paying bargirls??

[John B]

Okay, so I've been in Phuket for about a month now. Actually, just checked the calender .. it's been exactly a month to the day. Anyway, for those of you who have experience with bargirls, I have a question. When you decide that your going to take her back to your room, when do you negotiate the price? Does the girl typically bring up the money issue before hand? Once you leave? .. or AFTER "boom boom"? Because here's my situation (and I suppose it's not exactly a bad situation to be in). The first girl I hooked up with here didn't ask me for any money. We drank at the bar she worked at until it closed then left together. She ended up staying with me for 2 weeks and never asked me for money. Although she did get a free place to stay and I bought her meals etc. The second girl was the same (Although this one didn't live with me). I randomly talked to her one night at Tiger .. then a few nights later, I go back .. we get to talking .. she comes with me.. actually, it was more like I went with her - back to HER place on Nanai rd. which she shared with 2 other girls. We do "boom boom". She never asked me for money. As a matter of fact. We went to 7-11 .. she picked out a few things, brought them to the cash.. total came to around 300-something baht. I pulled out my money as if to pay and she wouldn't let me. We even "boom boom" again a few nights later. Again, no request for money. However, I saw her in Tiger tonight, made eye contact .. and she didn't even aknowledge me. But, she was working .. talking to dudes so it might not mean anything. Anyway, I ended up talking to a girl that works at Soi Lion ... and guess what happened? We left together after her shift. No talk of money. She brought ME back to HER place. We "boom boom" .. talk for a bit. Go get food after ( by which point it was around 9am).. I offer to pay for her food and she didn't even let me. She takes my phone number .. never asks for money .. and we go our seperate ways. Now, am I supposed to be offering? If they don't expect money and are actually sleeping with me because they genuinely like me, I don't want to offend them. Anyone else have experiences like this or is this pretty rare?

 

[Final Dexter]

In these cases you wouldn't be sat/drinking in a P4P environment

 

[Charma]

Chris
I don't know you and i don't want you to think i am talking sh1t about you, but based on your story you are a complete pr1ck, first you stay with the same person 2 weeks and don't realise it's a L/B, second you have no intention of paying for sex but you make a point of going to bars that are there for the P4P market, there are plenty of bars in Patong that don't offer the P4P scene, you say she or he is a terrible person well sum-nam-na because the funny thing here it wasn't only her/him getting screwed, if you want to kid yourself that you are gods gift to Thai women then that is up to you but you are doing so on a forum where most people have been to LOS many many times and it is not that anyone talks shit about people but if you want my opinion and that is all it is my opinion, your story is the only thing in this thread that is SH1T.

 

[Jane]

Having looked through the last 2 pages I just wonder what the going rate is now for LT, e.g. 1 or more days and nights?
Have not been there since last March so I wonder if that has changed?

Cheers,
Wolf

 

[just me and my opinion]

One more thing....
My comments were in relation to the original post. I hadn't read the whole thread so I didn't realise how unpleasant it had got. This thread seems to have developed into a war of flames with some very silly posts.
Just be nice to the girls and offer them what they rightly deserve.

 

[Home treasure]

How do you know it's a ladyboy ???? Have you spent 2 weeks with that one as well !!!! :

 

[i aint know]

Norm,

Fascinating story. Obviously "Like Father, Like Son" comes first to mind.

Unlike many stories that I have read about mature (insert old, older or geezer) vs. young this is the most convincing that I have read. It is apparent that you have no reason to be biased.

About being asked for money ... ever since I got past the obvious newbie seforum.xxxe I have only been asked for money 1 in 10 times, so I put little weight in that. I have never been remiss in offering a "donation", so I have never had a confrontation. Regardless of age and looks, I think the same goes for you and your sons. It is good that you have taught them about the motivational basis for the ladies ventures.

I am the same age as you so in many respects I know where you are coming from, except I have no children (that I know of). I do find your trips with your boys fascinating ... if not cute ... sorry I mean manly.

GREAT post

 

[ladyofGod]

Yeah but is it amusing though and would like to know how this ends /if ever for 2 of them 555555555

 

[adam g]

Make the most of it you lucky sod

 

[koba]

hes full of it, he posts that he didnt pay because hes insecure.

 

[Awesome Dude]

First Richie88 starts a thread about avoiding bar fines ([thread=22503]Avoiding Bar Fines[/thread]) ... later he was banned.

Here comes Chris88 with a thread about avoiding paying the girls.

Same troll me think ...

 

[NatxandxMilly]

Nope,... he realised only when someboby else point it out to him...
That's what he said...:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

 

[Just To Me]

chris88,

don't sweat the money issue. if they followed you home without a barfine or issue of sex/money, they probably want to be with you...even though this concept is UNIMAGINABLE to most of the board members who insist that you must pay these girls.

my friend and i have hooked up with several girls all over...some BGs, some gogo or coyote dancers, soapie girls, and "normal" thai girls with non p4p jobs - (nurses, makeup artists, hotel staff, massage girls, shop girls, etc). not only in thailand but all over asia and we've met these girls in all sorts of places - the food court, the mall, supermarket, hair salon, etc...not only at bars & discos.

we're not brad pitt or thai popstars/actors lookalikes. and as hard as it is for people on this forum to belive...SOMETIMES THESE GIRLS LIKE YOU AND DON'T EXPECT ANY MONEY.

 

[FloatingRock]

5k st........10 lt.........ij

 

[Darlene]

I think you should ride your luck Chris-one day you will be as old some of the BM' s that complain.Im older than you and do get it for free some times so why not?Then again i do feel a bit guilty afterwards-thats only me.Good luck with training!

 

[Josie]

Just in case you needed reminding ndw!!!!
Dodger posted before the OP revealed that he had spent 2 weeks with a LB!!!
I consider that it was a well thought out response to the information available!!!
Your post, on the other hand adds nothing to the discussion taking place and as you will not even give reasons as to why you think the response is so bad, makes you out to be a TROLL of the highest order!!!
GET A LIFE!!!!!

 

[Corky Thatcher]

Hell yes, its killing me (again).

Seriously I love London most of the time, but the most depressing part is getting to the station out of Heathrow airport, and seeing and hearing all of these miserable bastards on the tube. Pushing you out of the way even though they can see you are having trouble with your big suite cases. It makes me feel like why the fuk did I come back to this miserable piece of sh1t country. But oh well


Anyway regarding pics, I stole some off of my friend who lives in patong, they are not great but I’ll post them anyway. Hopefully my friend who lives in London will have some better ones; he's back on the 30th.


http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v352/petruccisson/IMG_3429.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v352/petruccisson/IMG_3419.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v352/petruccisson/IMG_3421.jpg

..love me long time

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v352/petruccisson/IMG_3431.jpg

 

[Pompal 09.]

:love3: :love3: :love3: It 's not called "love"?

 

[Pompal 09.]

Your thinking its strange cos ur not thinking OUT OF THE BOX in whos giving the freebie ??? Marc26 said girls have 'needs' as well so go with young/handsom guys JUST FOR THEIR OWN needs.....

.. and last weekend i worked for free, had to do a report for HO and it was Muslim EID holiday weekend , well in Europe they dont give a toss for that.. So I worked and i dont get overtime ..... but it means i KEEP MY JOB for the future cos i gave a 'freebie'....

H3X

 

[marko j]

Sent my friend that works on Bangla a txt/sms message to be on the look out for guys who think it is free. :intello: Would hate for her to be a victim of this.