Chat Can you trust spa girls...

[eyeswideshut]

I think if you choose to date a spa girl, you have to have an open relationship where both can fuck other people. Expecting monogamy from either party is ridiculous. Not gonna happen for either of you.

Easier said than done. I think most guys believe they'd be okay with an open relationship until they find themselves in one. Then the doubts start creeping in

Apart from fucking, emotional fidelity is impossible. Sex is always at least a little bit personal.

Right. Even if you can get over the physical part, there are lots of emotional connections made too. Knowing that she has probably got 2 dozen guys she chats with on her phone regularly can also be hard to deal with

 

[eyeswideshut]

You trust the young ones more? What’s the logic here?

I took it to mean that the younger mpas are more likely to tell the truth, if only due to a lack of experience. Once they hit 30 (if not before) they know the ropes and the lies flow easily

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

Easier said than done. I think most guys believe they'd be okay with an open relationship until they find themselves in one. Then the doubts start creeping in



Right. Even if you can get over the physical part, there are lots of emotional connections made too. Knowing that she has probably got 2 dozen guys she chats with on her phone regularly can also be hard to deal with

I like it still Quid quo pro. But she is a decent friend and we are exchanging favors and having a good time together. She had the job before me during me and maybe after me or maybe not. It has been very interesting but still not boyfriend girlfriend it might get mentioned but not for all purposes. I am living with that nicely. Entertaining all these guys that may be better than I say fair enough I am seeing other girls. End of day I definitely do not want to hurt her. Who of each of us is not promiscuous. I am not whitewashing it it is a good practical situation because with friends it is not that possesive still have to be careful. I am sure she is happy to have my business but I am happy to bud around with a hot asian chick who I would qualify as a very serious person.

 

[Ambler]

When I make a connection and feel valued as a customer I trust the lady to appreciate my patronage. When I feel unappreciated I trust my chances of finding a replacement more than enough to offset any feeling of missing out. I bring a positive and fun attitude into the room, and when that is reciprocated I trust that even as a habitual over-tipper I am getting great time and value for my money (as opposed to other service providers like lawyers, accountants, and various consultants). Trust is earned, evidenced through fair give and take, so I do say there are a few ladies I trust that I have met through the hobby. I have few illusions that I am getting something others might not, nor any desire or need to feel that way, comparison is the thief of joy, and I decide to be happy with what I have and get.

 

[I❤️SPAs]

The delusion runs deep on this thread

I believe the idea here is we pay these girls so we can LEAVE, walk away - no strings attached - see ya' next time baby...

If you want or need a GF, there's POF, match.com and lottsa' others. OR, you could even check out the myriad of nightclubs in the GTA where getting laid or even a hand job might not be so easy but would open up a plethora of relationship opportunities!

And then there are the guys with the SOs, maybe they are not having these attachment issues...

Anyway, be careful out there folks, hearts are delicate organs, much more delicate than a hard cock ---------->>

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

The delusion runs deep on this thread

I believe the idea here is we pay these girls so we can LEAVE, walk away - no strings attached - see ya' next time baby...

If you want or need a GF, there's POF, match.com and lottsa' others. OR, you could even check out the myriad of nightclubs in the GTA where getting laid or even a hand job might not be so easy but would open up a plethora of relationship opportunities!

And then there are the guys with the SOs, maybe they are not having these attachment issues...

Anyway, be careful out there folks, hearts are delicate organs, much more delicate than a hard cock ---------->>

Problems with girlfriends is chances are you are not going to get laid so frequently. At least with Quid pro quo it is easier to get out of Dodge if you want. Exit strategies can be deadly.

 

[Dotanuki]

It definitely matters if they feel close to you…unfortunately

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[Satchmo]

It definitely matters if they feel close to you…unfortunately

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And here I thought it was attempted manipulation and control of my $$$$

 

[OG_funguy]

And here I thought it was attempted manipulation and control of my $$$$

It could be…I don’t know your situation

 

[Darke Steele]

Easier said than done. I think most guys believe they'd be okay with an open relationship until they find themselves in one. Then the doubts start creeping in



Right. Even if you can get over the physical part, there are lots of emotional connections made too. Knowing that she has probably got 2 dozen guys she chats with on her phone regularly can also be hard to deal with

No it's not easy. But it's necessary.

 

[kittyhound69]

Unless you can give them the same life style of that kind of money and they quit the job. Even then they have someone on the side. Keep them where they are and enjoy them for who they are.

 

[kittyhound69]

Old quote brother

Look up jack Weinberg

 

[Flyfish86]

I seen a girl today, I have never seen her before so I just went by some reviews and at the end of the session I tip her according to market rate. She looked at me and told me not enough, It was a basic BS and HJ at the end. I think $80 was a good tip. She explained to me that she has gotten $100 from her regulars and this is what she gets paid by everyone.

I can see her frustration and she started to get some what angry. I don’t like confrontation so I paid the $100 and left.

So if the market rate is $$$$. Why do guys paid more than the rate? This was first time experiencing this with someone. I keep hearing Market rate but it seems some are tipping more.

What do some of you guys do if this has happened to you? It’s almost a year now being in this hobby. Guidance will be truly appreciated.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

I seen a girl today, I have never seen her before so I just went by some reviews and at the end of the session I tip her according to market rate. She looked at me and told me not enough, It was a basic BS and HJ at the end. I think $80 was a good tip. She explained to me that she has gotten $100 from her regulars and this is what she gets paid by everyone.

I can see her frustration and she started to get some what angry. I don’t like confrontation so I paid the $100 and left.

So if the market rate is $$$$. Why do guys paid more than the rate? This was first time experiencing this with someone. I keep hearing Market rate but it seems some are tipping more.

What do some of you guys do if this has happened to you? It’s almost a year now being in this hobby. Guidance will be truly appreciated.

They charge everybody different. Take a look at her phone and then you will see. If you are a live one it is more. Usually people who pay the standard rates do not ask for much above and beyond. I find the shittier girl ask for more it is emblematic bad deal bad service. I will give $20 extra at the end because I could see her business model and how well I was doing on it. For me it is a top notch massage that they do not usually give for the same price.

 

[OG_funguy]

I seen a girl today, I have never seen her before so I just went by some reviews and at the end of the session I tip her according to market rate. She looked at me and told me not enough, It was a basic BS and HJ at the end. I think $80 was a good tip. She explained to me that she has gotten $100 from her regulars and this is what she gets paid by everyone.

I can see her frustration and she started to get some what angry. I don’t like confrontation so I paid the $100 and left.

So if the market rate is $$$$. Why do guys paid more than the rate? This was first time experiencing this with someone. I keep hearing Market rate but it seems some are tipping more.

What do some of you guys do if this has happened to you? It’s almost a year now being in this hobby. Guidance will be truly appreciated.

Unfortunately $100 is starting to become more and more common for BS, especially if other stuff like Daty and DFK are involved. There’s still girls that will be fine with $80 but prices are starting to creep up…

 

[Flyfish86]

Unfortunately $100 is starting to become more and more common for BS, especially if other stuff like Daty and DFK are involved. There’s still girls that will be fine with $80 but prices are starting to creep up…

Well thanks for the explanation, i’m not a veteran like you and some members here. I’m still learning the ropes. Appreciate the info.

 

[OG_funguy]

Well thanks for the explanation, i’m not a veteran like you and some members here. I’m still learning the ropes. Appreciate the info.

It still sucks that she showed her frustration with you, the smart (or nice) girls are usually more tactful. Btw, you did say it was a basic BS so it wasn’t like you weren’t being fair…

 

[Deleted member 101953]

I can see her frustration and she started to get some what angry. I don’t like confrontation so I paid the $100 and left.

You should have stick to your guts and give her only 80 and leave. She's angry and frustrated? That's her problem. You don't owe her anything more..Don't be weak to SW's they WILL walk all over you.
She's terrible...Never see her again.

 

[eyeswideshut]

I seen a girl today, I have never seen her before so I just went by some reviews and at the end of the session I tip her according to market rate. She looked at me and told me not enough, It was a basic BS and HJ at the end. I think $80 was a good tip. She explained to me that she has gotten $100 from her regulars and this is what she gets paid by everyone.

I can see her frustration and she started to get some what angry. I don’t like confrontation so I paid the $100 and left.

So if the market rate is $$$$. Why do guys paid more than the rate? This was first time experiencing this with someone. I keep hearing Market rate but it seems some are tipping more.

What do some of you guys do if this has happened to you? It’s almost a year now being in this hobby. Guidance will be truly appreciated.

Unfortunately $100 is starting to become more and more common for BS, especially if other stuff like Daty and DFK are involved. There’s still girls that will be fine with $80 but prices are starting to creep up…

That's happened to me too, but in a slightly nicer way. It does seem that $100 is the expected amount for a bs on an hour session. Maybe $80 is now just for a 30 minute session?

I've also realized that very few mpas try hard to land you as a regular. They seem way more concerned about the next guy who walks through the door. If you do meet one that has that mindset however, it's like a breath of fresh air and for those I'll tip extra

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

Guys let's put everything in proportion. This lady has hard life and making her daily survival by tips. 80 or 100 really does not make difference if you already into this hobby but maybe those 20 dollars make her day brighter. I know this lady personally she is sweetheart. By going to spa we not only coming to enjoy but also helping to the weekest people across population. It is my point of view and we are need them but Victor Charlie don't relate to them like lowest level people. This lady who we are talking about. She is very talented painter

Daily survival. They get 5 hh sessions a day which is way lowballing it for 5 days a week that is over $100000 cash a year which is like $200000 gross. More than the prime minister. They are not struggling to make a living they just do not like it if your cheap or not uncommonly they are greedy. End of the day it is a half decent deal for both sides.