Chat Can you trust spa girls...

[startbeforeIfinish]

Right!

To each his own. I was being honest. Glass houses. I think you guys are better at making a purse out of a sows ear which I do not at whether I can or can't so I am just standing pat and smelling the roses. The joke is which is true that I am overly trusting working girls. I am not just going to bun it up hopelessly at not needing to know them at all, just not a part of my experience. Times are slimmer and happy with less of a headache type of girl anyhow. I will keep trying but I am not enjoying the koolaid with the majority of spa girls lately. So the point of my posts was if I can't spend good money at a somewhat guarantee of a good time why bother and stay with someone nice, I do not trust these girls are that worthwhile even at good sex so a half decent is an angel, I am a little laid up and have a bucket list they are not all bad. You guys like them more but I am not getting it. It is interesting on me not to be to much of an idiotic keyboard warrior, otherwise I am just trying to expand the conversation. Do not know where you guys are coming from and I KNOW it takes all kinds. Gotta check myself too. If the attitude I was getting was jealous I get that. I got alot of guys DMing me trying to find the half decent girls I am into.

 

[hangul99]

Recently I found out an MPA I'm very fond of found a boyfriend a few months ago. I heard this from another girl (she never told me this herself), I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a bit sad to hear this.

However, during all this time, all the things we did in the room never changed. So just goes to show if you end up dating one of these girls, more than likely she will continue to provide her close customers with the same service as before...

At the end of the day, business is business.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

The previous 5 posts on this thread have to be a joke.....

Just trying to expand the conversation. Not just skulking around town. I am sure you guys probably do not stand well toe to toe and I mean being credible. I honestly have no idea.

 

[Social-Misfit]

To each his own. I was being honest. Glass houses. I think you guys are better at making a purse out of a sows ear which I do not at whether I can or can't so I am just standing pat and smelling the roses. The joke is which is true that I am overly trusting working girls. I am not just going to bun it up hopelessly at not needing to know them at all, just not a part of my experience. Times are slimmer and happy with less of a headache type of girl anyhow. I will keep trying but I am not enjoying the koolaid with the majority of spa girls lately. So the point of my posts was if I can't spend good money at a somewhat guarantee of a good time why bother and stay with someone nice, I do not trust these girls are that worthwhile even at good sex so a half decent is an angel, I am a little laid up and have a bucket list they are not all bad. You guys like them more but I am not getting it. It is interesting on me not to be to much of an idiotic keyboard warrior, otherwise I am just trying to expand the conversation. Do not know where you guys are coming from and I KNOW it takes all kinds. Gotta check myself too. If the attitude I was getting was jealous I get that. I got alot of guys DMing me trying to find the half decent girls I am into.

genuinely like yer posts buddy, you seem honest I guess, but who am I to judge have no clue about you.
I've argued with a few on here, that are fucking clowns, KB warrior I am not, don't run around threatening people like some of these pussies.
But these women, they are what they are, I get it, most do, and whatever floats yalls boat so be it. Some on here though are looking for love/relationships

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

genuinely like yer posts buddy, you seem honest I guess, but who am I to judge have no clue about you.
I've argued with a few on here, that are fucking clowns, KB warrior I am not, don't run around threatening people like some of these pussies.
But these women, they are what they are, I get it, most do, and whatever floats yalls boat so be it. Some on here though are looking for love/relationships

I totally agree. just looking for your post thought you blocked me or something. It has been a learning experience on this board. I enjoy your posts too.

 

[Social-Misfit]

I totally agree. just looking for your post thought you blocked me or something. It has been a learning experience on this board. I enjoy your posts too.

Nah, I block very few, only the absolute annoyances that DM me constantly, cheers buddy

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Recently I found out an MPA I'm very fond of found a boyfriend a few months ago. I heard this from another girl (she never told me this herself), I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a bit sad to hear this.

However, during all this time, all the things we did in the room never changed. So just goes to show if you end up dating one of these girls, more than likely she will continue to provide her close customers with the same service as before...

If you end up dating an SW it will need to be because you actually like them as people, not just because they please you or they only do certain things with you, or you can be helpful to them. Can you hang out with them and enjoy their company without sex? I suspect that a lot of such relationships are doomed before they start. A shortcoming that I will acknowledge in myself, that is probably true for most people, when the line between intimate friendship and love is crossed, it would bother me too much if a woman was having sex with other people, especially if she liked it. Given my limitations it is much healthier for me to keep things fun and friendly. I really enjoy the combination of sex and intimacy, and an "in spa" friendship that gets better over time, but "love", be it real or fake, screws me up.

 

[ReedIckulous]

If you end up dating an SW it will need to be because you actually like them as people, not just because they please you or they only do certain things with you, or you can be helpful to them. Can you hang out with them and enjoy their company without sex? I suspect that a lot of such relationships are doomed before they start. A shortcoming that I will acknowledge in myself, that is probably true for most people, when the line between intimate friendship and love is crossed, it would bother me too much if a woman was having sex with other people, especially if she liked it. Given my limitations it is much healthier for me to keep things fun and friendly. I really enjoy the combination of sex and intimacy, and an "in spa" friendship that gets better over time, but "love", be it real or fake, screws me up.

How can you develop love feelings for a woman who has sex with so many men? Geez.

 

[Ambler]

How can a woman develop love feelings for a man who pays for sex with so many women? Geez.

 

[I❤️SPAs]

How many times have you said - " It was just sex, I don't love her!"???

 

[OG_funguy]

How can you develop love feelings for a woman who has sex with so many men? Geez.

Damn, I'm guilty of this

To be fair, there are many semi girls out there that don't do sex with customers...

 

[Mantel]

Why is this even a discussion with 9 pages?

No, you can't.
They literally meet 5 (minimum) guys a day, to who knows how many.
They're doing this for good, fast money to survive and of course pay for their expensive brand label riddled lifestyle, let alone their rent/mortgage and car lease.


After you leave the spa, they're right up onto the next guy.

 

[Social-Misfit]

I barely had feelings with women I dated, sure as hell not getting attached to these vaginas

 

[ReedIckulous]

I barely had feelings with women I dated, sure as hell not getting attached to these vaginas

Right? We have to fake feelings to get ‘free’ sex. Why destroy the purity of recreational sex by polluting it with feelings?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

How can you develop love feelings for a woman who has sex with so many men? Geez.

That is easy to say. They are human, as are we. If you have sex with enough people eventually you will find someone you like much more than the others.

 

[OG_funguy]

That is easy to say. They are human, as are we. If you have sex with enough people eventually you will find someone you like much more than the others.

If you hobby frequently and see a lot of girls, eventually you will meet a few that you really like. Then if you see them multiple times, including outside the spa, I think it's natural to develop feelings for them. Yeah, I agree with everyone that it's best to not let it get that far but sometimes easier said than done.

I recently met an MPA and she has been super nice to me. The last time I saw her she handmade a bunch of dumpings for me...and not just a few, like a whole container lol. I had to sneak it out so that the other girls wouldn't start gossiping about us

And no, I'm not under any delusions that I'm the only one getting special treatment but it still feels nice

 

[xtc27]

If you hobby frequently and see a lot of girls, eventually you will meet a few that you really like. Then if you see them multiple times, including outside the spa, I think it's natural to develop feelings for them. Yeah, I agree with everyone that it's best to not let it get that far but sometimes easier said than done.

I recently met an MPA and she has been super nice to me. The last time I saw her she handmade a bunch of dumpings for me...and not just a few, like a whole container lol. I had to sneak it out so that the other girls wouldn't start gossiping about us

And no, I'm not under any delusions that I'm the only one getting special treatment but it still feels nice


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Hafta agree here! If it’s the SEX making u fall in love, then … yeah! Get help!! … but developing some attraction based on personality … even if it’s her personality during fun times… that’s kinda unavoidable if yer a normal human…

I mean… u giggle together & laff about same odd things, share some interest… then even during sex, yer laffing together about that 1st time awkwardness… it’s hard not 2 really treasure a gal like that!

 

[Social-Misfit]

Yeah, maybe, but ya get to an age or realization where you don't want the pain/bullshit that eventually comes with dating one of these women, cause it will come. I learned early on to separate my feelings no matter how sweet these girls are, it's not easy sometimes, but that works for me. Keep the sex what it is, fun, leave it at that

 

[ReedIckulous]

That is easy to say. They are human, as are we. If you have sex with enough people eventually you will find someone you like much more than the others.

There are girls I like enough, but the fakery always stops me from bonding with them. As it should.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

There are girls I like enough, but the fakery always stops me from bonding with them. As it should.

You say that now…