempt to contact her? The reason I fear contacting her is because she didn't seem to mind about not contacting me.
I feel like crying and my eyes are welling up when I think of her, and I know I'm not going to sleep tonight because I think I'll end up crying in bed. Once again, I apologize... but what would you guys do?