picking up an MPA's private phone number

[Wtf]

went to one of my fav's mpa's.

had a great session once again.

this time, i think she just let's go. we do some wild stuff.

anyways, at the end. she says, she liked the session. gives me her cell number. asks if we can hook up outside of the mp environment for some private sessions.

questions:

1. is this common?
2. how much do i have to pay for sessions outside of the mp?
3. what should i do?

j12

 

[ITS A GIRL]

1. not really, but happens sometimes
2. ask her, how would we know?
3. PM me her number

 

[emucompboy]

Had that happen once. Fake number.

In your case, perhaps it's real - only one way to find out.

Call her, ask her on a date, and then treat her like any other (loose) girlfriend.

 

[Emily]

Well, there isn't a "room fee" to pay to the spa, so it's probably fair to consider pricing that lacks that $40. But if you get into FS activities, well, that commonly gets priced $150-$200/hr...

If you're prepared for that eventuality, I shouldn't be too surprised if you ask her what seems reasonable, and the number is more like $100...

You really are heading into escort territory here...

 

[Nathan S]

what is SP territory

 

[Jasey Rae]

1. More common than you'd think. MPA's tend to "choose" clients, and will offer their phone number to repeats. The idea is they'll let you know their work schedule.

The whole "dating an MPA/SP/Stripper" question comes up fairly regularly, so there are plenty of threads to search.

Although I HAVE built MPA friendships it's VERY rare.

The majority of women I've met in the biz have boyfriends so the chance of a relationship is small. Even if they're vaguely interested as friends what tends to happen is you talk a couple times, go out once.... then nothing.

You lose TWICE coz you don't build a friendship and you lose a good MPA.

Having fun and LEAVING makes things alot easier.

2. Just be direct and ask. MPA's who are moonlighting as SP's (escorts) will charge accordingly, perhaps $200-250 per hour. There's nothing the matter with this provided it's all UP FRONT. Don't let yourself get hustled into handing over cash due to vague promises!

3. Memorize number one, confidently ask number two!

 

[LETS GET FAWKED UP!!]

It happens from time to time.

I'd suspect $200+ for an hour.

Others sometimes give cell numbers if the spa doesn't have a good schedule system.

It's mainly business. All it means is that she doesn't mind you as a customer.

 

[shuay]

I've had numbers offered - and not for sessions outside the spa.

Dated a few, strictly for the obvious reasons - however one girl in particular was planning to quit during the first few months of our relationship so it got pretty serious after that.

I don't care what anyone thinks - these girls are just like the rest of us.

 

[Bella310]

1. I have run into it on three or four occasions when I was a regular and the girl was comfortable with me.

2. Depends on what she offers. I have had them offer the same massage plus a little extra but on an incall basis at her place to full service at her place. Usually the reason is so the MA can pocket the equivalent of the MP fee in addition to her fees.

3. Call her, but assume it is going to be a business transaction.

 

[John Victor]

Fairly. Tarah used to do this regulars to try and make them feel more special.



Probably the same.Reason Tarah and other would do this is because she gets to pocket the extra 40 or 50 bucks which would otherwise go to the MP.




Call her. All it takes is being truthful to yourself to know whether or not you actually have a shot. Is she way out of your league? Are you way older than her? Do you to genuinely get along? Does she know you have money and plans on just using you as an ATM? Do the two of you look straight up retarded together?

The reason why so many guys crash and burn with MPA's is because they overestimate their standing with the MPA by lying to themselves. As long as you're truthful with yourself you'll be ok.

 

[eee]

Rusty which guy is you in the bottom pic?

 

[H0oLiGaN]

The guy showing off his stomach.

 

[sianisiani]

You party Animal! One question Rusty ? Where are the LADIES?

 

[RockTheCasbah]

happened to me twice

first time was at a shady MP where, ummm, "non-legal" activities were common
the phone number was for private incalls of the same nature at her house

the second time was an MPA who wanted to hook me up with her friend

 

[Abbey<3]

As if I know any ladies that would see me outside of the spa.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y3ITlTTLm1c&mode=related&search=

 

[nadia ? ...xx]

Jesus. Every now and then you stun me with your experience and insight. All this time I honestly thought you had never been to an MP.

 

[bbymomma]

Oh come on I knew anybody on massageplanet.net who reads it enough learns about Tarah. You don't know massageplanet.net till you know Tarah.