TJ Addiction

[Pompal 09.]

TJ is a fun place to play, the key is to budget and plan
exactly what you are going to spend and always bring
a little extra. Everything is good in moderation but
some guys just can't get enough. I remember a few
years ago I went down to AB and ended up fucking a
beautiful blonde gal, she is now a brunette, I usually
only bang one girl, two at the most but I am only down
for a few hours and then I leave. Anyway, I was walking
back to my car and I heard another mongers conversation
he said he had spend over $300.00 and had lost his wallet,
his I.D. and his ATM card. I just got in my car and thought
man, I spent about a hundred bucks for drinks, cab and
had a hot time with a chica. I hear stories all the time
about guys going down and spending all sorts of cash
banging away.........

 

[Mr. Derp!!!]

That Z Bar has the kewlest music blarrin' in Town... too bad its a scary worm hole.

 

[gregory s]

Nicely said. Bro.

Why are we addicted? I think for many reasons. For me, to have the best looking and most desirable women in the club. I am 35 yrs but when I was 20, I could never get THE GIRL. ( you know what I mean, bros ). So, mongering is a way for me to get that choice girl. I just want to experience the beautiful side of life before I die....that is all. If it means going to TJ for a nice time...then be it. The PI, then that is good.

I am thankful for the " Oldest Profession in the World "

Fillover

 

[Frank]

I gotta say that my TJ pussy runs have slowed down now that the money is less. I refuse to put TJ money on a credit card like last year...fuck, I had to pay all that off. What pisses me off is that hot pussy is so available, everywhere. Craigs is killing me. The AMP's always beckon.

I really love the entire HK experience, the beers, the girls, the party favors in the privados. My HK favorita is a party girl.......and does me just the way I like it. It's the damn $70.00 buckets of chica beer that start to drain me.

My new plan to conserve money is to take $100.00 to TJ with me. Get a room at the Leyva...(the cheap ones), get a second tier street girl on Constitution who will party and do the shit out of her for an hour or so...that ought to take the edge off. .

If I go to the HK though, the ficha fuck will start and $300.00 will zoooooom out of my ass. That CANNOT occur.

If worse comes to worse, I can go to the Z-bar and get a $15.00 BBBJ from one of the crack whores in the bano at the bar. Yes, I can sink that low.

 

[Candid Chris]

Fillover and Zonamonger, yours is classic case of addiction, just like mine and others I guess. Very difficult to come out if not impossible. Everywhere I go for business/work/pleasure first I see whether the entertainment is available, all my thinking revolves around it. Sure some of us are more addicted than others.
Barabus has a good fix for it to saye the money in the so call mongering account.
Besides the money, its the time we spend on these activities, the thinking and the doing part !
We need some anti-pussy counselling I realize one thing this addiciton is of genetic nature perhpas, not substance abuse, or like fireballs said a leaking faucet in the brain !
Let me tell from expereince however, when I stop it for over a month I can do without for another month , but when I go back weekly it just gets into a habbit

 

[Galen Marekkk.]

Lets face it, no matter what you label it, man is addicated to pussy!!! LOL our brains are hardwired for it! Don

 

[stephen518]

I can say I am certainly addicted. Spent way to much money on AMP's, TJ and just recently on my first trip to PI. I once lived in San Diego and went to TJ almost every weekend but ran way down on the money so could not go anymore.

Damn, it has be a long while since I went to TJ.

Am I addicted, hell yes. In fact, I am looking for a job in San Diego now. But make more money than last time ( 5 years ago ) so more money to spend...

I also have a special mongering account. I will inject funds in there. Nothing in there now since the PI...lol. (well worth it) . But I miss TJ.

 

[michael b]

I've forced myself to match whatever I plan to spend on a mongering trip/outing and put it into a savings account. Its kind of a shock to see how much cash in there now; but at least that keeps this hobby somewhat in check.

 

[kirsty_t_2007]

Great topic.

Do I have a sex addiction...yes I do. It's either TJ, (my favorite) MP's in OC, Craigs girls or street pussy. I go to Mexicalli for girls, Algodones for girls, have made a first run into San Luis, Mexico (by Yuma) to scout for pussy.

The party days in TJ, last year, used to run me $400-$500 a trip. Goddamn, it was fun.

Now, I've been unempolyed for about four months, the money is starting to run low. I've had to take all credit cards out of my wallet that can access cash at an ATM. I've removed ATM cards, except for one, and I'm trying to figure out how to limit the cash outake on that one. I need to be cut off from cash or I will take it out for pussy. I really don't want to get a job, but I must to pay the bills and pay for pussy. I don't even want a civillian relationship...to much work. I tell myself I don't have a problem, although I am thinking of selling my car to get rid of the payment...money will problably go to pussy. Good, bad, I don't know any more. I don't care about the usual things everybody cares about. I do like Latina, flaca, pussy though.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Hey Metalzz, I think I will agree with you on this ! Filipinas are sweet and cute and make good wives like Chinese and Indians. Like they say you should have an American Salary, British House, and a Chinese (read Filipina) wife no offense to any nationalities

 

[Miley]

One way to cure your TJ addiction is to go on a vacation the The Philippines.

 

[paddy]

Fireballs !
You have got me scared now ! I reached for my forehead, I am sure there is a big faucet on my left side, becuase I have atleast 2 of the 6 other addiction types !
You brought a good point about other addictions. you easily qualify as the forum pscyho analyst, lets say a Dr Sex Frued
Dabbling into some psychology, so it must be true that the monger has similar additctions to possibly alcohol, cigarettes, pornography, drugs. Do we think its a flaw in the personality ? I would plead that as defense argument.
In my case, I think I am born like that ! I dont know from when I started it, but I always thought sex is the right thing to do, but where I am missing the point is too much of a good thing is also bad ? anybody disagree ? please save us from damnation !

 

[Shelby J]

Mike
I have added you and Viking on the official addicted "List"
- Denial is the first symptom of any addiction (good one !)

 

[asia]

Hey Viking
That was a good one you mentioned, very close to me, I thought I was only doing that stunt. I work for a large corporation and I keep thiking of asking for a transfer to san Diego. Man I will be doomed if I do that, as it is I am in trouble from far !

One more addiction sign:
-Try to talk your boss into sending you to SoCal or another city in Mexico near TJ for work so you can go to TJ without using vacation time or paying for the air travel.

 

[nette]

This will not pertain to anyone who lives close to TJ. Try to talk your boss into sending you to SoCal or another city in Mexico near TJ for work so you can go to TJ without using vacation time or paying for the air travel.

 

[tyson]

TJ is fun for a night, but like a bad case of the runs, I'm over it in a day.

 

[Patrick]

Well, it's 3 am in the morning and I just got home from TJ. Am I addicted to TJ ? HELL NO !!! (Denial is the first symptom of any addiction). Wait... It's not me, it' my little bro who demands to be fed with fresh chicas every once in a while.

Seriously, addiction is good as long as you control it. Problem happens when the addiction starts to control and alter your life in negative ways, as in gambling that ruins your finances, drugs and alcohol that ruin your health and so on. Too much sex can also ruin one's life and if sex is the only thing you think about all the time, then stop watching porn movies !!

 

[Newbie555]

You beat me to it Bohemian as I'm real interested in sex addiction and what makes the monger crave pussy that much, or if it's really pussy they are craving?

I myself have a mild case of sex addiction, and it use to be a lot worst where I looked for it all the time.

I also understand if you suffer from sex addiction, you probably also suffer from other addictions, alcohol, drugs, gambling , internet, etc. etc. It's like a faucet in the front part of your brain that doesn't shut off because it's broken.

Hopefully I'll re-visit this topic soon.

 

[Zortrox]

Hi Folks
Lets see if this is interesting. You are addicted to TJ if
- Its always on your mind during the work week and you wait for the weekend
- You cut out other social/family activity, just to run to TJ at every opportunity
- You routinely spend more than what you started out or budgeted for. Usuall y more than twice what you think you should spend
- You have difficulty leaving the scene and return back, and want one more and one more.
- Need few more inputs from you, other signs of addiction

It would be interesting to know, how you guys control your mind/desires or how you deal with it.