Why you love MP's ?

[Ewas]

Here's my question for you guys today! the more that answer the better here:

Why do you choose MP's as your avenue of the hobby?

Upon recent discussion with a guy that has only ever used SP's, he kept saying that he just doesnt get the massage thing?! Why spend in-and-around the same amount and only get HJ's? How is it any fun without FS? etc?

Of course I gave my MPA-sided reply and explained what I have heard and know about choosing an MP over an SP or even over SC's. But I'd love to hear your take!!!

Why MP's over SP's? Why MP's over SC's? If you were talking to a buddy of yours who loves his escorts, trying to convince him to come to our side of the 'table', what would you say in your pitch??

 

[borderbethie]

It's about budget and risk...

SP-FS is standard but it could be hit and miss. Plus, you may need regular checkup at Hassle Free Clinic annually.

MP-No FS but you get the best balance between physical and psychological stimulation. The risk of picking up something is low but not none.

SC-Totally ripped off, especially the credit crunch we are experiencing globally nowadays.

 

[Jv J]

To be honest, I've never been able to truly separate Emotional & Physical.

I've seen SP's before, but for the most part found the experience unsatisfying and emotionally draining. The idea of getting it on with somebody I don't know left me feeling very cold. Please understand that's not a moral judgement, I'm just talking about my OWN feelings

At MP's the physical experience (sometimes) changes as the relationship develops. It's nice getting to know an MPA over a number of sessions.

 

[Pompal 09.]

I find MPs more sensual and relaxing.
Maybe it's because of the NR option.

In SCs, I feel like I'm being hustled and with a SPs it's more goal oriented for
some reason.

There are also a wider range of ladies and pricing options ($ up to $$$) in the MPs.

There are exceptions to every rule, but those have been my experiences.

 

[Larry the Owl]

I've been hobbying forever. I'm from the Montreal Area and started off with MPs. The good thing there is that at MPs the relationship can eventually develop into a true GFE with benefits that go beyond the Toronto MP limits. So I have seen some attendants 25-30 times in Toronto and though the conversation/ emotional connection gets deeper the most frustrating part is the possibility of the physical growing any further is impossible. As such, I have reluctlantly decided to try out Toronto SPs but so far many of them make it too obvious that it's all a business.

 

[GaWgEsS xx]

I recieved a PM from someone who didnt want to be mentioned, but I asked to post it annonymously because its a BIG point I want SP guys afraid of MP's to see. And kinda the reasonning behind my post and the convo that inspired it.

"Hi

Personally, I've never been to a "parlour" (is that what you call it? I'm not really sure) and my experiences with SPs are relatively rare, only 3 or 4 times per year, and outcall only.

The thing about going to a "parlour" which kind of puts me off a bit is the potential for a couple of things:
Are there cameras behind two-way mirrors? I don't know if sites like these are real or with actors: http://voyeurmovies.thumblogger.com/...tures-wha.html
What would happen if the place got busted while I'm in there?
Similar mind-set goes to incall SPs. It's just too risky, IMHO. The very last thing I need is to have my scrawny butt the focus of attention on some porn site without my knowledge, or getting arrested.

So I'll stick to outcall SPs. Just my personal preference."

Obviously, my response was to clarify that there are NO 2 way mirrors, hidden cams, and the like.

And that if you are in a licensed Parlor, doing legal things, and the place isnt license-pending, overly ticketted, and houseing underage girls....you, as a 'john' are not in a high risk situation. The joy of massageplanet.net is the search function!! you can easily find out clean from dirty, trouble spots versus uneventful play zones, etc. Many guys have a misconception about privacy and legalities of MP's!! I think its time we change that!

 

[The Other One]

Well express that to the MPA!! Its our job to keep it fun and new, and communication is KEY!! Tell her you want a totally different experience next time. An MPA that appreciates you, will thrill you the next round

 

[Sandy Bullot]

As mentioned by others its a more comfortable and relaxing setting.

Also, I may be in the minority of men who like it, but I actually feel that foreplay is often overlooked.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Hey now....thats like saying repeat sex is boring! UGH! There is something to be said for perfecting your craft...and always adding to your TDL!! Do married couples throw in the towel the day after the consumate? Noooo! Next thing you know they are making home-made porn, while he's tied up to the bed posts and she's in a cop costume pegging him silly!! SP, MPA, Dancer, or wife...the options and possibilities and # of 'brass rings' should never end!

 

[ItsPossibleButNotLogical]

of course, that goes without saying. we all know nothing happens over legal limits.

 

[Markie]

It takes a bit of doing to find the ones you like (and who obviously like you) but repeat visits totally changes the vibe of an encounter.

But that would be no different with MP's either.

 

[Ashleypink]

Even though we all know this doesn't happen, last night I dreamt I was at a MP and I recieved a BJ, FS and a massage, I was there 45 minutes, cost me $120.
Now when I woke up I was thinking how nice the girl was, there was no one hiding in another room, I saw who I wanted, there was no B&S and I was thinking it cost me no more than a SPer.
WOW what a dream................

 

[TartCartRider]

I enjoy SP's and MP's and also strip joints every now and then (maybe once every year or two for the strip joints.) But in general I really like MP's for the following reason.
1. Back when I was a young man in high school, most girls would not put out, and blow jobs were unheard of. That was before the movie Deep Throat came out and legitimized them. However hand jobs were acceptable and I recieved many back then. At that time girls frequently wore nylon stockings. So it seems that as a result of my early experiences I have come to love nylons and hand jobs.

2. I have had many good experiences at massage parlors. Over the years I have been a regular to several different ladies and I remember each one of them fondly. I find that by returning regularly and getting to know the lady, the whole experience gets more intimate. I have had a very few bad experiences, always at off the wall MP's but they have never deterred me.

3. I enjoy SP's too, but I usually use incall which limits variety. Since MP's are all incall it makes life much easier. And you don't need to plan ahead. If I'm driving down the street with an erection I can just pull into a massage parlor and resolve the problem. Of course at my age its usually driving down the street wishing I had an erection.

4. It is easier to talk to an MPA because there is that back rub time where both of us can talk. With SP's the talk can be a little difficult since their mouths are usually full.

6. I find that in general I really like women that are SP's and MPA's, and I enjoy being with them.

7. And if they are filming anything I would like to buy copies.

 

[WillieThompson]

I can't help but wonder what # 5 was.

Skypilot, one things for sure: #4 is something many of have that good feeling around MP girls. But the truth is, they are paid for it, you have your wallet around your neck like a pork chop, so they will play with you. Most of these girls wouldn't give you (or me) the time of day in the real world. Buying them a drink in a bar or whatever would probably result in a laugh in the face.

It's business, a happy nice one, but business.

 

[Josh H]

I think the mods must have taken #5 out. Damn! It was something very important too.

I have no problem with what you are saying. Hell yes I am paying for it. If I didn't pay for it I wouldn't get it. I am very ugly but I am clean!

These girls give value for the money. I like and appreciate anyone who gives me value for my money.

 

[barry g.]

pm me with #5!!!

 

[Michael M]

I have yet to see her, even when she worked at TPS. I must admit I was tempted.

 

[lasnochas nicolas]

Ok so maybe she isnt gonna f**k your brains out, but "MILEAGE" isnt always sex!!

Re-read your post Purejoker...'pushing' or 'asking' for mileage wont get you very far...regular MPA or not! how about not thinking about 'what you are gonna get' and just letting it flow....

I find it odd that you never had things with a regular suddenly shift after some time...you've never hit session #25 and all of a sudden she blew your mind!?! Or the intensity and activities changed? suddenly you're ripping eachothers clothes off, or hitting a sexual milestone, or changing it up and role playing, or finally beating your MSOG record (or hers) ???

Mileage doesnt have to be 'risky' behavior!! It can be experiemental and new! It can be classic and refined. It can be off the wall or even on the wall!!!

I think you boys need to challenge your regular MPA's more! We can easily settle into routine. The same slide all day, all week, all month...the 10 min massage, the flip, the reverse, the finish...it CAN get very mundane....but if you bring to the table new ideas, or offer suggestions, or hit at a wish list...hell make it a duo and see how she 'does girls'.

I truely wish my client would bring to me a Sexual Bucket List!!! It would be a referance of fun stuff I can throw in the mix, or whip out of my back pocket.

 

[eldridan]

Location, Location, Location.

I hate driving downtown where most SP's are located, once there you have to find and pay for parking, then you have to play telephone tag to get the exact location, appartment # and buzz code.

Most MP's are located outside of the core, easier to drive to, no hassle for parking. Just call, book the girl you want to see then go and relax.

 

[Gevera Bert]

True ... true .... true