Could you sit and waite for your wife?

[govind]

Here is the question,
Your wife works at a some what high mileage asian MP.
You are waiting for her in the next room, while she is with a customer!
Could you sit and waite for her??
I just saw this the other day, please don't ask the place, that is not the question.
When I walked in, a guy was sitting and waiting, I asked the MPA who opened the door, if he was waiting for her, that I could come back, she said no, he was waiting for the other girl, his wife!
I said his wife, she just smiled and nodded her head!
Only two girls working there and I could hear the noise in the other room from the hall way!
I don't understand how a person could do that??
This is very very confusing for me??

 

[barhopper]

Some guys get off on that shit.

 

[old cat lady]

Yeah... I remember one friend that loved it when guys hit on his girlfriend. He liked the fact that he had something other guys wanted.

 

[Pompal 09.]

We should all admire the guy who was waiting for his wife at an MP. They obviously had a very open relationship which they didn't hide their secret from one another. How many of us, hobbies behind our SO's back? As mentioned in a previous thread, an MPA is also a job although it may not be a regular job that a lot of people would accept as normal, nevertheless, it is a JOB!!! My point is who are we to judge? As long as they, the husband and wife , accept this is the way they want to make a living, I don't see any problem with it. Although as a client, I might be worry if I knew my MPA's husband is waiting for her in the lobby.

 

[Jovita]

I'd get off on the idea that I'm being pleasured while her husband is in the next room.
However, I'd be angry with him if he doesn't have a job while sending her out to work this way, as I suspect is the case.

 

[A pocket full of stones]

I know this is the massage board, but I had similar occurance at an asian incall, where the guy that answered the door and showed me the only girl working was his wife! I didn't know this till I was leaving when she said "honey we're done let him out" then I looked back at her and she smiled and then I looked at him and he just put his head down and opened the door.

 

[WilliamAspeplyHili]

Yeah they're called "voyeurs" but this guy wasn't even a voyeur. He was outside with the door closed probably wondering if his wife is giving the customer any extras.

Ciao,

VT

 

[tessa wessa]

At one point last summer I had a now retired girl's BF PMing me to find out what his GF was doing in the rooms.

I finally told him to chill out, that I was PAYING to see her and he was getting ALOT more than I was.... for FREE.

I know they broke up and his parting gift was slashing her tires, so I guess he really couldn't handle it. LOL

Several MPA's have discussed their BF's with me, and not ONE of them really knew what the girls did besides "work in a bar" etc. While I'm a big one for honesty, both professionally and personally, my advice to all the girls has been NOT to say anything. The VAST majority of men wouldn't take the truth very well and I'd be afraid for the girl's safety if he found out...

 

[1+1=3]

Sounds like he was waiting for the money/pay check and not his wife.

 

[Justsurfinthru]

I'd like to hear from more Asian men on this subject.

Sex is treated differently in Asian socities. It's unfortunately not unusual for the wife to work in the trade in Asia. It's income. Might not be what anyone in the family wants, but a reality.

It's different when it pays the grocery bills and rent for a family.

Not nice, but for some people it is reality. I guess your pride has to be swallowed when the wife can make more in a MP thatn you can. How many mouth's need to be fed. I think some of these folks are making sure they're kids are fed..and you know...in an odd way I realy respect them.


It's not what they want but they will do whatever they have to to ensure their kids have it better than them.

M2

 

[Shire Boy]

For those that do, I'm sure there're good reasons and I'm not here to judge.

I'm Asian. I can't say whether opinion of the Asian male population but it is of GT's.

a) I don't share whether its GF/SO/wife.
b) If I can't afford to provide for her or raise kids, I rather grow old alone. Perhaps bit of ego/pride. I'm not noble, just a promise to myself while young so my dependants in a safe/healthy environment.
c) If she's already in biz, I'll steer her away.

Ok, end of Goodtime preaching...