post-orgasmic depression?

[cheater hater]

Hey, I know this is common or somewhat common? But how many of you suffer from post-orgasmic depression. i.e. after you have an orgasm, you get down a little.

Usually, not always, after the release, I'm totally disinterested in the lady and just want to get out. Of course, if I like the girl I'm not as depressed, but still a little down.

Could it be guilt? Naw.....

 

[Gritz]

Guilt? Nahhhhh... its more like ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ afterwards.


It all depends on the lass. Most ladies I love spending time with afterwards and a few have made me feel like I should just get the hell outta Dodge.

 

[CARNAGE *Anti-YOU]

Just another benefit of the inherently transactional relationship...

"I don't pay hookers for sex - I pay them to leave" - Charlie Sheen

 

[annie n]

The translation of the above Latin quotation is: After intercourse, all animals are sad. I believe it's attributed to Galen. Guess there's nothing new under the sun.

vvv

 

[Hannah G]

This phenomenon could be explained in simple physiological terms. Specifically, we need to make some references to the physiology of sexual response.

Our sexual behaviour could be broken up into four phases: excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution. Not to get too technical and for the sake of brevity, the excitement stage is triggered by any of a variety of sexually arousing stimuli, e.g. getting on massageplanet.net in the search of a place to go, reading reviews, getting to a MP, seeing girls upon the arrival, etc. The excitement phase reaches its peak when the erect Mr. Cook cannot be ignored that easily (tip: girls, this IS the time when you start discussing other options, if you in Miss. area, where it's legal).

If the sexual stimulation continues with sufficient intensity (tip: girls, remember to gradually accelerate from 40 to 60-80 mph at this point), a peak level of vasocongestion is reached in the plateau phase, e.g. rate of breathing, pulse and blood pressure increase, but the cognitive and language faculties, from my research, decrease rapidly (tip: girls, this is THE time when you ask for the money! )

The arousal reaches the critical point (obviously for both parties involved with the gentleman's principle in mind i.e. 'Ladies first"; girls, make sure you counted the money, otherwise you will not reach this stage!) and double orgasms happen. Tip for the guys: in order to make your partner climax repeatedly and earn yourself a title of a studdd, keep on throwing some more, let say, monetary incentives at your partner at regular intervals at this point and you, and everybody else, WILL hear her screaming!).

Resolution phase. You come down from a natural high. Your physiological reactions are reversed, hence the lowering in the mood. Depression most likely to occur at this stage upon close examination of the wallet or flashing images of judging angry faces of people that might discover your hobby.

 

[Pompal 09.]

I have experience that too. I felt very depressed afterward and also worried if I might have caught any STD during the session or in the shower. It made me wanna just go home and shower for hours. I also felt cheap, cause I am actually paying for the service when I know it is free in a relationship. Another thing is that my expectation might have been build up so much that an ordinary session would make me feel that I've been ripped off.

 

[Lill Iren F]

"flashing images of judging angry faces of people that might discover your hobby. "

I have never thought about how other people think about my hobby. I don't really care and don't see any reason why anyone would be angry at me. Good thing I am not married.

 

[Clown Keeper]

I guess this situation can be explain by relating to something like a one night stand ..

Its also well explained by Alanis..

In the beginning, you are very excited that you meet this girl at a club or whateva and brought her home and undressed...

When you are making love with her, you will feel so horny and want to have her so much and you might even think that you are in love at some point!

Later, when you are finished... you will feel depressed and somewhat miserable... because at the end.. you realized that there is no love exist. Also, you are tired and have completed your sexual desire!

Sometimes I do feel that way when I visit a MP.. I can relate to Dr.Demento in the sense that I felt like I've been over spent and won't do it the next time type of situation. But recently, I had lots of satisfaction from the MPAs i met... and my money is well spent. You can even think to yourself that you have just treated the MPA for a nice dinner at Canoe if you feel guilty paying for the service!

007

 

[businessman95]

I'm cured...every mpa I see from now on will be my dinner date...thanks 007...now to pick the international cuisine...

 

[Bawney]

don't know about you guys, but that wonderfully clinical description of an optimized financial fleecing kinda got me hot & bothered... I guess that's phase I of her lifecycle... now if I just knew where she really worked... or could get out to a suburban MP before shift change...

(memo to self: set up that appointment with shrink sooner than originally planned...)

 

[dog]

Thats right dondada !!

Just imagine you met this girl over the internet (ie. saw her pictures from the MP's website).

Then when you arrived at the MP... just think that you took the lift up to the Skylon Tower for a nice dinner(ie. the waiting area).. and you meet her again in the room that you booked there..(MP rooms)..

after the session, she is gonna ask for the $$ then think to yourself that the MPA is the receptionist ... paying for the room rate and the dinner!!

You took a quick shower and b4 you leave.. you give the MPA a hug and telll her you will see her soon.. just like dating with a girl. If you still think you are being over-spend... try to think that you lost the $200 from Casino Niagara!!! LOL...

007

 

[Johnny Rico]

Kracker, I am sure I could help, so you could kill two birds with one stone, you know.

...and to learn more about clinical area of my expertise, I would like to refer you to "New term: ims" thread in The Lounge...

 

[Pompal 09.]

Hey, thank's for all the great responses guys. Actually this is probably one of the biggest reasons I've never asked or bothered with MSOG.

Actually I think the best session I've ever had was a BS w/o release, a shower and dinner afterwards

Or maybe I don't get hugged enough... I love it when an MPA goes, "Where are you going? Come give me a hug first!"

 

[confusion]

I thought i was the only one who felt like that after release! I wouldn't describe my feeling as depression..... but for about 5 minutes after the finish, i am also totally dissinterested in the woman or sex in general as you describe above. If i'm engaged with my gf in a session that will only consist of DATY and BJ to completion, i find that i have to DATY first. Otherwise i will not be in a DATY state of mind after my own release.

After 5 minutes or so though...... it's all good. I've always thought that feeling that way was so strange.

 

[Little Lyn]

A BS without release sounds interesting, and I am thinking of getting one next time. It is not like I don't like the release, but usually the timing of the release isn't right. It would be nice if the MPA ask me when I want the release. I am sure if all MPAs ask, then there wouldn't be any of those horrible rush jobs, which I cause me to get depressed most. (feels like the MPA doesn't want me there, even when I pay for the session)

 

[Helpp]

The French use the above term for post-coital sadness. It suggests that the sadness experienced is related to the momentary loss of self in orgasm which presages that later, permanent loss of self, i.e. death. Given the widespread nature of the phenomenon, trying to relate it just to paying for sex seems a little superficial, n'est-ce pas?

vvv

 

[rona]

Only happens after the third one!!!

And that's because it won't rise again!!

 

[Seal]

Slap a wig on that cabin boy, Cap'n. It might work a miracle.

vvv

 

[giddy penguin]

Tried that shipmate, but the deck burned away!!!

 

[Imran M]

Man,

Talk about interspection.

I never feel that way.

Ever.

I either have an extra skip in my step, or i am pissed off because of a lousy deal.

I know exactly what it is all about the second i make my decision to induldge in the hobby that day.

No Love, puhleeze, you guys sound like a bunch of over analytical chicks sitting around smoking cigarettes and relating.

Just imagine what kind of an awful world we would live in without our valued sex workers (that's why they charge so much - law of supply and demand)

Now that is enough to make you sad