All good things must come to an end...

[birdbayboy]

Gents,

So you've bin having fantastic sessions wid your fave SP..the sex is incredible...the conversations are stimulating, fascinating and titillating..seems like she's into you, can't wait to jump your bones as soon as the door is closed, and wants you to stay inside her forever..her kisses are fervent, her embraces ardour-filled, her responses oh so soul-shattering.

And you keep on seeing her several times, each time with high anticipation and expectations that the next session is gonna be even more mind-blowing and explosive, or more deeply tender and transcendent.

Then...stealthily, slowly, gradually, things start to change..she seems to be not as much into it, her service seems not as attentive or responsive, and you can feel that "she's lost that loving feeling"

Here are some of the signs of when it's time to cut and run, and start looking for a new favorite:

* You're sitting in the waiting room of the MP..her current session is running into overtime..when it's time for your session, and you're in the room with her, she asks you (cuz you're a nice guy) if you wouldn't mind having a shorter session because she's running behind, and has another appointment shortly after you. Seems like she's willing to give the guy before you a longer session, and the guy after you his allotted time...But, for you, you're only gonna get an abbreviated session.

* She finds a reason not to kiss anymore..she's getting a cold sore on her lips...she has a cold..yadda yadda.

* She shortens up the time she spends on the kissing, the daty, everything..digits are out...she's sore down there..the list goes on and on. Some extras are no longer on the menu.

* Conversation becomes strained...she's short and snappish with you, rolls her eyes at some of your remarks..

* her physical responses become muted ...you can feel her body thinking 'hurry up and get it over with'..you start hearing the dreaded "Come for me baby,..come for me"..

* she starts asking you if you're seeing any other sps, and if you tell her no, she calls you a liar..if you say yes, she asks "who is it?" and gets mad at you.

Have i missed any?

If you be seeing any of these signs, ...gents, it be time to cut and run, and start looking for a new fave...not being mad at her or anything, but grateful for the memories, and being realistic to mourn dat it's over, that it's pay for play, and the search for perfeck posse is ongoing...

 

[training day]

another good one..

She starts tellin you, more and more.."I'll make it up to you"..

 

[Ben L]

Hmmm, I've been seeing a couple faves for nearly two years, I'm getting opposite signs....

- the sessions are consistently going into overtime, and more frequently they are preparing new ways to spend our time.... hot tub, ropes, edible garments

- They are allowing a little kissing for the first time, but no full on tongue action yet. Digits are being encouraged and the DATY is more readily welcomed.

- Conversations are getting more natural and personal, they remember everything I tell them and are always interested how things turned out.

- physical responses are getting more genuine, and MSOG is almost being demanded.

- They consistently refer me to other SP's and look for new and exciting duo partners to join us.

- And the best one, we almost always finish with orgasms together now.

The only times I have stopped seeing SP's is when my emotions start getting a little blurry, I think when that happens all the things you mention start coming into play.

 

[ellen degenitals]

nimby, you da man!!.. always good to know dat other guys have totally different results from me...keeps me humble..

i gotta admit i've never seen a fave for as long as 2 years..heck, longest was about 4 months..maybe my "shortcomings" are catching up wid me!! I'm more of a hop around bunny type, so i don't make for a very good regular client!!

 

[i need a hug?]

Oh come on, trin, guys pay extra for GFE, PSE... well you've stumbled upon TWE -- The Wife Experience -- with an SP, and you're getting treated to it for free!!

 

[camy]

lmao...good one chef.. de old saying "you get what u pay for" is true and correct..free stuff is not necessarily good stuff..

 

[ALLURING]

another tell-tale sign: she either keeps cancelling your appointments, or you show up, and find out dat she's double booked...and you're de odd man out!!

 

[Night Otter]

Does TWE include hallway sex? You know... when you pass in the hall way and say "FUCK YOU!"

 

[OscarMeyerRina<3]

Haha! Unfortunately once that is perceived as sex that will be shut down too.

 

[Kakaroct Vanan]

Great post. I personally really don't see the point of seeing only 1 SP all the time. The SP is not your girlfriend, and you are not an one-woman-man. There are many gems out there waiting to be discovered.

Many of us have been lonely and/or horny at some point, and the SP really seems to care about you a lot, sometimes she acts almost like a real girlfriend, but is she really? Or is she doing it only for the money?

Now I am not saying SPs don't care about the their clients. But take away the financial compensations and see how long that affection will last.

 

[sirrobbie]

To Nimby : certainly an eye opener for me that the sessions can become so much awesomely better..thanks for the revelation.

to Chef, Gumby and maxx..lol..u hilarious fucks ...can't a guy indulge just for a little while in some self-pity? you have to go and break de mood wid your corny humor..

 

[Tired Old Man]

I completely understand the need for variety and the anonymity of seeing new girls. I still see a number of different girls but a regular can be very rewarding when you develop a rapport and chemistry.

I like the chase and it is actually more challenging with a regular. It's easy to find a girl who will just stick her tongue down your throat or hop in the shower with you. But for me it is much more thrilling to slowly work my charm and have her start treating me with special extras that I don't have to ask or negotiate for.

Honestly, my search for the perfect woman is over. Sure it might be a combination of two, but if I need the best sex I could possibly get I know exactly where to find it.