Addicted ... to one hoe

[Wonders]

Well perhaps it's been a long held rule by ho's that they are not going to kiss a customer because it's more "intimate" if they did this and maybe the movie borrowed the idea. I don't know. But what I do know is that I've heard tons of stories by ho's that have told me I don't kiss because of "Pretty Woman" or something along those lines but for sure mentioned the movie.

To me this is a very interesting topic/subject because I think this hobby is slowly moving into a "better experience" area. I have nothing to go on but my experiences and what I've read and seen on t.v. I think that more ho's/women are accepting that they should enjoy sex. In some ways I see that women dressed like ho's are more accepted than they probably would in years past. Thus real ho's are more accepted than ever before.

I watch porn like any other guy but not too much because I think is a waste of time. Two things that really jump at me when I watch porn is that it's very common to see girls kiss and look at the guy when she's performing a bj and of course enjoying it too.

It's something hard to find in old porn movies. And now the porn industry in LA is dedicating itself in making "porn for women." There is tons of shows out there that depict ho's/women in a good way and I think that ho's are being influenced in a way that they are breaking barriers that they wouldn't break in years past. I would be interested to hear from older mongers to comment on the different changes if any that chicas/ho's have made over the years. On things they've seen or the services chicas/ho's offer today that they would never see before.

 

[Sim - plicimus]

Goodquestions: " "Pretty Woman." I've never watched this movie but I understand that this movie is the reason ho's don't kiss."

Nope, that is not true, well not true in the sense that it is not the only source from the US that will tell Mexican ho's that they should not kiss the customers.

I clearly remember girls in the early 80's that would not kiss a customer.

 

[Yazmin]

Update: this chica does not provide good service anymore. She thinks she has the golden pussy. Her attitude seriously sucks now. She will limit how you can kiss her. Limit how you can touch her. Limit how you can hold her. Little to no eye contact. No smiles. Just cold. She prefers to lay on her back and do nothing if possible. This puta ain't nothing to me now.

 

[Elsa84]

Hi darsh who is this chica that you are talking about. Im new to the monger scene and ur're story sounds tempting for me.

 

[Ade]

That is a straight up Monger. Mr. Riddles is the type to do it in front of yo' face!

 

[MassEauTerra]

I'm going to ride her hard and put her away wet!

 

[Pompal 09.]

I was curious to know how someone that doesn't speak Spanish communicates with a chica that may not speak English regarding gfe. It's interesting to me.

Anyways it really depends on how the chicas see you. If they think you are handsome they will offer you gfe and even lower their asking price. I been on both sides of the ball when it comes to a chicas asking price. Sometimes my buddies get a lower price and sometimes is me.

Is great that some of these chicas were not badly influenced by the movie "Pretty Woman." I've never watched this movie but I understand that this movie is the reason ho's don't kiss. For some reason I like kissing. It turns me on so I benefit from chicas not paying attention to the movie.

I do ask for a gfe when I approach chicas and it helps when I'm fluent in Spanish. Incidentally I had one of my most memorable experiences when I forgot to ask for a gfe. I just went for everything and she never stopped me so that was great. She didn't even ask for a tip and now I feel a bit guilty for not giving her one. So is also true that you don't need to ask for gfe but it doesn't hurt to ask.

 

[junebug493]

I've lost that loving feeling. Seems that having been ditched and lied to my face has been a huge turnoff. I even feel a slight disgust toward her now. I don't even know if I want to puck her anymore.

Girls either give gfe, or they don't. No spanish necessary. Just depends on them, and maybe you too. Putas that always give gfe probably think... "ok, this guy is not so ugly, so I can kiss him. I can handle that in order to make money." I've seen this 18 yr old looking girl in HK kissing a dude who was ~68/70 years old on the mouth. For all these girls, kissing on the mouth or giving you BBBJ means zero to them. Just another paycheck, and they will give it to anyone that pays them.

 

[Dance Dance Revolution]

Well I hope everything ends well with you not marrying her or anything of that sort. I have some questions. What's her name and where does she work? How does a guy that doesn't speak Spanish ask for a gfe? The first time you banged her did it just happened(gfe)?

I could never bang a chica more than once in TJ. With that said, it does feel good when you bang a chica/ho several times. I do it in LA. In fact I've only come back for more with two but I already dropped one. I wouldn't say I'm addicted to the current one but I would say that I love the feeling of seeing her again and right away she remembers me. She's looser and more comfortable every time. She makes me feel like if I'm banging my girlfriend and not a ho and maybe that's the fantasy that makes us come back.

 

[Craig]

No, no. I respect boundaries. She's a hoe, so there are other guys, of course. There is only an expectation that she keeps an appointment, or that she is "genuine" for the time she is with you. You can't expect anything else. However, it's still common for girls to not give what you expected, i.e. GFE, time, or punctuality. Nothing could be done in these cases except consider it lost money and part of the game. No way I would actually marry or have a hoe as a real girlfriend. I think hoes minds are already so fucked up after fucking so many guys for money that they cannot see any guy the same way again except as a piggybank. Only looking for a temporary fantasy.

 

[A. E. Moreira]

That is some very strong words man. I just hope you don't do anything stupid to her, or the other mongers she's with.

Relax, take it easy. See yourself as a brand new monger everytime you're there.

I don't want hear on the news; "A John commited murder-suicide, hooker was a victim."

 

[:-)]

Actually, I do have her contact info: her phone number, email, msn, and even social network. I don't generally call because international calling is expensive. However, I am very tempted to msn instant messages whenever I see her online, and disappointed when she invariably does not return them right away or at all. By the way, I in the past I have never exchanged personal contact information and I liked this chica so much that I took this extra step. I like this chica so much that I am learning spanish, whereas before I never had any motivation to learn. I like this chica so much that I can say I almost feel "love," or if not love, then infatuation. This feeling of infatuation is very special to me because I haven't felt this way in many years. I can literally count on one hand the number of infatuations I've had in my lifetime. I even feel as strongly or even more strongly in some ways about this girl then my actual real life girlfriend I had before.

Sometimes I can just think about her and get excited. I like this girl so much that I even want to go on vacation with her for a week in order to prolong my girlfriend fantasy with her.

I know I should keep away, but there is an urge to see her and I cannot stop thinking about her, just like happened over 10 years ago in high school when you had a crush on a girl. I know most every monger on this site would not approve, and give advice to not see her again and even stay away from TJ. However, I think I need to continue seeing her until I hit rock bottom, as long as it doesn't hurt me financially because I feel this is something that may reoccur in the future and I need to learn how to deal with this feeling/situation by seeing it through. The only way to really learn is through experience. (We've all heard the cliche, "Do as I Say, Not as I Do"). So, I will keep seeing her and eventually I will lose interest, which is in the nature of most guys. It is bound to happen because she will no longer be new, fresh sex toy and there is always better pussy that comes by in weeks or months. However, even as I say this I have doubts myself because I feel this is the best I've ever had in terms of both looks and GFE. I am amazed I can kiss such a gorgeous girl with beautiful eyes staring back at me. And her pussy... has such a great "tug" feeling. I know I shouldn't have, but I even barebacked this girl a number of times before. Very poor judgment, as she probably barebacked dozens of guys before me in the past month. However, recently had her with condom.

I will refuse to be the "boyfriend" giving a monthly allowance, or buying expensive gifts. Only the standard $60 per 30 min, or $100 for the 1 hour, or reasonable amount based on TLN. The only thing that saves me is relative financial discipline. On this forum, I have no goal in particular except as an outlet to share personal experiences and maybe seek out some advice or shared understandings.

 

[Riley S:)]

Dangerous waters. On a few levels. The good thing, for now, is it seems you don't have her contact info, ie, phone number as you say you try to find her when you come as opposed to calling her letting her know you're coming. I say, keep it that way. With a phone number, you would be tempted to call her when you are away from TJ just to say hi which would only make it worse.

So what is your goal? Are you looking for advice to curb your feelings? Are you looking for approval? What?

 

[NOt Me]

I've "got it bad." I never felt this would happen to me, but I'm "addicted" to one hoe. Having banged many women (90-100) over many years, I have in the past never given second thought to hoes after the act. Even having banged civilian women, which range from average to slightly cute, I am the guy that can leave her without being emotionally vested.

However, there's one hoe recently that got me thinking about her a lot. She is "special." Her qualities rise beyond all the other hoes and civilian women I've had. Beautiful face, eyes, complexion, good set of tits, a cute ass, and a pussy that just feels so good. She's the girl that you could never imagine to be a hoe, yet here she is. Great GFE sessions. She's the girl you had a crush on in high school, but could never get, yet she is available to you for GFE sex in TJ. I enjoyed it so much that I've banged her 7 times and want more. I cannot stop wanting to be with her or thinking about her. This should not happen to me given my experience level, yet it has. I am addicted to this one hoe. Other hoes in my mind cannot match this one, and I feel zero interest in other hoes at the moment. This feels very much like a "high school crush" to me, yet it's worse because you can actually have wonderful sex with her. I know in the long run she will lose her looks in several years from all the smoking, cerveza drinking, lack of exercise, and simple age progression, but in the short-term this girl has got me hooked. Whenever I come to TJ, which is a lot recently, I try to find this girl.

The other thing is, she would be easier for me to forget about her if she was a real bitch and tried to take advaneforum.xxxe of me, but this is not her (yet). I would not be a smuck and let any girls take advaneforum.xxxe of me. She has got to earn every 30 min or hour that I pay her at a reasonable rate.