Relationship with an RMT

[Spies101]

What you will do if you have a chance to date one of this Asian lady RMT?
Is anybody have any experience in dating RMT?
What will be your advice how to keep relationship healthy?
What is pros and cons to do that?
How about your emotions and jealousy feeling?

 

[m694ever]

Dated a very well known popular one about eight years ago for a year before things got too complicated for both of us so we parted. It was fun at the time and now looking back the best sex I’ve ever had. Still keep in touch

 

[Bob the Knob]

Over the years I have dated a number of ladies, both escorts and RMT's. Many of us us keep in touch still. Like Mebad said, if you are ever concerned over what she does for a living then stay away.

What I experienced in most cases was a relaxation from the ladies because they were able to be with a non possessive guy who just enjoyed going out and doing stuff together.

Sex was incredible and also never pressured for.

 

[Spies101]

I have dated an RMT before. You have to realize that she has two worlds and outside work you will have to get to know this person now . She has let you in both worlds . She may like her clients she liked you right? You have to be a grown up man and not a little boy. You cannot be jealous you have to realize that this is how she makes her money . Just let her be herself with you and be yourself too because you too may not be everything she sees . Be understanding and treat her like a princess. There is an RMT I know that if she ever gave me any kind of a sign that she is interested in me I will jump all over it.

I appreciate it and thank's

 

[Spies101]

Over the years I have dated a number of ladies, both escorts and RMT's. Many of us us keep in touch still. Like Mebad said, if you are ever concerned over what she does for a living then stay away.

What I experienced in most cases was a relaxation from the ladies because they were able to be with a non possessive guy who just enjoyed going out and doing stuff together.

Sex was incredible and also never pressured for.

Thank you.

 

[EnjoyingLife]

I dated an Asian girl that works in AMP before lol, she told me she owned a few spas or RMTs. She owned a few houses, and a few luxury vehicles. Met her through online dating.

After a big snow fall one day, I saw her car parked outside in front of an AMP. I guess she couldn't park in the back because of too much snow.

I went on that AMP website, and saw an Asian attendent on the list that resembled her. It was a non Asian AMP. So I ended it lol. She wasn't the hottest thing either. And she kept saying wtf, you look like this (meaning she thought I was attractive) yet I am not good in bed.

Don't want to burry your hopes but these things never last. If want to date, better to go online dating. Better for the RMT date some guy that doesn't know her history. I mean, I am assuming she's not fully legit RMT and may provide extras? If she's legit, then I don't know what there is to be jealous about. I had many legit massages and I don't think any of my SOs would be jealous at all.

 

[EnjoyingLife]

Also I don't think escorts or service providers (the ones that provide more) would quit this industry unless they met some guy that could provide everything for them.

Why would I want to give handys or fuck some weird or dirty guys all day long if I don't have to? If can find a nice guy that can get me out of this habit, I'd quit the industry.

I think that applies for many other industries and in general relationships as well.

Women are programmed to feel more secure by dating a wealthy guy. While men are intimidated by successful women. And the successful women want to find a even more successful men than herself. We need to find a way to break this cycle!

 

[Albertaman]

I think the subject line of this thread needs to be clarified. There are thousands of RMTs that are no different than the thousands of Physiotherapists or OTs or RNs who are true professional s, and who work within the boundaries of their professions. I don't think the discussions is about them.

Here the discussion centres around RMTs and fake RMTs who have created a separate industry. Mostly Asian, but also with participants from all other backgrounds. I think we should distinguish between these two categories of therapists .


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[ChaosFactor]

The main thing is make sure there really is interest and not just a case of them being sweet to increase their tip.
In the past I have had the opportunity to date "professionals" of different type and recently had an opportunity to date one of the well known "semi-legit" lady's here.
I have always backed down in the end. For me it's not worth the potential drama and issues.
The higher chance of STD's, explaining their jobs to family and friends, the fact that they would not give up the money they are making (can't blame them), the hours, higher potential for violence etc in their job and a few many other things,
If a woman is with me she is just with me and if I want to share her then that's something her and I discuss, that's why I can't understand cucks.. Really you are just so happy to have a girl you give in to everything?
Not for me

 

[tnycman]

What you will do if you have a chance to date one of this Asian lady RMT?
Is anybody have any experience in dating RMT?
What will be your advice how to keep relationship healthy?
What is pros and cons to do that?
How about your emotions and jealousy feeling?

Once dated a striper burned my cash faster than i could count it.. She was smoking hot and turned heads way out of my league, i knew it was temporary and enjoyed while it lasted.
Thinking back the cash i spend i would think twice today.


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[ChaosFactor]

Been there done that dated a few escorts too. Hot af great sex but some I dated were high maintenance or had expensive habits. Some will definitely drain your bank account too. Not all of them but many look at men as a cc with balls attached to it. When men pay them for what they do some don’t know where reality comes in. Not generalizing because I have known some that are just looking for their own kind of normal outside work.

That's why they are best kept as "friends with benefits" the world they live in is slightly different from the normal world.
I have friends who are pretty high up in the drug world and those worlds cross over a lot. I remember I met a stripper (one of the traveling ladies) in the 90's and she was telling everyone how she spent about 10k to get a custom made seat for her car that was molded specifically for her ass
The first stripper I made friends with I was 18, she was around the same age and new to the business. We were seat mates on the Greyhound from Calgary to Red Deer. I was going home and she was going to do a show so we had a lot of time to chat.
We were friends for quite awhile and we would always make sure to get together when we were in the same city together. After a few years in the business she was a different person in just how she viewed things especially men.
She didn't need to respect boyfriends because she knew that there was always another guy out there willing to do what she wanted.

These women detach themselves emotionally from their customers so in most cases the emotional connection guys think they have with the provider is all one sided! The experienced guys on here probably know the difference but the standard guy wont.
In a relationship whatever you did to win that girl over there are 100 other guys trying the exact same thing and when times are rough in the relationship there is another guy in a sexual position with your woman who is telling her how good he could make her life.

I like these off topic conversations brings up memories I haven't thought of in years

 

[AJ007]

Back in the UK after few hard tries...I managed to pick up a model On Seeking...leggy but damn sexy and when we met we took the subway and she was wearing a black dress which was thinner than an A4 paper sheet..my hands were always under the dress most evening and at the restaurant everybody was checking her out and then me being an indian looking dude in my 40s, always made me crack a smile...she gave me a great CIM session at the hotel and the whole evening was out of this world but ended up being a £ 500 ( $750 ) night out...would I do this again ? Need to check my lotto tickets later...

 

[ChaosFactor]

Chaose reading your post you and I have a lot more in common than just similar taste in ladies

That's the downside of this hobby most guys prefer their anonymity because I think I would really enjoy going for a beer with quite a few of the guys on here and share stories.
Maybe this is something we should do lol..
A lot of the older guys will smile when I say this but back in the 80's and 90's life was a party and a lot of fun. Topless car washes, martini lunches, strip bars where you could touch and so much more adult fun.

 

[m694ever]

Ah the golden years when the only reason to wear condoms was to prevent child support payments.

Not to mention Bareback was horse riding, 100.00 was top dollar for whatever you wanted, and the premier strip club in Edmonton was Chez Pierre’s.

 

[EnjoyingLife]

I think we need to clarify on what dating means, if booking a session for dinner or sex means dating, then I think we all dated escorts one time or another. Escorts generally charge $300 an hour, some allow you to video tape for extra $300, and some are smoking hot. It is an expensive hobby, imagine expending $300 each day on an escort for 31 days a month, that would be $9300. Of course this drains out your bank account.

I dated an asian attendant at an AMP (I didn't know she worked at an AMP, she told me she was a RMT lol), didn't spend one dime on her for sex, and mainly went out for movies and bought her dinner. When we had sex, we would head over to her place as well.

Need to know what the scope of discussion is, if talking about sugar daddy type of dating or escorting type dating then I don't see how this is different than escorting. I think it's important for the guys not to get caught up that they think they are in an exclusive relationship with a SP if the guy is paying by hourly or has to pay a substantial amount to see her.

 

[ChaosFactor]

Not to mention Bareback was horse riding, 100.00 was top dollar for whatever you wanted, and the premier strip club in Edmonton was Chez Pierre’s.

Yes hitting Chez Pierre before going to Goose Loonies on their ladies night (once guys were allowed in) or hitting Barry T's

 

[ChaosFactor]

I think we need to clarify on what dating means, if booking a session for dinner or sex means dating, then I think we all dated escorts one time or another. Escorts generally charge $300 an hour, some allow you to video tape for extra $300, and some are smoking hot. It is an expensive hobby, imagine expending $300 each day on an escort for 31 days a month, that would be $9300. Of course this drains out your bank account.

I dated an asian attendant at an AMP (I didn't know she worked at an AMP, she told me she was a RMT lol), didn't spend one dime on her for sex, and mainly went out for movies and bought her dinner. When we had sex, we would head over to her place as well.

Need to know what the scope of discussion is, if talking about sugar daddy type of dating or escorting type dating then I don't see how this is different than escorting. I think it's important for the guys not to get caught up that they think they are in an exclusive relationship with a SP if the guy is paying by hourly or has to pay a substantial amount to see her.

I viewed the thread as dating being the same as any other girl so NOT paying on a per see basis. Sorry but if you are paying that is not dating that is a "date"
Same as the sugar daddy role, that is someone you have a paid business transaction with not someone you are dating.
Exactly to your point you dated the AMP attendant you didn't go on "dates"

 

[Wills_willie]

Don't forget Tracy Stars. With cheap beer at the Athabasca before heading across the street.

 

[Deleted member 72001]

Yes hitting Chez Pierre before going to Goose Loonies on their ladies night (once guys were allowed in) or hitting Barry T's

South Side Rocks!! 3-for-1 high balls Tuesday/Thursdays, then Charles Smart Donair for an after bar snack.
A better date night could not be found.
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..........I’ve never dated a provider. (Enter pouty face emoji here) to keep the thread relevant.

 

[Cabinmon]

Yes hitting Chez Pierre before going to Goose Loonies on their ladies night (once guys were allowed in) or hitting Barry T's

I spent so much time and money at Barry Ts, Barry Tomaldson gave me a pass card so I bipassed the lineups. Walked a lot of girls outa there at closing time. A bit later on it was Fast Eddies