Cousins girlfriend

[snoopdoggie]

She must be pretty dam good if "Homerun" had her twice.

 

[bl1tz]

Dude this is not about you.
Are you married? If yes then that's a little different lol.
Fuck he's feelings. What if he ends up marrying this girl and having kids with her? His feelings will pale compare to what's going to happen to him years down the line.
I wouldn't let any girls do that to a friend let alone a family member.
Keep in mind to that she might end up telling him down the line.
I don't want to get in too deep with this and run the risk to offend anyone. Just take it from experience that this situation will not work out with a happy ending.

 

[Homerun001]

Can you g

Can you give us a review of this lady? Many thanks.

Snoop .. lol .. you made me smile for the first time today since this happened.

 

[Buzzkill]

Makes you wonder how many guys here have had her too...

 

[bl1tz]

Now please let us have a review.
I'm interested

 

[TheKWguy]

Dude this is not about you.
Are you married? If yes then that's a little different lol.
Fuck he's feelings. What if he ends up marrying this girl and having kids with her? His feelings will pale compare to what's going to happen to him years down the line.
I wouldn't let any girls do that to a friend let alone a family member.
Keep in mind to that she might end up telling him down the line.
I don't want to get in too deep with this and run the risk to offend anyone. Just take it from experience that this situation will not work out with a happy ending.

It's just dating. He's not shacking up or proposing. it's 3 months in.

Lets say he met a girl but she's a tinder fanatic. Plenty of women, like Mila who cut their services down to MPA limits once they get into a serious relationship. I know others that have an open relationship. It may not end well, but that's a MAY. give it some time

 

[bl1tz]

Makes you wonder how many guys here have had her too...

Yah that too. The poor guy is probably banging her raw lol

 

[snoopdoggie]

Snoop .. lol .. you made me smile for the first time today since this happened.

Glad to put a smile on your face. But I wouldn't say anything. She's just doing this temporarily for extra cash. I'm sure she won't be doing it forever. How long have you known her?
As long as she's not doing bbfs, and uncovered bjs, there's nothing to worry about.

 

[TheKWguy]

For a bunch of hobbist you guys are being very closed minded about this. It's work, I know people have preferences but it's work. We are all part of this industry....

She's doing a job, a hard job. Why can't people have a life to while doing that job?

 

[justagigalo]

If I might make a suggestion if you know where it was she worked make an appointment and go talk to her just let her know you wont say anything if she is being straight with him. She may not even be doing it anymore. It soinds as if he has enough to deal IE I will bet child support so I would bet cash would not be something she could get and well if she drives a BEAMER she may want a normal life.

 

[Homerun001]

Seriously though, imagine your a regular divorced guy with 2 kids. Every day you grind and then you help a beautiful lady out and bam she thinks your a gentleman, a guy that isn't after her pussy, that treats her well. They hit it off, click all that jazz.

You come around and you tell him. He's going to sit there worried about her, worried about their relationship, about all the dicks/guys/service the seedy underbelly of this industry. You think he'll be able to come back from that? What you should be worried about is her reading the thread

Honestly.. If she is reading the thread I hope she is thinking about telling him .. I really want to confront her and talk to her and convince her to tell him if he does not know . I think it would only be a matter of time before he finds out on his own and then her calling me out.. if she can come clean then it would relieve me about worrying about this and forget about the whole damn thing and move on .. cuz plans on bringing her to family Canada day bbq and i may pass if this is still going on. It was really hard seeing her today in a normal setting with the thoughts in the back of my mind ..

 

[snoopdoggie]

I still wouldn't worry about it if I were you. It's only a 3 month relationship so far. If it becomes a serious one year relationship, and shes still doing it, then I might start to worry.

 

[Buzzkill]

Honestly.. If she is reading the thread I hope she is thinking about telling him .. I really want to confront her and talk to her and convince her to tell him if he does not know . I think it would only be a matter of time before he finds out on his own and then her calling me out.. if she can come clean then it would relieve me about worrying about this and forget about the whole damn thing and move on .. cuz plans on bringing her to family Canada day bbq and i may pass if this is still going on. It was really hard seeing her today in a normal setting with the thoughts in the back of my mind ..

Was there any kind of acknowledgement between you and her? These girls see so many dudes, I doubt they remember all of them.

 

[TheKWguy]

Honestly.. If she is reading the thread I hope she is thinking about telling him .. I really want to confront her and talk to her and convince her to tell him if he does not know . I think it would only be a matter of time before he finds out on his own and then her calling me out.. if she can come clean then it would relieve me about worrying about this and forget about the whole damn thing and move on .. cuz plans on bringing her to family Canada day bbq and i may pass if this is still going on. It was really hard seeing her today in a normal setting with the thoughts in the back of my mind ..

Let it be, she will tell him eventually and it's their own private matter. There are very few truly coldhearted evil people in this world. Things MAY not end well but it won't be any different then if you told him now and forced the issue.

Was there any kind of acknowledgement between you and her? These girls see so many dudes, I doubt they remember all of them.

They remember. I've see girls outside and they definitely remember. I've seen them when they move to a different shop and they also remember. I remembered them so why can't they remember me?

 

[Homerun001]

Glad to put a smile on your face. But I wouldn't say anything. She's just doing this temporarily for extra cash. I'm sure she won't be doing it forever. How long have you known her?
As long as she's not doing bbfs, and uncovered bjs, there's nothing to worry about.

Only seen her twice .. very nice older woman and some good conversations. She indicated that she has been in the biz for a few years. Things did not go beyond a HE as extras were not discussed.. only have intentions to try and talk to her .. unless she tells me where to go .

 

[playfulfun]

Talk to the girl and let her know that you know that she is an MPA
Tell her she needs to tell your cousin what she does.
She will either tell him or leave him.
it is better that it is confronted now, you never know he may have met her as an MPA.

A friend of mine son was dating an SP and I recognized her,
I had a talk with her and she came clean with him.
He was angry at me for a few weeks but once he got over the agony of lost love he thanked me.

 

[Homerun001]

Was there any kind of acknowledgement between you and her? These girls see so many dudes, I doubt they remember all of them.

I am pretty sure she remembered me . We had a good conversation the last time I saw her..

 

[TheKWguy]

Talk to the girl and let her know that you know that she is an MPA
Tell her she needs to tell your cousin what she does.
She will either tell him or leave him.
it is better that it is confronted now, you never know he may have met her as an MPA.

A friend of mine son was dating an SP and I recognized her,
I had a talk with her and she came clean with him.
He was angry at me for a few weeks but once he got over the agony of lost love he thanked me.

I don't understand the logic or the fear. That she would use him for money or something? or that she was dangerous?

 

[Buzzkill]

I am pretty sure she remembered me . We had a good conversation the last time I saw her..

You’ve got us all wondering who it is?

 

[TheKWguy]

Your dating an professional, a seasoned warrant officer. You know that she has done questionable things with a weapon overseas. She may even have issues that come up mentally or physically because of her posting. What's the difference here? it's a job.

I've only fallen once for an industry girl and the only thing I agree with you is that it's the lying that hurts. I never cared about what their job was, who they saw or what they did. I cared that they thought it was better to lie about it.

Their relationship will fix itself, your better off standing to the side. Do not listen to any advice to go find her.