What’s the attraction?

[ExploreYEG]

This may have been discussed on here before, but being relatively new I’m asking for your opinion.

Why am I so attracted and gladly paying for the middle aged woman who is far less attractive than who I’m dating at the time to give me a H.E?

I am young, have been with girlfriends who have high sex drives and very beautiful that would gladly give me more than a HJ onto my stomach.. but yet I will gladly pay $ for someone way less attractive to do the same thing?

I assume majority for the guys that do this are either married or in relationships? I am just trying to figure out why I have such a desire for this and why I’m choosing a 50 year old woman to service me for a money over my girlfriend at home.

Has anyone else wondered this?

 

[Dash Riprock]

Could be that you’re attracted to a mature lady’s experience and skill in providing pleasure as opposed to a lady who has youth on her side, but doesn’t have the same skillset.

 

[GuyIncognito]

For me it started out getting a good massage as my SO, is not trained and generally not wanting to give a 60min massage. After one RMT that teased the hell out of me to what I thought would be a legit but nude Lomi Lomi massage she offered a HE, I had such a rush from the thrill!
I found out that with the proper teasing I could ride a multi-orgasim wave after wave without ejacutation, but when I do blow my load it’s a massive relief. Would be nice have this free, but it’s hard to achieve when the provider (the SO) is not trained in massage nor a expert around the little guy. The RmT I saw had plenty of experience pleasuring the manhood.
Later on with pregnancy, kids, work, life etc, it was a nice option to have a little excitement in the side.
Later I did some FS to get some variety but also to re-live my youth with fit 20 yr olds again. Yes, it is possible to meet or have a mistress that is younger, hotter, sex fiend etc, but the odds are not great to get the free option, so it leaves me with looking at it like a business transaction no different than paying someone to detail my car. I could do it myself but a professional does a much better job

 

[bigbill]

Variety, plain and simple.

 

[welldunn66]

I don't feel like eating the same cereal every morning for breakfast that is Frosted Flakes. Sometimes, I like Froot Loops, Honey Nut Cheerios, Apple Jacks. All are cold cereal but if I like to really switch up my breakfast, I want a hot Quaker Oatmeal. Sure it's old school and plain.........but it's different than my usual cold cereal breakfast.

 

[Albertaman]

There is something to be said about walking into a massage shop, legit or semi legit, meeting a masseuse (that you choose to stay with) and then 2 minutes later she is massaging your butt naked body. That is mighty enjoyable.

Note: you choose! I strongly recommend that you don't stay if there wasn't an iota of mutual attraction. The age is not important here.


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[Rubmegood]

For me it's partly coming to the realization that "Fuck I'm getting old!" and a bit of fear of losing the ability to have an orgasm, let alone "getting it up". Secondly, my wife and I used to have fantastic sex but it has waned over the years. Call me names but somehow a 200lb old lady doesn't do it for me the same way she did when she was 25 and 130 lb. I can't help but think a lot of the "ED pandemic" isn't so much guys can't get hard because of health reasons- it's because the wives have become sexually unappealing.

 

[Bigbull]

For me it's partly coming to the realization that "Fuck I'm getting old!" and a bit of fear of losing the ability to have an orgasm, let alone "getting it up". Secondly, my wife and I used to have fantastic sex but it has waned over the years. Call me names but somehow a 200lb old lady doesn't do it for me the same way she did when she was 25 and 130 lb. I can't help but think a lot of the "ED pandemic" isn't so much guys can't get hard because of health reasons- it's because the wives have become sexually unappealing.

Get some pills from Cabinman
You will be okay
Half is good

 

[Rubmegood]

Get some pills from Cabinman
You will be okay
Half is good

You totally missed my point. But you're just a young whipper-snapper- probably with a svelte wife...

 

[Albertaman]

For me it's partly coming to the realization that "Fuck I'm getting old!" and a bit of fear of losing the ability to have an orgasm, let alone "getting it up". Secondly, my wife and I used to have fantastic sex but it has waned over the years. Call me names but somehow a 200lb old lady doesn't do it for me the same way she did when she was 25 and 130 lb. I can't help but think a lot of the "ED pandemic" isn't so much guys can't get hard because of health reasons- it's because the wives have become sexually unappealing.

Every human being is wired uniquely. While many can live in monogamous harmony, a reasonable percentage of us crave sensual diversity and erotic creativity. Pretending otherwise is the social norm. Besides ED, am convinced that many prostate issues for aging men is a result of chronic DSB. Dreaded Sperm
Buildup. Most of us hobbyists should have better than average prostate health.


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[Rubmegood]

DSB. Dreaded Sperm
Buildup.

LOL! I've had that since the day I had my vasectomy!!

 

[michael garrett]

This may have been discussed on here before, but being relatively new I’m asking for your opinion.

Why am I so attracted and gladly paying for the middle aged woman who is far less attractive than who I’m dating at the time to give me a H.E?

I am young, have been with girlfriends who have high sex drives and very beautiful that would gladly give me more than a HJ onto my stomach.. but yet I will gladly pay $ for someone way less attractive to do the same thing?

I assume majority for the guys that do this are either married or in relationships? I am just trying to figure out why I have such a desire for this and why I’m choosing a 50 year old woman to service me for a money over my girlfriend at home.

Has anyone else wondered this?

it is not about the thrill it is about the chase

 

[Spexx]

Call me selfish but for me the reason I prefer to see these ladies is that it’s all about me. Yes I’d prefer if she was 20, a size 2, and had perky c-cups. But somehow even if she’s older, chubby, and a bit saggy, I know that the focus is all about me. Sure, mutual stimulation is sexy as long as I have no obligation. I am paying for my satisfaction, plain and simple. With the wife/g-friend there’s always an expectation that it will be mutually satisfying but as we get older it seems I’m doing all the work and generally left wanting.

 

[Randomrd]

The thrill of cheating on your SO without getting caught?

 

[Albertaman]

Call me selfish but for me the reason I prefer to see these ladies is that it’s all about me. Yes I’d prefer if she was 20, a size 2, and had perky c-cups. But somehow even if she’s older, chubby, and a bit saggy, I know that the focus is all about me. Sure, mutual stimulation is sexy as long as I have no obligation. I am paying for my satisfaction, plain and simple. With the wife/g-friend there’s always an expectation that it will be mutually satisfying but as we get older it seems I’m doing all the work and generally left wanting.

It also helps that some of these massage ladies may be 45 or 55, but still a size 2


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[ObiWanPotato]

sometimes I like the 'all about me' aspect. I walk in. they pretend that they are happy to see me, the massage is about me, they laugh at my jokes and zero pressure to perform.
and for me, being married, its the only way i get other races.

and on the occasion that the MT gets eager and it turns into something beyond what i pay for, it makes me feel like a king.

 

[Babelover69]

I also think its the idea of doing something that may be considered 'taboo'. Like if you are in a relationship already, the thought of doing something 'naughty' is intriguing. As humans, we feel the need to break routine sometimes and going to a spa where you pay a middle aged woman you don't know is different and can be seen as an adventure.

 

[Bullet]

I am single with no SO. ( My choice _)
I live alone. I sleep alone and I eat alone.
Humans need touch
To me there is nothing better than a naked lady crawling all over you.

 

[Albertaman]

I am single with no SO. ( My choice _)
I live alone. I sleep alone and I eat alone.
Humans need touch
To me there is nothing better than a naked lady crawling all over you.

Crawling..yes.. crawling over one another, that is indeed a draw. Massage is all about human touch, yet only a fraction of all therapists really admit to enjoying mutual touch.


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[massageyeg]

Call me selfish but for me the reason I prefer to see these ladies is that it’s all about me. Yes I’d prefer if she was 20, a size 2, and had perky c-cups. But somehow even if she’s older, chubby, and a bit saggy, I know that the focus is all about me. Sure, mutual stimulation is sexy as long as I have no obligation. I am paying for my satisfaction, plain and simple. With the wife/g-friend there’s always an expectation that it will be mutually satisfying but as we get older it seems I’m doing all the work and generally left wanting.

This for me. I like that I am not expected to reciprocate. It is an hour or two just dedicated to me.