parkways
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Thank you for the reply, Mr.Krayjee.
The thing is, I feel like I wouldn't have this problem with loneliness in it weren't for the whole Covid situation. This was the worst year for a pandemic to happen in terms of my personal goals. I made it a goal to finally go out and talk to girls this year at college. But then the pandemic happened and Colleges/Universities got closed down. Even with that said, I STILL went out and talked to women. But I've had no luck with Asian girls. I feel like my luck would be better in a school setting because it does feel awkward cold-approaching girls at a mall/ supermarket setting.
Asian girls/ especially new immigrants are very weary of brown guys. They just don't trust us on instinct because they were raised in a homogenous environment. Canadian-born Asian girls on the other hand already have established friend-groups by the time they reach 22. By that age, they'll have guys asking them out all the time (studies have even shown that Asian girls are the most sought after women in college/university settings). Most Canadian-born Asian girls I see who are in their 20s are already in a relationship OR aren't interested in "average brown guys." Whenever I do see a brown guy with an Asian girl, they're usually the types of guys that are so attractive they can attract girls of any race. Unfortunately, I'm not one of those guys. I'm decent looking, but not super attractive.
Again, I hate to be the guy that blames the pandemic because we're all going through it together. But I feel as though most people my age already have a solidified friend-group by their 20s. So they're not exactly alone, even when they are. They can always fall back on girls they've seen before. For me, I had to start fresh this year, so I don't have a history of having girls' numbers on my phone.
Also, I'm very curious about when you said you know a brown guy that is being used by an Asian MPA. Could you elaborate on the story? I would like to learn from it as a cautionary tale so I understand what to do and "not to do." For me, I understand that it's stupid to fall in love with a prostitute. I would never do something that stupid. I may not be the sharpest knife in the drawer, but I'm not THAT stupid to the point where I'd develop feelings for a prostitute. If I have a GFE, I can enjoy the moment while also realizing that it's fake. I understand MPAs get proposed and gifted expensive gifts all the time, so I'm not going to pretend I have any leverage over her. I understand that a GFE is strictly business and not personal.
I'm sorry but this is cringe. Dude, you fail with these girls because they can smell your desperation for them from across the street. You have opportunities to date other girls because you don't care about them. So treat the girls you like as if they are the girls you don't like. Bingo. Solved.
Also you think it turns them on that you want them for their ethnicity and nothing else? They sense that and hate you for it. Nothing to do with your skin.