Should I be jealous my boyfriend is see an attractive massage therapist?

[EyesR-Watching]

My boyfriend is going to see a massage therapist tonight after work for the second time.
why do I feel jealous and not needed because of this? so stupid I feel.

The first time he went to see her, he came home and said she was hot.
Then he said jokingly "you took the wrong career, why can't you give me a massage like that chick, I might fall in love with her" I got upset and he said he was joking but now today I feel angry and like pushing him away, like he's almost as asshole for going to see one and paying all that money when I could possibly give him a free massage. Am I screwed up and really insecure?

 

[Emilie Bennett]

He's an arsehole. He doesn't deserve you. If he wasn't considering the idea of cheating he'd never mention she was hot. In fact, if he cared for your feelings he wouldn't say it.

 

[shortie]

Yes you're insecure, but don't worry about it, we all are. Yes you could give him a free massage but you won't be able to do it properly (and if you do the wrong thing you could possibly cause more damage).

Massage therapy is harder than it looks and takes some learning.

Trust is the key, you either trust him or you don't. A relationship without trust cannot survive.

 

[FeEl GoOd]

about 80% of strip mall and massage places in more ghetto areas are covers for protrusion rings....just an fyi not sayin the one he goes to is one...But ya who wouldn't want a massage and one from an attractive chick is a bonus.

 

[Shy-Guy]

just cos shes attractive and is a massage therapist doesn't mean anything will happen. but if you start acting jealous and accusing him of cheating he'll think he might as well cheat if you keep accusing him of doing so