New Years Resolutions

[Twilight Brigade]

Congrats Fireballs ! the other sites loss is this sites gain ! I understand they cant stand your independent and sometimes maverick opinion, dont they know its freedom of expression ! Anyway, Burt is also missing in action, otherwise you could have continued some more debates The other site has a few good posters, but most others are one line "smart assers". It is to be appreciated that newbies get fairly prompt and detailed answers here as compared to the other boards.

 

[PBM seeking RWW]

Bohemian wrote:

I already completed one of my first New Years resolution I just quit the other site I use to be on, and that will free up some of my time I waste writing on prostitution board truely a waste of time, but entertaining at times.

The last straw for me was being told in a nice way to quit getting guy mad. If having a different opinion is getting guys mad, fuck em, then I just won't write there. I'll write more about their theory later, but the debate was over newbies wanting to know if the New PAN Mayor in Tijuana, cleaned up police corruption in TJ. A few people gave their personal experiences saying they haven't got stopped, so yes it appears TJ corruption is cleaned up and is a lot better. My response it's too early to tell, and by going by your own experiences is not real evidence, and based on past experience after PAN has been in power, you guys come to the site and cry the blues about the TJ police abuse and shakedown, and I asked can I laugh at them when they find out nothing has really changed? I was then locked out of the specific thread and the guys were allowed to engage in ad hominem attacks against me calling me things like a fucking asshole, and I could not respond back because I was locked out, so really I don't need chicken shit little sites like that with guys with pea brains being in charge telling me not to get guys mad, how funny.

 

[Crow]

Good post FB, as usual, something to think about and practical, lessening the trips has a greater chance of sucesss.
NO! please dont add "reducing writings on forum" to that list, sorry we are not going to get you "banned" here so you will have to continue posting
Inspite of all your mongering, writing (I presume you do have a job), you have time for Pud Thai (read Thailand) ! and Costa Rica ! Please dont disappear like Larry, may be you can look for him while you are there !

 

[Evan Blows Bubbles]

This is a Good New year resolution, good because it is achievable, when we try to swing the pendulum (read penis) the other way it usually fails ! What is more successful is lesseing the trips consciously. Good idea guys I found my new year resolution, now only If I can implement it, It has been 5 weeks since Dec 7 and counting.....

 

[hellokitty]

This is a difficult question to answer without much data-gathering research to back up any possible scenarios. Anyone savvy at writing research grants? We could call it, "Anticipating the Possible Deleterious Effects of Proposed Border Crossing Restrictions" and maybe get SANDAG to pony up $750,000 to do the research. (How do you like that word, "Deleterious?" Pretty snazzy, huh? Those are the kind of words you have to use when you write research grant proposals and are asking the taxpayers to waste hard-earned tax dollars on worthless research.) Then we'd hang around la Zona all day and night and ask the chicas lots of questions about how many American hombres, Mexican hombres, and International hombres they see each day and how much each pays, etc., etc., etc. Of course, in the interests of furthering the cause of knowledge, we'd have to do some of our own hands-on research, also, to, you know, authenticate the findings. We could also interview lots of guys who visit web sites dedicated to mongering in TJ, too. I wonder where we'd find them?

Without the grant, any possible scenarios we propose would be groundless speculations. So I suggest we get to work on it right away! Anyone game?

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Okay, bringing reality to the fore, let's assume we don't get the grant. Let us try to envision Bohemian's first unlikely scenario that Americans were totally banned from la Zona. How would it affect the commerce? It would certainly change drastically. From my experience, many of the men cruising la Zona are Americans. But not all are Americans. There are many who I assume to be locals. And there seem to be some -- again, I am assuming -- from other than America & Mexico. Ex-patriots from the maquiladoras? Tourists visiting California and San Diego who are spending some time in TJ? Not sure. Just guessing. In any case, the total loss of American hombres would certainly shrink the amount of commerce in la Zona drastically but it would no doubt still survive, albeit in a much, much smaller form. My guess is the BGs and the bars themselves would take a far greater hit than the SGs. And the Meet-Me-At-McDonald's Escorts would probably be reduced to a mere whisper of what they are now.

In light of the recent proposals to continue to increase security at the border crossing, Bohemian's second scenario of more restrictions is more probable. The current proposal is to require passports by June 2009. I submit that those of us close to TJ would readily get a passport -- it's not that hard -- and just go along as we have done in the past. (I already have my passport and always use it to cross back into the U.S.) It's the folks from Oklahoma City and Boise and Dayton (What need do they have of a passport in the Heartland of the Good Ol' U. S. of A.?!) who are in San Diego for a conference who will be forced to forego the day/night side-trip South of the Border. Although it will hurt, this scenario will have a much less pronounced effect on the amount of commerce on all involved.

So rejoice, Brethren! La Zona will continue to thrive in TJ in spite of the injurious attempts to keep us from forsaking our homeland in search of our admirable goal of "improving U.S. / Mexican relations, one (or possibly two) chicas at a time." And given our own futile attempts at voluntarily trying to reduce our manifold sojourns through hapless New Year Resolutions, there is no doubt we will continue helping to keep TJ's economy thriving, (one or possibly two) chicas at a time!

Drunkenly submitted,

gmbrldx

 

[imablaaze4life]

If cutting down the number of trips to TJ is not a major New year's resolution, what is ? I am also in the same situation FB. So you climb the wall when you don't get a trip to TJ every other week ? I get panick attack when I don't make a weekly trip. I can tell how often I go to TJ when I look at the odometer on my car. Well, I am also trying to cut down the # of trips to TJ this year, but I am not so sure if I can do it.

 

[redapples]

I have no major New year resolutions this year except to cut down on my trips to Tijuana, and I think I have done that. I no longer have the craving I once did, because I use to literally climb the walls if I didn't go every two weeks or so, and once three weeks hit, I had to go, now I think I could go the whole month without a trip?

I need to cut down of my writings on prostitutions boards, so hopefully this year I'll get banned from one forum, and allow them to keep me banned, more then likely it will be on another forum where I have another handle, and where I often get into heated debates about different issues.

In it's place more working out, and foreign languages. I started studying Thai for a trip I was going to make to Thailand on a spiritually journey, maybe a little hedonism mixed in, but things didn't work out, so instead I'll just hang out in Costa Rica as I'll be with a few family members part of the trip doing the rain forest thing in about a week. But I enjoyed learning a few Thai phases, and I know some Thai girls here in the states that can help me out, so I do want to learn more.

 

[Lol]

Nothing gets Amigomios pressure rising as claims about American Tourists helping the Mexican economy
While on the subject, isnt it true, wouldnt TJ zona be closed down if the Americans were banned to visit the zona or had too many restrictions ?

 

[Vega]

Yes, AmigoMio, it was meant to be mildly humorous. My apologies for sending your blood pressure rising unnecessarily.

 

[NikoleusFC]

Amigo, I think your sarcasm detector is broken again. Just like when I call my visits to Mexico as opportunities to improve US/Mexico relations, one chica (somtimes two) at a time.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Ay! Caramba!!!!

"TJ economy humming along to the best of my abilities"

Another gringo that thinks that TJ lives thanx to his worthless dollar expenditures!!!!!

Tell me Gmbrldx.... how much did you spent at TJ in the year 2007??????

 

[BilligCialis]

Bohemian, I guess you've run into the "New Year's Resolution Stonewall" as more and more people refuse to make resolutions they have no intention of keeping. I mean how many times can you resolve to lose those last 10 pounds?

But at least you got some of us thinking. After some reflection, I came to the conclusion that I am very content with my TJ mongering experiences. I doubt I'll ever be able to visit Thailand or Costa Rica or the Philippines or Brazil or whatever other exotic mongering spots around the globe entice other more carefree, foot-loose mongers. But luckily for me, TJ is only a 20-minute drive (or a 45-minute trolley ride) and then a ten-minute walk. And also luckily for me, I've only had one unsatisfying Adelita's mechanical "Ice Queen" experience. (But at least I got off.) All my other SG, BG, and escort experiences have ranged from decent/passable to thoroughly enjoyable to heavenly.

Therefore, my 2008 New Year's Resolution is to help keep the TJ economy humming along to the best of my abilities. In exchange, Yours Truly gets to walk around with a shit-eatin' grin on his face for a few days -- until the next adventure!

Happy Hunting!

 

[Musicluver]

Alright guys let me start something new, lets see if this one flies, my last 2 ventures have been grounded
What would be your NY resolution with reference to mongering ?
Would you swear that you will never fall in love with a zona chica again ?
Would you swear to stick to your budget
Would you swear to do as many girls and never go with the same girl twice
OR
Would you stop mongering altogether ? (perhaps impossible)
Would you lower down the frequency of your mongering.

Heck I thought about it, I am like undecided, and probably will be such come 2009 !