SB of Kurla. Swaroopa.
This is an extremely delayed FR (3 months old). I didn't want to post this on the forum because I am very embarrassed by it because of the money I spent (It was far too much for an SB, especially coz I was drunk and lost control) and that I was worried I was infected. But I want to document this for anyone suffering with the fear of HIV/Other STDs thanks to poor sexual practices.
I was already drunk because I went to a party that my work colleague hosted.
Initial impressions:
Okay, so I walked into Sai Swaroopa after reading Basuda's FR. What he said was true, the bar puts on the light whenever a new monger walks in. There is a warning bell/sign I think. The ground floor informs the first floor when someone new walks in. All the ladies dress up and cover themselves any time a newbie walks in.
The Bar:
I walked to Ganesh anna (recommended by forum) and said that I wanted a telugu/tamil chick. He sent me Vijay@. She provided me with proper GFE and gave me a good session (one of the best I had in a SB). The only regret I have is that I spent 4k on drinks with her. I was sloshed by the time I was done with her. Sent her away with 1.5k (Drink bill was 4k after 2 Quarters and 1 Chicken 65), and got a new chick.
The problem is that I forgot this chick's name. She was not a NI. She was a Kannadiga, but she spoke Tamil/Telugu (Languages I understand). Anyway, she had too much demands that I succumbed to unfortunately (because I was too drunk and agreed immediately. I have no complaints about any of the women there in the bar, they all aim to please). I said I wanted to go to a movie with her, she obliged and we went to see it. I negotiated for some fun after the movie for 3k (unlimited shots). She took me to her home (she lived in some very low-income-housing area in Chembur, again I regret this shit.)
The Deed:
Her services were nice however, BJ + FS. Proper sloppy BJ and multiple positions for sex without any complaints. However, I did something horrible here. Something I'd regret so much. I did 69 and licked her pussy. Immediately after licking, I realized what I had done and went to the washroom, gargled and spit everything out (Websites have recommended not to do this, they recommended wiping with a towel/tissue in case of exposure). I was death scared of HIV/Aids. I was so scared, that she took pity on me and showed me her medical records (taken 2 months before), which said that she didn't have HIV. I calmed down a bit, but paranoia is a bitch.
The aftermath:
I was very scared after the deed. Any minor cough or illness, I was immediately scared that I had HIV. I was even ashamed to visit a doctor. Eventually, I visited Therapists/Councillors to help me through this. They assured me that HIV is not a death sentence and is just like Diabetes (can be controlled with proper medication.) But still I was scared. I waited 60 days as per doctor recommendations (fully scared and paranoid) and did the HIV Elisa test/STD panel (100% accuracy for negative cases; You can order through Practo app) which finally showed that I was indeed not affected, which finally made me relax.
I have vowed to never go to the same SB once again (Stupid, I know. But I have something like PTSD) and never get that drunk in a ladies bar again. I am only sticking with Bars/Spas (Not that they're any safer) now in Navi Mumbai.
Resuming Bar visits:
I just wanted to share this, in case anyone else felt bad about their deeds in any of the bars. I just want to say that someone else has been through this and that though this is a very shitty situation, I lived through this and escaped. It can happen.
Right now, I am here with Tani@ from Sneha lying on the bed next to me (have scheduled the whole night with her. She has said she will do 'everything' to please me.) I have also bedded a few from Sunil, Belapur and Ramesh, Turbhe recently, but haven't put in an FR because nothing interesting has happened. This Tani@ has assured that she will also bring in another chick from Sneha (Seem@, I think) for threesome next time. Hope it works out.
But one thing is for sure, no DATY from me any more.
What I've learnt:
- Do not do DATY to a hooker/bar girl.
- If you must insist, use a dental dam (cut a condom with a scissor to make one, look it up on google).
- Oral Sex between Male/Female has minimal chance of spread of HIV
- Transmission from Female to Male when you do DATY is statistically impossible (Only theoretical)
- When she gives you a BJ, it is also statistically impossible. (However you can be exposed to Herpes, Gonorrhea and Syphilis - All curable)
- Even Doctors refuse to provide PEP(post-exposure prophylaxis) if you say you had Oral Sex because it is so improbable.
- Visiting a therapist/mental health councellor helps in this situation.
- HIV is like Diabetes. It can be managed with medication. On average, a HIV infected patient lives longer than a non-HIV infected person just because they start developing better health habits and undergo frequent tests.
- HIV treatment is very cheap in India (Cheapest in the world).
- HIV Elisa/HIV DNA test are the most consistent tests. You can schedule them anonymously on apps like Practo.
- Finding HIV doctors in private clinics is very hard in Mumbai. You should go to a hospital if you think you have to consult with a HIV specialist.
- But the biggest lesson I've learnt is NEVER GET TOO DRUNK AND LOSE CONTROL WITH A WORKING GIRL.