regular sessions w/ MPA question vs. first time

[Lauren Shafique]

Just curious about the difference, if any, between seeing a mpa for the first time and seeing one as a regular... I've never repeated with anyone yet, but have been curious to try once I've found someone I like.

Thanks in advance

PEACE!

 

[Lempster]

For the most part repeating has to do with knowing what to expect. If you had a good time once then it seems reasonable that it will happen again.

Also, if you repeat the MPA will learn what you like (that is if you tell her), be it hard/soft whatever.

Some repeat, because they enjoy the personality or talking to a specific MPA. Personality is certainly less interchangeable than service.

Finally, some mpas may become more liberal after the first visit. Not to be expected, but it might happen (remember the first time she sees you she doesn't know what you're like or if you're LE, Bylaw, etc)

 

[CAROLE]

Well the key is to tell them you have been to other MPs and they will understand that you are just new to that place. If it's your very first time, respectfully ask them any questions that you have and they will either give you the red or green light.

 

[Jakey]

Finally, some mpas may become more liberal after the first visit. Not to be expected, but it might happen (remember the first time she sees you she doesn't know what you're like or if you're LE, Bylaw, etc)[/QUOTE]

I found an MPA that was quite good on the first visit. But if I compare it too my third and forth visit it didn't even compare. She is MUCH more fun now. My advise, if you find a good one try her for a few additional times. I als try to PM her through massageplanet.net so they know you have been there before. I am sure most MPA's keep some kind of record of who they have seen.

 

[Pompal 09.]

I find that my excitment level is a bit higher for MPA's that I'm seeing for the first time as opposed to repeats. The idea of not knowing what to expect is part of the fun in this hobby. That's not to say that I'm never excited in seeing my regulars ... I am, because they usually bring something new to the table on every visit.

With the first-time MPA, she may not know what pushes your buttons, so some instructions may be necessary, especially if the MPA is new. But, it's great when she tries something new and you say to yourself, "I have to try that with my regular because it could be on a whole new level". I like to take things that I experienced in one session and apply it with the regulars because it somehow keeps things fresh.

But the most important thing is the comfort factor when comparing a regular to a first-timer. With someone new, when she enters the room initially, its right down to business usually. She will make some small chit-chat and ask what option you would like. That's understandable, but with regulars, I find that those extra moments of cuddling and a great conversation at the beginning just make things better. The best thing: you don't have to tell her what to do ... she already knows.

 

[Sniper Reconnoiter]

I couldn't have said it better myself frankcastle!

That was a huge part of the reason Cyan was my regular MPA. I've found it next to impossible to replace her personality

I really like Halle @ the BChain, but I don't know if we'll ever get along as well...



Yeah, there's something to be said for the initial excitement TLM.... especially when the door opens for the FIRST time and I see how pretty the MPA is... then I wonder how long it will take to turn her to "the Dark Side." LOL

 

[ouch that hurt]

Yeah I fogot about the flipside, trying someone for the first time can also be exciting.

I think the best way to experience massages is to have a mix, ideally find some that you like repeating with and have some that you are interested in trying for the first time.

 

[Snakey B]

They probably have a board just like ours reviewing the clients

 

[Anton]

I think some mpas just have a good memory.

 

[starrchylde_117]

Im a big fan of the repeats...the girl gets to know what you like and you get to know what she likes. Variety is good but sometimes its always good to go back for a repeat.

 

[Mrs.Ploughe]

Also a huge fan of repeats too, especially where there is some initial chemistry. Not to divert this to a GFE - GF thread but the benefits of a regular include the fun prviously mentioned but also laughter and conversations that can only come from some shared knowledge of the individual.

One of the funny (and perhaps strange) experiences is when your favourite gives you a hard time for doing something (or not doing something) - talk about GF experience (am I little sick).

ITS

 

[deteragram]

Yup ItsAllOVerNow,

I agree laughter is definitely a plus, so long as its not when you pull down your pants. Things are more relaxed when you repeat, you know her boundaries and she knows what you like.