Poll BBFS poll

[Social-Misfit]

It’s not just the risk but the headache. You worry about symptoms, test results, missing out on free condomless sex with partners, which then raises questions.

Who needs that shit.

Couldn't agree more

 

[Social-Misfit]

Oh hell ya.
max user on MP, like going to believe anything this dude has to say... lol

 

[liebert]

Some of the steps though, I hate to admit, I recognize.

I agree with phase 7 but i dunno about these hoes liking us. I could only pick that up from indies just starting out, agency girls are good actors

 

[Social-Misfit]

You sound like a fucking woman

Real men don't fuck bags

Don't be a fucking pussy

A "real man" you ain't shitstain, pretty much why u behave like a child tossing his toys around craving for attention, right Gomer!

 

[BBFS Enjoyoor]

A "real man" you ain't shitstain, pretty much why u behave like a child tossing his toys around craving for attention, right Gomer!

Listen clown I make mad cheese if you are poor there is no need to take it out on me

When I pull out the coveted 500 stack bitches lose their minds

I have no idea what Gomer is

 

[Social-Misfit]

Listen clown I make mad cheese if you are poor there is no need to take it out on me

When I pull out the coveted 500 stack bitches lose their minds

I have no idea what Gomer is

.OK, gomer!

 

[Onefeather Redtailhawk]

I agree with phase 7 but i dunno about these hoes liking us. I could only pick that up from indies just starting out, agency girls are good actors

Its not liking in rhe usual sense; bbfs girls choose guys who seem like straight shooters, unlikely to be carrying an STD, and likely to become & remain a regular client.

A girlfriend just gets horny for you and its a very different feeling.

 

[snoopdoggie]

Guys - I'm dissapointed this thread has got so vindictive,

Many years ago I had a vasectomy so I could indulge without this risk. BBFS/CIP happens when you climb onto the table and put it into her without asking. I always hesitate a moment before entering and to me that silence is consent. She may be into the sex but I think equally she's into me as her next partner/spouse. I never promise and after three or four episodes reality sinks in and it's condoms or else no sex at all. That's when I move on.

You cannot ask the receptionist over the phone for this experience. You have to treat you girl nice, DATY or whatever, and watch as she falls in love. It doesn't happem every day but it makes this hobby very interesting.

I believe this is true.

 

[snoopdoggie]

It‘s sad people get judgmental in a sex forum, but it is what it is.

@BBFS Enjoyoor is just a troll, not a useful contributor; its best to put that creature on ignore.

I will say though, putting it into her without asking sounds a bit like assault. Sounds like it, but I personally don’t ask either, so there is this thing of implied consent. And she sure could speak up if she didnt agree.

I would ask a sex worker if I was going to do it, but not a girlfriend.

STIs scare me though. Generally I don‘t.

There's a difference between not asking, and her telling you to stop. If you try to see how far you can go, in the heat of the passion, and she tells you to back off, and you obey, then it isn't rape.

 

[felixami]

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A girlfriend just gets horny for you and its a very different feeling.

I have this one SW that creams herself at the thought of sucking my cock. Funtimes.
She gets so turned on!

 

[phallus enormus]

There's a difference between not asking, and her telling you to stop. If you try to see how far you can go, in the heat of the passion, and she tells you to back off, and you obey, then it isn't rape.

I have this feeling that if you are charged, and you say this to the judge, it will not go down well.

 

[snoopdoggie]

I have this feeling that if you are charged, and you say this to the judge, it will not go down well.

Well if she doesn't say no, then it's consensual. At least it should be.

 

[Onefeather Redtailhawk]

I have this one SW that creams herself at the thought of sucking my cock. Funtimes.
She gets so turned on!

She is in the right profession.

 

[Social-Misfit]

She is in the right profession.

I had an indy like that, saw her many times she used to blow me BB quite reasonably too. Many of those times while sucking me she screamed put it in me, put it in me, never did cause never had a condom. She used to get squirrely sucking me, was nice, some women get turned on by this. How, I have no idea when they do so many "types" daily

 

[phallus enormus]

Well if she doesn't say no, then it's consensual. At least it should be.

The reality is, sex happens without much verbalizing, very frequently . When I hear “No means No”, ok, that is clear, but when they say you need to ask for consent, that’s not how sex always happens, as you point out.

I went to one spa, the girl just got on her knees and started sucking me off. She assumed, correctly, that’s what I wanted. She never asked, & neither did I.

If a girl lays down, drops her undies & spreads her legs, need I ask? I think the law says yes. Dumb.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

The reality is, sex happens without much verbalizing, very frequently . When I hear “No means No”, ok, that is clear, but when they say you need to ask for consent, that’s not how sex always happens, as you point out.

I went to one spa, the girl just got on her knees and started sucking me off. She assumed, correctly, that’s what I wanted. She never asked, & neither did I.

If a girl lays down, drops her undies & spreads her legs, need I ask? I think the law says yes. Dumb.

Generally true but I always err on the side of caution. Like asking if it is okay before inserting fingers (some hate it, some will shove your fingers in deeper).

 

[Onefeather Redtailhawk]

I had an indy like that, saw her many times she used to blow me BB quite reasonably too. Many of those times while sucking me she screamed put it in me, put it in me, never did cause never had a condom. She used to get squirrely sucking me, was nice, some women get turned on by this. How, I have no idea when they do so many "types" daily

I know a few girls who are so enthusiastic about sucking me off, I feel like I am doing them a service! “Here baby, nice & hard, just like you like it!”

 

[FreemanMcMillan]

The reality is, sex happens without much verbalizing, very frequently . When I hear “No means No”, ok, that is clear, but when they say you need to ask for consent, that’s not how sex always happens, as you point out.

I went to one spa, the girl just got on her knees and started sucking me off. She assumed, correctly, that’s what I wanted. She never asked, & neither did I.

If a girl lays down, drops her undies & spreads her legs, need I ask? I think the law says yes. Dumb.

The law in Canada allows non-verbal communication if it's clear. Words are always best, though.

 

[phallus enormus]

The law in Canada allows non-verbal communication if it's clear. Words are always best, though.

I beg to differ, because I have had lots of sex where consent was not given freely & enthusiastically. Jesus. Who writes this stuff? You wake up in the middle of the night with a boner, nuzzle her, remove panties, in you go!

Sometimes, there is enthusiasm , sometimes not, but she is not being raped. If she says no, of course I stop, but that doesnt really happen much.

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Sexual violence and consent- Women and Gender Equality Canada

Learn about the role consent plays in a relationship, and the difference between consensual sex and sexual violence.

women-gender-equality.canada.ca

What does consent look like?​

For sex to be great, is has to be great for both people involved, which means communication, respect and meaningful consent. For consent to be meaningful, it must be:

• Given freely and enthusiastically. If someone is pressured or coerced into doing something, that is not consent. “No” always means “no” and needs to be respected.
• Ongoing. People can change their minds at any time during a sexual encounter — and if they do, it’s time to stop. Ongoing consent means ongoing communication. If you’re unsure how your partner is feeling, stop what you’re doing and ask.
• Specific and needed for every activity. Just because someone consents to one sexual activity doesn’t mean they’re consenting to another. Ask for every activity.
• Informed. There is no such thing as consent without all the information. Consent must be given honestly without lies, manipulation or tricks between the individuals.

 

[Social-Misfit]

I beg to differ, because I have had lots of sex where consent was not given freely & enthusiastically. Jesus. Who writes this stuff? You wake up in the middle of the night with a boner, nuzzle her, remove panties, in you go!

Sometimes, there is enthusiasm , sometimes not, but she is not being raped. If she says no, of course I stop, but that doesnt really happen much.

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Sexual violence and consent- Women and Gender Equality Canada

Learn about the role consent plays in a relationship, and the difference between consensual sex and sexual violence.

women-gender-equality.canada.ca

What does consent look like?​

For sex to be great, is has to be great for both people involved, which means communication, respect and meaningful consent. For consent to be meaningful, it must be:

• Given freely and enthusiastically. If someone is pressured or coerced into doing something, that is not consent. “No” always means “no” and needs to be respected.
• Ongoing. People can change their minds at any time during a sexual encounter — and if they do, it’s time to stop. Ongoing consent means ongoing communication. If you’re unsure how your partner is feeling, stop what you’re doing and ask.
• Specific and needed for every activity. Just because someone consents to one sexual activity doesn’t mean they’re consenting to another. Ask for every activity.
• Informed. There is no such thing as consent without all the information. Consent must be given honestly without lies, manipulation or tricks between the individuals.

I just cover their mouth whilst banging them, that way I can't hear the objections..