european vs thai

[Jocelyn]

I would LOVE that my wife shags somebody else!
QUOTE]

Hi tintin,

I have read probably all your posts since you joined this forum.
This latest one has convinced me you should not be married.
What a crazy statement to make (your quote)
You openly fcuk BG s with your wifes happy consent? And you say she is happy with this !
Is she staying with you because you are wealthy? because I just cannot see another reason to do so.You are unfaithful.Your marriage vows mean nothing to you
I just don't understand this scenario at all :thumbsdow

 

[walt17jr]

Hi Tintin,

Saying as everybody is having a go at you, I will jump on the bandwagon

The only thing that I have picked up out of all of this is this one thing. You are always telling us your marriage is perfect etc...
It wouldnt be something that I would do (wife swapping etc) but each to their own. What other people do doesnt bother me, but the thing that I cant understand is you said everything is great with your wife -

Then how come you fell in love with this girl fom Karon?

Something must not be 100% if you fall in love with someone else. Just sex I can understand, but falling in love with another - ???????

 

[Vicki <3 my little chubba]

Simple really....

If a poor girl is seen with a farang....she's labelled a *****
If a rich girl is seen with a farang....she is sophisticated.

Typical stereotypical double standards...the world is full of this shit

 

[Paul in San Diego]

Ha-ha, can't get me angry folks! I am too much a bastard for that!!! :blah:

But I have to admit one thing, I am getting a bit tired of going to Los alone!
I planned my November -trip and I am thinking of canceling it. Had my fun in my midlife-crissis, my wife is still 36, looks longer, perfect slim body and we are doing it every day! With the sun out here every day, i am horny as hell, and I agree that no Thai girl can replace her!



Here in France many guys have mistreses, even the former French President, had a girl with another woman then his own!

Well my relation last for 17 years now and I never f***** a woman without paying, just to feel another woman and be excited by another body and sex with somebody else!

Yes I felt in love in January with a Thai girl ! I would never left my wife for her, but I was like hypnotized! Came back for her 3 months later and she (luckily) dropped me! My wife has her head on her shoulder, never panicked, because she know that I am in that crazy midlife crissis.

As I am handicaped, I don't have to work, so all year i take care of the 3 children 7, 6 and one year old. In november she goes to see her friends in Belgium for a week and I am keeping them.

So if WE think it's ok that I screw a bit around, because in winter I am a bit borred, that is just the way it is folks! And don't get fustrated like that! :aan: :aan: :aan:

To my wife I say: thank you honey, you know you are my biggest love, and love is being honest to each other and accept each ones desires! :heart:

But if she wouldn't accept it I would....stay home!

I will not get into this discussion anymore, everything is been said! :biggrinlo

But whatever about Thai girls, thailand food, drinks is welcome!

 

[Tino {20}]

OK tintin,
Subject closed
I will still gladly share a beer with you anytime we should meet in LOS :cheers:

Dawsey

 

[windy gurl]

TINTIN,
I have a few things to say to you:

1) I have to give you a lot of credit for being able to totally keep cool when
being attacked by others.
2) Whatever you and your wife think is all that matters as far your
relationship, and what your sexual practices are with yourselves or anyone else. Too many couples let what other people think hurt their relationship.
3)"Love is being honest with each other and accepting one another's desires,"
A very wise and true observation, I think. Honesty and acceptance are certainly important components of a healthy loving relationship. I applaud your capacity for insight into human relationships.

Having said that, your smugness can be just a bit annoying at times, so you'll need to understand this and make allowances for the fact that it sometimes upsets people a bit.

P.S. Feel free to ignore this question, as perhaps it is a little out of place for rme to ask :embrassed , but if you don't mind the question, then I am curious to know. What is your handicap? It is obviously nothing that would detract from a healthy sex life!!!!!

 

[Buddha]

Had two heart-operations, the 2 nd one live or die, never performed in Europe!

Very long revelidation, but ok now!

It was followed by the negociation of the brain to make any serotonine, all due the long period being between life and dead. So i have to take pills every day to make some, otherwise I cannot function and certainly not go to LOS

Some periods, years ok, other periods, have to change pills, not so ok!!! :mad2:

I have to avoid stress, the doctors have forbidden any kind of work etc.

What is weird, most of the people are very depressed having this, not me! :biggrinlo.



Yep I understand, but my greatest achievement in life is after all being happy!!! :happyi:

 

[njknjk]

You can always choose to stay in that world!

I read a very amusing article about a songwriter, who moved to Los.

Except the (older) Belgians nobody will recall him.

Lou and the Hollywood bananas: Kingston, Kingston and many others!

Well he is 55, bought a house in Pataya, has an 32 year old Thai girl -friend, who sleeps with him 3 days a week, the other 4, he is screwing around.

He has every week a party, by the pool, with a sign: no bikinis please!

He even installed dancing-pillar for the girls, wich he takes home never one at the time. he even tried LB's and loves them, even take them with him, when he is doing a small gig somewhere.

Well this is now his every day life, of course not everybody can afford this!!!

But...I guess the guys is happy!

For Belgians: Deze week in den Humo!

Meaning the magazine where they can find it! :biggrinlo

 

[amee G]

Hi Tintin congrats on making it through I agree with some of what Jaybee has to say but it's a free world so go hard.

Serotonine boosting is what a certain little pill used by clubbers does.

 

[Just_curious]

Wow Freud's got nothing on you Jaybee.

The main problem is when you are in LOS you don't have to work the weather is usually good you have an excessive amount of cash in your wallet and it seems like every girl is willing to give you her undivided attention.

Of course this is a false reality and who doesn't want to be king even if the reign is short lived.

Better to be king for a day than never a king at all.

 

[Wesley M]

Being happy is a great achievement! :thumbsup: Good luck in the future to you and your wife and children!! If I criticize you at any time in the the future, I will do so with the knowledge that it will not upset you!!

 

[shedaisyluv]

TRUE JASON ...........SO VERY TRUE..........................
WE ALL FEEL LIKE THAT IN LOS.....AND NOBODY CAN TAKE IT AWAY FROM US.............
JONNY

 

[Pashy]

Ha ha!

Hi Jaybee,

I never fitted into my society in the first place!

All my friends, and the guys I know in the local pubs are absolutely gobsmacked with some of the stuff I come out with. Even after knowing me for years some of the stuff shocks them.

I remember when I had come back from LOS after my second trip. I had absolutely no interest in falang women. About 8 of us went out on the drink to the main party area where I live. It was a good laugh, and towards the end of the night the lads wanted to go and see some strippers. I had just had 6 weeks of ping-pong shows, canaries, firing darts etc, and to watch some flabby white women making a tit of herself on seforum.xxxe just didnt interest me. Anyway, the place was crammed with men all eager to see some naked flesh. The last stripper came out in an army uniform with a whip. I was totally bored. The lads I was with were loving it. The stripper came out to work the audience......

Who did she decide to pick on? - Big lad with a bored expression on his face... The lads loved it as she homed in on me. She got the whip and took each end in her hands, then looped it over my body so she could pull me closer to her. She held me close to her body and then hooked her leg up the side and round the back of mine. Quick as a flash I stuck my finger up her ass, pulled it out, then put it straight under my nose and said "That stinks".

I've never seen a stripper lost for words before, but that night she met her match The lads all hit the floor in hysterics.

After that, we went for a curry. After we had finished our curry, the tinted chappy brought out hot towels for us. I took one and shoved it down the front of my pants and give my genitalia a good clean, then went to hand the towel back to the indian chappy My friend still has a photo of it on his camera phone.

LOS is full of misfits who dont belong in 'normal society' in the western world. Im glad to say im one of them

 

[Dawn S]

Yeah what Mike said :what: dealing with same problem here, hard to sit here and read stuff like this,[/QUOTE]


Not an easy thing to explain. But if you look back at TINTIN's post, he says "it was like I was hypnotized." I understand what he means. There is probably a psychological treatise about it somewhere, but I will call it "reality transference." By this I mean that when your body is transferred to a greatly different environment, a place unlike that from whence you came, different sounds, sights, smells, different people and different rules and attitudes towards life, then your sense of reality is transferred along with your body. Your new environment becomes a new reality, and the old reality of the life you came from seems like the unreal world. It is new reality versus old reality, and the new reality dominates the mind because it is there, 24/7, imposing upon your mind its own agenda. You react to the things that are happening around you and the people around you as if there is no other reality.

At the end of my 2nd tour, when I walked down Rat-U-Thit(Main St.), I felt like it was my hometown, the sights, sounds, shops, everything seemed so familiar, so normal, yet so exciting and wonderful. The tears welled up in my eyes as I thought about it. It was hard for me to comprehend that the next day it would all be gone. My sense of reality was fully transferred to that world. The people I had befriended were all Thais on that trip, and they seemed like the people closest to me, who understood me the most, in spite of the fact that they barely spoke English, and I spoke almost no Thai. The transition back to life in America after 2 months there was gruelling. If it had been entirely up to me, I would not have returned to US. Upon arriving back in America, it was America that seemed strange and foreign to me.

Some people are more susceptible to this phenomenon than others. To some, they never lose the sense that this is just a holiday, and they stay firmly rooted in the reality from which they came, looking at everything as curious, foreign, exotic, and not of their world. When they return home, it is with the feeling of "Home Sweet Home," nice vacation, but so good to be back home. But to those who are susceptible, they quickly become absorbed in, and see themselves as part of the world in which they find themselves in LOS. Look for a thread from a month or two ago that MikeGB started called "Life-changing experiences." He and some others explain how their lives were completely changed and have never been the same after a trip to LOS.

To those of us who have experienced what I am talking about, the transition back to Western society is very difficult. The longer the time spent there and the more trips, the harder it is to fully transition back to our homelands. The regular BMs who come here everyday, come here largely because it is a refuge from our daily lives. We feel fullly alive when in LOS. In Falangland, we go to work, do our jobs, blend in, and seem like normal guys who enjoy their vacations. But we are really misfits, because we've never been 100% successful in re-entering our own society. We think a lot about LOS, but can't talk to our friends and familly about it, because they think we are really weird and obssessed if we do, so we learn not to.
This forum is like a therapy group for those of us who suffer the Post-LOS Blues, which we recover from to the extent that we can function well, but in our hearts, it is the knowledge that we will go back to LOS that keeps us going.

Your husband is probably one of those who is very susceptible to the phenomenon of "reality transference," which I described. That explains how he could fall in love with someone else. Because at the time it happened, his reality was the world in which he found himself. She was part of the present "real world." You were part of some other, distant, seemingly unreal, past world. It is your task to make sure what has happened to us doesn't happen to your husband. mg: Good luck!! :thumbsup:

 

[Spenny]

I prefer a picture of a nice TG, instead of this!

Mike you are really too dirty! You made me laugh a lot, but this is really disgusting uke:

Won't hold it against you though

Like I said before, this is one who hasn't stolen his name

 

[happygirl888]

ONLY YOU MIKEE..............I WOULD LOVED TO HAVE SEEN THE LOOK ON THEIR FACES...........
GREAT STORY PAL................
JONNY

 

[LadyJaneGrey]

boy, it must be fun to party with u !!!
by the way, what about the stripper, after u emarrased her with fingering her ass ???
im really curious
long live mike gb !!!
:cheers:

 

[NevermoreFairy]

Hi Joe,

It was just a look of horror and disgust

Mind you, I made sure I didnt bite my finger nails after that

 

[fishbarn]

I HOPE YOU AYOUR HANDS BEFORE YOU WENT FOR THE CURRY .............

 

[Aviram]

There can only be one DM.