AIDS & STDs in Thailand

[Eric L]

AIDS & STDs in Thailand

I think its quite often that people skip the condom if they go long time with a bg. At least that`s what a lot of bg`s told me.

Geir

 

[funwithsharpthings]

AIDS & STDs in Thailand

ok Tarzan, I try to answer but not so easy for me as it is still not so clear in my head ...
I am 38 y/o, no child and in last January, when I staid with this BG, I was just separated from my ex-GF after 8 years of common life. Why we have never made a baby together? I dont know ... she is 11 years younger than me and we have never needed to do it at the same time, although it was a strong love ... but time makes its work and slowly but surely we took different ways to think and to live. It is not a sad story, just life, I think, and we are still good friends.

So, in January, I was a little bit lost, I asked myself many questions about my life and why I was on earth, etc ... Quite normal in these circumstances I think.

And while speaking with my BG/GF about our common desire to have a baby one day, I said myself "why not?, it is maybe a good idea" as I trusted her. As Timbobbit says, I really wanted at this time that something strong happens in my life.

Today, I know it was stupid to want it with a BG who obviously was not in love with me, I was only a customer among many others as I cannot live in Thailand and what are 15 days in a BG's life? I had to learn a lesson.. it is done and I am sure it is better like that.

Once more, not easy to explain, Mmmmhhh .. maybe i am too serious, no ? but at least I tried to share these strange feelings


:cheers:

 

[old doughboy]

AIDS & STDs in Thailand

hey domifletch
at least your honest, and i think this forum allows us to be. im glad that she wasnt pregnant because it would have changed your life. if i ever got a BG pregnant, i would not just be able to leave the baby in LOS, as i would want to have the bay wih me all the time. i think alot of guys dont worry about gettign a bg pregnant becasue they know that it probably wouldnt be much of a hassle on them.

 

[John Doe 1st]

AIDS & STDs in Thailand

I hope i never get that depressed...
Was just wondering..

 

[godsnarnialover]

AIDS & STDs in Thailand

I was not so depressed, Tarzan ... just hoping someting new but I have always been positive ... I just like to love and to be loved. Who will say the opposite? But I feel really good (except I live alone). It was an experience and I go out of it richer

 

[Robert T]

AIDS & STDs in Thailand

What nightlife entertainment areas? There aren't any in U.S.

There are prostitutes who are too expensive for most guys. You contact them by phoning from their ads in the newspaper, or go to massage parlor(not like LOS, can't get real massage there), or get phone number from internet.

As far as getting HIV from a prostitute here, the rates of infection in prostitutes in US is very low. You would be taking a risk for HIV if you drove to the ghetto(no entertainment areas there) in a big city, Oakland for example,and picked up a heroin addict form a street corner. Of course, you would be crazy to do it, because the immediate risk to your life would be greater than the risk of dying later from AIDS.

I once picked up a girl on a chat line. Made what I thought was a regular date with her. Went to her house to meet her. Decent neighborhood, and when she got in my car I was pleased. She was a black girl, very, very pretty and dressed nice, not slutty. But as the evening unfolded, I found out that the house she lived in was a halfway house for recovering addicts with babies(she had two). It turns out she was having a relapse. She talked me into taking her to a "friend's" house. Still not suspecting, I complied with her wish.

She had me wait outside in the car. By the looks of the neighborhood, I knew something was fishy. When she returned to the car, she was obviously flying high. She said let's go get a motel room. My little head said yes before my big head could object. The first motel we went to, they wouldn't rent me a room, because the guy saw who I was with. He said, "no way. I know her from before. don't want that kind of trouble around here."

Still too horny to have any sense, I told myself, "not to worry. I can take care of myself." The next motel we pulled up to, there was a gang on the corner. She said, "Don't worry. You're with me." We parked the car, and she wallked over to them, and said, "Be cool. He's with me."

Inside the motel we drank a lot of liquor. We got along for a while, but then when it got time to get down and dirty, she wanted a lot of money. We argued. About everything. About how ****ed-up white people are. About how she needed to buy diapers, etc., for her babies. About how she shouldn't be doing crack, she was suppose to be in recovery. About how much her babysitter cost her. She left and came back. I was a little scared, but we did reach an agreement after awhile. Her body was fine, but the sex was crazy, 'cause she was insane. Part of our agreement was that when I left, she could have the room to party the rest of the night with her drug gang buddies.

When she kissed me good night, she smiled sweetly and said to me, "When you go to your car, don't say anything to anyone. I told them you're OK and would give us the room. I knew you would cause I could tell you're alright. You're lucky I like you, because if I didn't, they would just take your car and all your money and if you tried to fight, they would kill you."

I smiled at her, kissed her again, and said, "Thanks, Baby, I sure am glad you like me." On the way home, I was happy to be alive, happy to not be horny anymore, and most of all, happy that she liked me!

Funny thing, but the risk of HIV infection never crossed my mind!!

 

[anonymous?girl]

AIDS & STDs in Thailand

You take things too literally. Nightlife entertainment areas can be anything from the likes of Kings Cross in Sydney, where there are strip clubs and all sorts of adult entertainment, to Oxford Street which is lined with nightclubs and dance clubs.

I know of people that have unfortunately contracted HIV from one night stands with someone they meet in a dance club. The mixture of alcohol and other substances, doesnt make one think of safe sex. The risk is the same.

So the U.S doesnt have nightclubs and dance clubs???

 

[redunicorn]

AIDS & STDs in Thailand

Never been to Sydney. In San Francisco, there is an area of bars and strip clubs, much neon lights, etc., called Broadway. Last place in the world you will ever get laid. The closest you'd get is a lap dance. No further. No hookers in the area, but some hustlers who will make you think they are hookers, try to get your money, then boyfriend or paid bodyguard appears. Possible to pay for sex, but not possible to get it.

The nightclubs and dance clubs are more spread out, not clustered in one area. There are many clubs in the South of Market area, but not next to each other, scattered over many blocks of warehouses, auto repair shops, and such. Unless you are gay, it would be hard to catch HIV from any girl you meet there. Mostly they drive in from the suburbs, or live in other areas of the city, and are very clean and not too loose. Everybody uses condoms. I've never met a girl there who didn't insist on a condom, and few guys would even suggest it because if you did suggest it, they would think that you were really stupid and not want to have sex with you. That's just the way it is here.

The rate of HIV infection is nearly nonexistent among heterosexuals here(except drug addicts or girls who had a bisexual boyfriend) because condoms are always used. The only exception is if you go with the same girl exclusively for over 6 months.

I was really shocked when some BGs(not most, just a few), wanted to have sex w/o condom, or didn't care if I used one. All hetero people use condoms here except longtime couples. I have heard that many gays don't use condoms though, and, of course, a lot of them get HIV.

 

[carly123houleis]

AIDS & STDs in Thailand

As in said in another post ive never used condoms before my first trip to los, And only one farang girl ever asked me to use one and she was from swedan and even then i sweetalked her around it but im stupid and ive paid for my mistakes a few times, Its funny every girl i was with in los asked me to use condom which i did.................for a while :bangin: