C'mon guys......picture this you're out with your SO at the grocery store and here comes (name here) at (spa here). Do you want her to say hi? Sure if you want to have to explain to your SO where you met her. Or maybe why you couldn't afford that vacation this year. "Ya honey....I get a "therapeutic massage from her three times a week for $150, or so, a pop!" The lure to these places are their privacy, fantasy, and maybe even intamacy. You go, enjoy your time with her and leave. Even if you have a little more than business relationship with the lady, the fact that the spa is where you met and have always met is the way it's gotta be. Worrying about what they do in thier day-to-day lives is none of our concern as much as you'd like them to show up in your life telling people what you do for a hobby. Let them live thier lives outside the spa in peace and if you really have to think about what they're doing...keep it to yourself. Believe me, if they want you to know what they do and where they do it, they'll tell and probably invite you.