On The Issue of Shallow...

[HOOAH! MP Veteran]

Due to recent topics I have decided to have a little rant on the subject of whether we who induldge in BG's are shallow or not???

The real question is can you be shallow if you are deeply into something and dedicate a lot of resources, time and effort into as I do with my international mongering activities. Lets face it - When I am not working I am out partying and chasing LBFM's around till I catch one for procreation activites (or visa versa) .

BTW how can the act of having sex with as many women as possible with in a little time as possible be a shallow act when it is in fact the fundamental biological programming of all life to reproduce - "Why like dat ah???"

Shallow - I think not.

Heroic is more like it :thumbsup:

I have ben considering this topic of so called shallow behaviour with respect to normal people activities like going to Spa's, having Make-Overs, slimming, sending greeting cards, washing cars, baking, paying alimony, etc, etc which are really all very superficial (The real implication of shallow) but are not labelled as such because they are commen loves of the hairy legged femme nazi (except the under arm hair trimming options at the downtown Nivarna Spa and Hairdressers).

Lets face it if it it was not for the whining of sexless women with little chance of getting laid except by plying hapless males with large volumes of Black Death and guilt trips every male would be out bangin BG's.

You see the only difference between us mongers and those under the cowl of facist political correctness is that we woke up to the female tricks of male subjugation which have been taking hold in our Western societies. Such practise are laughable to males of other cultures btw that are the next target of these selfish heartless snarling man haters in the guise of saving their sisters from a fate worse then reality.

Swings and round-a-bouts is all I can say to you my fiercesome femme nazi wooly backs. We shall again have our dday in the sun :aan:

In summary shallow is a term used by people who need to judge others because they don't like or know what they are.

 

[bhram]

bafana, your rant is a bit scary is all I can say. Shallow by definition is something lacking depth, I think any shag for shag sake is shallow, of which I am also guilty...so in short, despite your desire to go back to the stone age from the sounds of things, it is shallow but if your happy...poor is the man whose pleasures depend on the permission of another.

 

[Kev]

Thats what I always say... right before they deliver the verdict..

 

[Brendan L]

Jason your the man. Sorry I couldnt catch up for a beer with you in Singapore last week, as the misses was with me.

 

[Miss?spelled wrong]

But this is only in the eye of the beholder.

To men sex is a fundamental thing too which we constantly either strive towards or participate in. Sex is not shallow - It is the biological meaning of life.

In the mean time we men do other things like work, think, etc to allow us the freedom to carry out our basic instinct. Occassionally we get side tracked into little things like invention and philosiphy but even then if a 9/10 LBFM BG rocked up we would put down our pens and paper to enjoy the moment and continue with thought at a later date.

The Chinese have a saying-

"One mans meat is another mans posion"

Meaning what I think is different than you but thats alright because I don't want to think the way you think and you don't want to think the way I think. I think?

So the "Stone Age" as you put it could be seen as the enlightened age of man where as the "political correct" world of women can be seen as our darkest hour.

As I have said its swings and round abouts. The womans movement has downgraded the life of man to an unnatural level too which a balance shall occur but not before the swing back the other way first. The balance I believe is where we should be at but it has gone too far and that is why you see so many of us able bodied career orientated nation building men of good education and class off in SE Asia banging women that still know how to be a woman - Because we are men.

So lets not start a slagging match which I won't enter into with you because maybe that is what you want (BTW are you trying to push time share in the side side Soi's??? )

This forum is made up off two sections mainly. The first being for "normal people" and the second for us who enjoy what we like the "nightlife". If you come in here without an open mind then you will recieve a blunt response.

This forum accepts men, women, gays and goats. We will even accept femme nazi's as long as they can accept us :cheers:

 

[softballxlove3]

I'll be there next week mate so lets catch up then.

 

[Martin the baby]

I am far from a femanazi and in fact if you have read some of my other posts completely defend men's rights and hate a lot of what feminism has done to men and also to women in many ways.

I do think sex is the biological factor for both men and women and have no problem with people banging away, as long as they are not in a relationship and cheating on someone, I do not tolerate infidelity well on either side.

I do think most men are a lot more than fuc*ing machines though, thankfully. So in a way I am offended by your post because it belittles men. I also do not think equality is a bad thing and think many younger men like having women that are intelligent and challenge them and can be a partner in ever way and not just demurely sit and service their needs and do as they are told.

The reason we evolve socially is to forward our own human race. I believe with population as what it is today and technology what it is evolution may eventually(sadly) phase out sexuality in many ways, pro-creation being redundant when we start to manufacture replacement parts and fix ourselves rather than add more people.(It is a hard theory to explain but I do think it will get there).

Don't really fancy a shouting match either, am far too hungover from last night, and again I think my own feelings are more that you belittle men to the lowest common denominator rather than it coming from any feminist position actually.

 

[bittysmom]

Bloody hell Jason !!

Has someone just lent you a book by Sigmund Freud ?
That was all pretty 'deep' stuff. A little different to your normal line of post

p.s. How did you know I liked goats?

 

[Maybel T]

With perception and all I mean....read a post by Bafana and could have swore it said swallow, realized later on upon continued reading it was actually shallow.
Now that would most def be a case for our friend Freud whom I might add was as crazy as anyone...

 

[ktk]

I agree in the sense that it is in our DNA. You could say that man's most basic drives are for water, food, and shelter(and some might throw love in there). But I say that we seek food, water, and shelter primarily as the prerequisite means to be able to have SEX.

And when achieving that goal is as easy as it is for a farang in LOS, well that's what blows our f*cking minds, and why we are here on this board, and are either in LOS or planning our next trip to get there. Satisfying the sex urge in a normal, healthy way has become a gargantuan task for many of us in our native lands. A mind-boggling, rat-in-a-maze, frustrating puzzle to figure out what you have to do to get your c*ck inside a woman's pussy these days, short of signing over your freedom, your will, your soul, and the bulk of your material possessions.

It is true that some of us at times in our lives become quite facile at sublimating the sex drive and channelling that energy into more intellectual, economic, and social pursuits. But in the end, "It's still the same old story, A fight for love and glory." In other words, we pursue achivement and success to further our status in society, in hopes that ultimately a higher status will result in more control over our environment, thereby increasing the probability that we will get laid more often, be it by wife, GF, or hooker, whatever or whoever it takes. And, in fact we BMs are the proof of that assertion, because it is the success, which is the fruit of our labor, that allows us to travel to a distant foreign land to f*ck beautiful, readily available women(or in my case, to f*ck "pig ugly, absolute dogs! ).

It's the DNA. It directs us. It says "Reproduce." That translates into our conscious minds as "Get laid. The more, the better."

JayBee

 

[b_witch]

But does no one else get bored of non stop banging girls and sending them away in the morning ??? (queue large chorus of no )

Personally I like any red blodded guy will see a hot dancer with a fine face and bod and feel that lust with nothing else attached, but that lasts only as long as it takes to empty your nuts.. Once the helmet pressure is relieved doesnt anyone else want to have someone they can talk and have a laugh with ?? Or is that role simply filled with male friends and bar banter ??

Me I pretty much always have a regular girl who I go home too.. One (and this really is selfish but at least it honest) I am crap at keeping a home nice, clean, decorated, flowers and plants etc.. I like living in this kind of environtment and women ARE better than guys (straight ones anyway, my gay friends have sueforum.xxx homes even if they do tend towards the Liberace school of interior design) the nesting instict seems to me to make this a biological thing.. I also simply like to have a regular girl with whom the sex is understood and sex gets better over time as you work each other kinks, hot spots, likes, etc out.. Luckily for me in Thailand and Asia its possible to find a tolerant GF with whom you can live and have that relationship as well as having the ability to indulge your baser lusts with those that hit your horn button..

I guess what I am trying to say is that simply wanting to fcuk lots of beautiful women is in no way shallow but if that comes at a detriment to other female relationships then I would have to say it may be.. I know some guys are mysigonists (for many reasons, often perhaps due to female attitudes in the west) and for them a quick **** with the least interaction possibly fulfills thier biological imperative with as little dealing as possible.. For me that would be a unfulfilling way to live..

I also think this touches on some posts I read about post LOS blues.. You see some people for whom LOS becomes a bit of a compulsion.. Thier time spent in thier home country is one of saving as much as possible, not socializing etc simply to get back here as fast as possible.. I couldnt live like that either.. If your unhappy where you are, move !!! Have the tiny bit of required courage to get up and go somewhere you can live and enjoy..

Anyway more than I intended to write but of course its not shallow to have the desire to screw beautiful young healthy girls.. But I would start to wonder if my only male female interactions in my life were based around "hello hansome man.. wanna go with me.. 1000 baht".. I mean c'mon guys theres a lot more to 50% of the population than simply working as spunk catchers.

Though finding a TG with an intellect and awareness of issues that can have intelligent conversations with is a lot harder here than it is back home.. Its the tradeoff for the physical ease with which we can indulge that the mental equals (and I dont mean that in IQ I mean that in the ability to discuss wide ranging topics) are much harder to find.. They are there but they are rarely in the Bars..

 

[lopku]

Hi Bafana

Good stuff. Completely agree but don't really understand due to amount of Singha Beer consumed.

Eurothai Girl.
Dear oh dear oh dear.

Mac

 

[The Jenilynn Rush]

I totally agree with you. I got very tired of it after 8 weeks of non-stop banging girls and sending them away in the morning!

 

[Doc]

shallow well it depends on how deep you go into it,what defines shallow in each individual,im single went to thailand met ladies had a really good time always enjoying each others company.Most of my friends are in relationships so i went thailand alone everyone of them say they wish they could do same anyway its just a holiday since when is holidaying shallow id be doing the same in ibiza but be with a pig and not paying for it,id sooner pay 1000bht and take in a totally different culture anytime thai ladies certainly don't make you feel shallow.

 

[elle.]

Just ahve'nt been drinking this week yet :cheers:

I should soon rectify that problem tonite

 

[Roz]

Hi LL,

Im starting to get a bit worried.

Look at the start of the paragraph you wrote -



You havent been drinking in the Royal Paradise area have you ??

Luckily, my blood is blue ...

Take care

 

[secrethq1]

LiL, has the advaneforum.xxxe what his name says.....

Many different ways to orientate your se*life!

In Europe, either you chose to have a family, you can then in the darkest hour, just cheat a nasty way, or scre* around! I like Both! Being married and still have the fun of discovering other girls their body. But I don't want to do that at home!

But......although I generally have the "goodbye next morning girl", the first days, to unload my long wait, after a few days, I try to find a girl, I like a bit more...

Then I like to have her for a longer time, just like Tig . Then the relation is different. After a few days, you know each other, know what makes the other person laugh etc.

Of course, you cannot have this kind of interaction with every girl, but many TG/BG like if the "relation" goes this way!

With a one night stand, you can have the pleasure of the flesh, but the satisfaction of having a nice girl with you to spend some days with is really more fun!

As for the interaction with the BM's, I like that too. But I am not the kind of guy, who like to spend all the time with the "guys". A drink in the evening, a good laugh at MTB, and then take a girl to the room.... :biggrinlo

 

[silmerrnattyina<3]

I'm with you on this one, Tintin. I like your approach. It's more fun when you get to know a girl. And as for the guys, I don't go to LOS for the guys. I go for the girls. If it's guys you want, why leave your hometown?

 

[Ticallion Stallion]

Yeah Jaybee, me it is "girls only"

But as you can see in another tread, look what happens after a few Margaritas!

Honestely, and sorry to say Nicke, but in MTB, just as in most of the bars Margaritas are small and not extraordinary! Except the cuban place on beach road, difficult to find good ones!

So, in Patong, I am never so drunk, as my love for beer is not that serious, except for "draft", wich is not available in most of the girlie-bars!

 

[Pompal 09.]

Because draft doesnt sell. We had it Playschool 5 or so years ago, but took it out as I was having to finish off soooooo many tanks before they went off, and had to be thrown away. I guess its just one of those thankless chores of being a bar owner.