Old Question??

[Kenny]

Ok i am about to open up the Pandora's box again, because of a story i have heard from a friend, the question is dating an MPA and only an MPA, good or bad idea??

 

[Glenn]

Let me just say that every lady is different and it depends on the chemistry between the two of you.

Bear in mind however if you are in a relationship with one, you cant go visiting her at her place of employment.

 

[sunshine11]

I have had the opportunity but never followed through. This may sound hypocritical and I admit it but I could never date or have a girlfriend that works in the industry. Imagine your girl giving strangers HJ. DP of worse. I mean, we have all( at least some of us) crossed the standard line of just massage with HJ. I couldn't even stand some guy touching my girl

 

[Blair W]

I could probably have a "serious" dating relationship with an MPA-only if I didn't know she was one.

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[Carissima]

I agree with Big Ben. There is no way I could go through with it. Just imagining my GF with 10 other guys a day. I would simply go nuts.

 

[chicamalika]

An MPA I could handle, a stripper I could handle, SP I'm not that mature.
truth is some of the most interesting women I've met have been strippers, and the one MPA I've met is also a very interesting person. Problem is once I've met someone int these situations I don't know how to shift from being a customer to attempting to start a serious relationship, and I think most women wouldn't do it.

 

[emale address]

First and foremost they are people, please don't forget that. Let's face it if the ladies in our lives knew what we get up to every day at work would they feel comfortable? How many of us do unspeakbale things every now and again, and I am talking behaviour here, not sex.

 

[ngv]

just a question to go along with this: has anyone here actually dated a MP or stripper that they origionally met as a client? who initiated the relationship? how did it happen? I doubt this will ever happen to me but it would be nice to get some pointers just in case.

 

[ano]

And I took her home to meet the family and my niece feel asleep on her lap.

 

[Fighterinferno07]

right on romeo, way to not be a hypocrite (odd compliment granted, but still)
I think if I dated a MPA or stripper I'd be just as likely to have her meet the parents as any other girl, meaning I'd avoid it as long as possible (My family is the Adams family without the intentional humour)

 

[Torch-Bearer]

i should probably post this there but i once had a russian mpa tell me that she loved me. i had seen her a couple of times and on the way out she kissed me and whispered "i love you" into my ear.

never went back!

 

[GRACE Q]

i should probably post this there but i once had a russian mpa tell me that she loved me. i had seen her a couple of times and on the way out she kissed me and whispered "i love you" into my ear.

never went back! didn't really know how to take it.

 

[Zedakiah]

I don't blame you, that would throw me off too (or have me thanking god depends on the girl)

 

[Kyle Vaughan]

she seemed really nice and sincere. i think that's what scared me.

i could picture myself in some f***ked up marriage so she could get her citizenship or something!

 

[Wiz]

Mybe it means something else in russian!!!

 

[maplesyrup]

I don't want to stereotype but speaking from personal experience- it did not work for me. It costed me great stress and frustration. I promise myself that I will never do it again.
Good Luck!

 

[StyncKeyncBot]

I was in the same position you were in. Not as deep as you but almost on the same level. I got a number and a real name from a popular MP. We just clicked mentally on the first visit. The second visit I opt for a BS and we just laid there and talked and I only paid for basic. Later I took her out to lunch and we got to know each other better. I was a little skeptical so I never gave her my real name or number.

The problem, on one visit she told be that she never kisses any of her customers and we really got into it one day. I later found out through reviews and PM's that she had done this with a few of the guys on the board.
Since then, I have never called and never returned. Wasn't sure if she was just playing a game or going the extra mile with other guys for the money. Either way I just couldn't handle it.

Again I'll admit I'm the biggest hypocrite, but I have to look out for myself.

By the way Albert, I hope your not talking about Nona! Imagine being her boyfriend and kissing man-ass every day.

I hope that joke didn't hit too close to home.

B.B.

 

[enrodiaTriece]

there was a girl who danced at Friction - when it was bunnies. this would have been in late '97. she had JUST started and was brought in by a friend to work for a couple months.

the 2 of us REALLY clicked ...

i came to visit her once or twice a week ... and i HATED the place ... i went there once and she wasnt working .. her friend was .. and asked for my # so they could phone me when she WAS workin ... sounded like a ploy for return biz - and in the friends mind, im sure it was.

we met up aagain the week after
friend got totally smashed at work and couldnt drive home - me being the sweet-faced gentleman that i am, offered a ride home ... girlf asked me to drop the friend first ... then we went to a coffee shop till 6 AM

i took her home - nothing happened that night.

we ended up dating for 6 months....
she quit the club 4 weeks into our relationship

i was fine w/ it all if she stayed because i KNEW what she was like ... i feared for her safety ... because bunnies sucked back them for that ... but other thani t was totally cool w/ me

 

[PUMPKIN head]

Well AF i am sorry about your situation. I am in a similar
situation, but i am a younger fool than you.
The job is a catch 22 for most of the ladies, they claim
to hate the job but they do not hate the easy money.
Despite there past i find women on a whole reach that
magical age 30 and want to marry, in fact expect to marry
joe nice guy and start a family.

 

[Designer~Wife]

Albert,

Sorry man, that sucks !!

Now, breaking up over e-mail ? Sounds to me like she wasn't worthy of you if she doesn't respect you enough to do it in person.

I lost alot of money dating an MPA - but, it was a great while it lasted. So, although it was a drag when it ended, I don't regret it.

As I have always said, you can live your life in a straight line, or with ups and downs - its totally your choice.