I think times are good as a recommendation, but it all depends upon the child. My daughter is almost 12, to this day I have not given her an all round full body massage... it is in pieces. She never asks for it, until something really bothers her. She really has bad TP's in her upper traps, I mean bad, painful to even look at sometimes. Will she let me touch them, nope! I convinced her to let me do it once, because she was having such a hard time with rotating her shoulder that she couldn't pass the swimming exam. She was in tears even before I touched her, and she has never said anything since. When I was in school she would let me do Reflexology on her stinky feet... she would ask me for that every once in a while, and I would tell her only if she would go wash her feet!!! I am such a bad mommy!